That is NOT the simple part, it is actually the HARDEST part, because one side of the table doesn't seem to feel vindicated, and the other side of the table doesn't seem to understand ... its easier to get harsh with language, point fingers, toss up the hands and walk away because neither side feels they should GIVE an inch ... not everyone that is black or white WANTS this resolved. And THEY are the ones that teach the little ones to carry on the hate. Its got to start at a very early AGE. The young ******* growing UP need to look at the older folks and shake their OWN heads and say DAD, MOM ... you're WRONG, its NOT like that anymore.