Hubbies & BFs' Jealous Tendencies

[willsrvu]

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Oops! I hope he checked around to make sure there weren't any issues of "Rifleman", "Guns and Ammo" or NRA decals anywhere around the house.

Not the smartest attitude to have, unless it is part of a scene with a couple you already know who are into it.

 

[ncsissy]

I used to be jealous and horny at the same time when it happened. Eventually I learned to get go of the jealousy and just appreciate it.

 

[Sana Alam]

My boyfriend even though is turned on by it , now is starting to get jealous a lot.

 

[Dsoul]

My boyfriend even though is turned on by it , now is starting to get jealous a lot.

Probably cos he wants you to tell him to quit whinning!

 

[mac5489]

more jealous if shes not honest about where or who she was with ... i love her exploring her sexualality but i dont wanna be left out

 

[rocuck]

This is an important topic. In my opinion jealousy is almost always part of being a cuckold. You are jealous that your wife is having sex and you are not. You are jealous of the black man who is just frankly better than you. But I don't see this as a bad thing. It is an erotic thing if you, as a cuckold, you accept your defeat as it were and submit to being cuckolded. For this to work for real the wife needs to enjoy humiliating her husband to some extent and to love to tease him, not please him. The cuckold needs to be humiliated and needs to enjoy the helpless feeling that comes with that. Most importantly, the black man needs to be satisfied on a sexual and psychological basis. This is the key element. It is first about him and his needs. He needs not only the wife but he needs to be able to experience the frustration and submisssion of the cuckold. In my opinion this equals respect. For me the best times are the non-sexual times when your wife is hugging her man or getting dressed for him or talking to him. These little moments generate the most jealousy and are the most erotic. Anyways, thanks to all for the comments on this. I say bring on more jealousy just as long as it all ends up as it should with the cuckold teased and not pleased.
rocuck

 

[Dsoul]

more jealous if shes not honest about where or who she was with ... i love her exploring her sexualality but i dont wanna be left out

Yeah, that would be cheating.

 

[Hedonist Ninja]

Jealously is a sign of laziness in my opinion.If I ever was jealous of another man for how he was tagging a girl, I'd take it as a cue to improve myself and better what I could do as a man and lover.

Of course that is 100% way to simple to define all that is going on within a relationship.To call it being lazy is incomplete.

To some, jealously is even a turn out. This is akin to 'angry sex' or the make up sex after a couple has had a fight. There is SO much tension there from something that had powerful, but negative, emotions built up. From that build up, it gets channeled into the creative ******* (fucking/sex) and that is makes the release so much hotter.

The brain is very plastic and the same signals of anger and fear and be swapped for joy and lust with a little reinterpretation or even misinterpretation. There is so much energy built up, it can be moved or sexualized and applied that way

I have actually never been jealous of another man for his sexual endowments nor manners in bed. I have been jealous of some people in other areas. When that was happening, for about a full year, I at last learned to work hard and work correct to get what I wanted and stop wasting my energy secretly hating. Again, that was not sexual and sex matters CAN be so much different. A theme is there nonetheless.

Ever read the myth of Τάνταλος? That is where the word tantalizing stems from... To tempt and to tantalize is also so very close to the same mechanism that makes one experience jealously. Both jealously and that which is tantalizing are in their core arousal mechanisms. Some people need different stimulation.

The same strip tease that can get a man hard is the same one that can blue ball him if the girl does not give some head to the guy soon after. The striptease is not to blame- the context and follow up make all the difference in the outcome. So too with turn ons vs jealously.

There was an older but good book. It was called 'Jealousy' and is written by famous author Nancy Friday. That book looks down many avenues in respect to jealously and it's power.

Jealously is even a connection to others. It is not proper intimacy, but still is is a longing to be with another or be part of some action. We all have the need to be connected and to feel included.

Some hubbies get jealous of the sex (IR or white white guys like me or other men) when they don't originate themselves and wild up feeling excluded from the bedroom fun. Sure, the lover can beat down the wife's pussy better then hubby can [in many cases] but hubby is STILL a part of the game and is still connected to the fun; not apart from it. If his mind is correct and lets him be so in a good way.

Don't be jealous, be joyous!

 

[Hedonist Ninja]

My husband never gets jealous when I am having sex with my boyfriends. If I don't spend some time with him afterwards then he gets a little bitchy.

As it should be.

Your black lovers may wreck, and stretch and use your pussy. They may do so in ways your husband can't.

Still, at day's end they use your pussy. Your husband owns it. You two took a vow and traded rings. As any good and loving owner, he wants to see the best use for it be had. [wink emoticon or similar]

That is why many guys who do love their women don't mind seeing her get dicked up and down raw. They love it really.
There is no threat to the connection and relationship you two forded. With some couples who were just dating and such, I have seen the woman leave for a superior lover.

There was an absence of a vow and of a deeper interchange between those two people however. When there is no threat there is usually no jealous. So all that remains is the great and wild, raw sex action!

Who does not love to see a hot woman coming on a big dick? Hello! That is why porno always sells!

It would seem to be difficult to be jealous in that exact moment when she comes like a wet whirlwind from his dick and from that fucking. In that moment her energy is too mighty to feel any other feeling but excitement, hers and yours and all combined, if you are in the room also with her.

