I think it’s definitely more of a male fantasy. Don’t get me wrong I like having sex with other men. You have to realize as say my husband that insulting your cock is insulting my cock so to speak. I like a manly man who fucks and acts like a man. Yes I’ll sleep with other men but it is a cpl‘s thing, you do it together even if you do it apart. Who is there waiting when you get home or watched whatever. That’s the last cock and I want a man, not a grovelling pussy in a cage or some guy hellbent on me tormenting him and his limp dick. But that’s just my opinion, each to there own and everybody is different