Who is his right mind would really be jealous of that and want to deprive a woman of that thrill? To any one who has not, try and it then answer. Some matters can't be written about but should be experienced firstly.

If some man does want to halt that: That is stupidity and not jealously if that is the case, in my view.

 

[Dsoul]

This is the key element. It is first about him and his needs. He needs not only the wife but he needs to be able to experience the frustration and submisssion of the cuckold. In my opinion this equals respect. For me the best times are the non-sexual times when your wife is hugging her man or getting dressed for him or talking to him. These little moments generate the most jealousy and are the most erotic. Anyways, thanks to all for the comments on this. I say bring on more jealousy just as long as it all ends up as it should with the cuckold teased and not pleased.
rocuck

Good to know you agree totally, rocuck.
How's the wife been treating you?

 

[Slipper]

She has fucked some other men and I have not been jealous just turned on. I would love her to spread her lets for black men!

 

[jcjr]

I got real jelious when i saw him pounding her and then the deep kissing shes always beeen the very conservative type

 

[Dsoul]

I got real jelious when i saw him pounding her and then the deep kissing shes always beeen the very conservative type

That's cos he was giving her something you couldn't give ... and that's what Black men are for.

 

[michelle sd]

That's cos he was giving her something you couldn't give ... and that's what Black men are for.

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i don't get jealous of my wife i am envious of her because she got to serve her Black Master or Black Boyfriend. i know i can't give her what they can, i just want to serve her Black Boyfrien or Black Master too.

 

[PalePigBoy]

I used to get jealous when my ex shaved her pussy as it was a sign that she would be going out, to deal with it while she was out I would either cum on a pair of her panties or high heels. I did ask her once if she would shave her pussy for me before I gave her oral but she said no.

 

[NEHIGHLANDER]

I do get jealous feelings when I see her enjoying herself with black lovers. That is more than offset by how incredibly erotic I think it is to see Amie fucking and sucking them. So far she has not gone out and met them without me being there (as far as I know!) and I think if she did it would make me more jealous than watching the act.
What made me jealous and shocked me at first was how submissive she was to them and allowed them to do anything to her. When she let them fuck her ass it floored me because she had not allowed me to do her ass even after several years of marriage but she let an almost complete stranger have her rear end. She says she just cannot say no to a black man. The good thing is she now lets me do her anally. Another thing that bothered me early on was that she let all of them do her bareback.
She is on birth control so there is little chance she would be bred but the idea of them shooting their loads inside her gave me feelings of jealousy but also turned me as well as her on to the maximum.

 

[wimp hubby]

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To the white hubbies in here: Knowing that your woman is out there enjoying herself with her Black Bull, or even when she does eventually return home with them, do any of you ever get that jealous tendency running through your veins when you're watching them happy together?
How do you deal with it?

i never could handle it easily.

 

[wimp hubby]

This is an important topic. In my opinion jealousy is almost always part of being a cuckold. You are jealous that your wife is having sex and you are not. You are jealous of the black man who is just frankly better than you. But I don't see this as a bad thing. It is an erotic thing if you, as a cuckold, you accept your defeat as it were and submit to being cuckolded. For this to work for real the wife needs to enjoy humiliating her husband to some extent and to love to tease him, not please him. The cuckold needs to be humiliated and needs to enjoy the helpless feeling that comes with that. Most importantly, the black man needs to be satisfied on a sexual and psychological basis. This is the key element. It is first about him and his needs. He needs not only the wife but he needs to be able to experience the frustration and submisssion of the cuckold. In my opinion this equals respect. For me the best times are the non-sexual times when your wife is hugging her man or getting dressed for him or talking to him. These little moments generate the most jealousy and are the most erotic. Anyways, thanks to all for the comments on this. I say bring on more jealousy just as long as it all ends up as it should with the cuckold teased and not pleased.
rocuck

u r truly right.
i feel it under my skin as a wimp hubby.

 

[Dsoul]

It's more a journey of rebirth. Once the cuck hubby has being through the fire of seeing his wife submit before another man... The hubby becomes reborn with her.

 

[cuckolded wimp]

This is an important topic. In my opinion jealousy is almost always part of being a cuckold. You are jealous that your wife is having sex and you are not. You are jealous of the black man who is just frankly better than you. But I don't see this as a bad thing. It is an erotic thing if you, as a cuckold, you accept your defeat as it were and submit to being cuckolded. For this to work for real the wife needs to enjoy humiliating her husband to some extent and to love to tease him, not please him. The cuckold needs to be humiliated and needs to enjoy the helpless feeling that comes with that. Most importantly, the black man needs to be satisfied on a sexual and psychological basis. This is the key element. It is first about him and his needs. He needs not only the wife but he needs to be able to experience the frustration and submisssion of the cuckold. In my opinion this equals respect. For me the best times are the non-sexual times when your wife is hugging her man or getting dressed for him or talking to him. These little moments generate the most jealousy and are the most erotic. Anyways, thanks to all for the comments on this. I say bring on more jealousy just as long as it all ends up as it should with the cuckold teased and not pleased.
rocuck

Rocuck, you are so right, i do get jealous, but hey who cares, its about the blackman getting the utmost pleasure and its his needs that must be met. And the slut wives are only interested in pleasing him first, then her own pleasure. The cuckold wimp hubby WHO CARES