How to have a hotwife and not get jealous?

You have to look at it as just sex, because that's all it is in reality. Having been in this lifestyle for almost 20 years I can tell you that's step one. If you and your wife have a strong relationship you will be just fine.
We’ve been in the lifestyle about the same amount of time. We agree that a strong relationship is the base of finding a deeply fulfilling relationship or enjoyable rendavous.
 
Hello, looking for advice on how to not get jealous when you have a hotwife. We are getting into the style and know that when the bbc is deep in her pounding her to the most intense orgasms of her life and I am hearing her begging for more, how can I avoid the jealous feeling? Do other couples/husbands have any advice on what you are thinking while watching your wife cum harder than ever with a black man?
Here's a good tip... have her suck the bulls big black cock... then when she's getting pounded you focus on her. Hold her ha d and kiss her passionately. Why get jealous she .asking ur wife happy and euphoric.
 
Here's a good tip... have her suck the bulls big black cock... then when she's getting pounded you focus on her. Hold her ha d and kiss her passionately. Why get jealous she .asking ur wife happy and euphoric.
Its part of the lifestyle you dont let it het to.you First tslking is a must. Just think.of the pleasure she is getting ..It can come back.to you ten times over . Most women when they become.Hotwifes they want to Fuck more talk about it and when she comes home Fuck her like you nevet had in most cases she will.wamt itore
WHEN my wife became a hotwife she dreesed up.more even when we went out together. When she got dressed to go out to fuck . It turned me on more so when she came home we really got going. Some times when she cones home dont make love to her FUCK HER SHE WILL LOVE THE FACT THAT YOUR FUCKING HER ITS LIKE A CONTINUEATION OF WHAT SHE WAS JUST DOING
 
I can definitely agree with that. I prefer the videos where she is holding her husband's hand and making eye contact. A lot of videos I see though have the wife getting BBC and it is like the husband doesn't exist at all. She is fully focused on the bull and doesn't acknowledge the husband's presence in the room. Is this common in the lifestyle and is it a bad thing for couples?
 
I’m going to be absolutely honest. Jealousy is part of the equation of being absolutely perfect. You know that you’re encouraging your wife to let you watch her with a black man that’s easily bigger than you. If she is showing you what you wanted to see her do is a blessing and curse. The percentage of mwf that will actually do is small but if you find that women that will ~ you will find out if you’re a real cuckold or that fantasy is way better that reality
It has nothing to.fo.with blak.or white or size. Its Bput her fullfillment the anticipation on both parys .We have been.in.the lifestyle for about 3 years seeing my wife get dtedsed or hrlp.can be real.defining.. Yes there is a pary of jealousy..bit sex is mental.as well.as physical . The anticipation of her returnimg can be awrdome especially the reclaiming that sex is usually better than the sex they have been them Because that anticipation builds anyour ready to.take her back..
Im
A mans mind its come here im.going to.FUCK.YOU.ILL SHOW UOJ.OM.JUST AS GOOD as the guy that just fucked yoh even.if not its the anticipation of reclaiming her
 
You have to encourage her to try more bulls and try to be supportive. Do not ruin it all by showing her you're jealous. Her pleasure and your support are the most important things in your relationship. Being jealous does not help and ends up badly for you.
Increase the cuckolding. Convince her to try more lovers, be nice to her, tell her that you love her more than ever, take her for dinner to fancy restaurants, buy her presents for no reason, make her feel loved and worshipped as a Goddess because that's what she is. And pray it works.
 
I felt like I owed it to my wife to be able to be sexually satisfied. I knew I couldn’t do it for her.
 
I can definitely agree with that. I prefer the videos where she is holding her husband's hand and making eye contact. A lot of videos I see though have the wife getting BBC and it is like the husband doesn't exist at all. She is fully focused on the bull and doesn't acknowledge the husband's presence in the room. Is this common in the lifestyle and is it a bad thing for couples?
To not get jealous try that delicious BBC for yourself... or tell ur wife you want to share
 
I’m going to be absolutely honest. Jealousy is part of the equation of being absolutely perfect. You know that you’re encouraging your wife to let you watch her with a black man that’s easily bigger than you. If she is showing you what you wanted to see her do is a blessing and curse. The percentage of mwf that will actually do is small but if you find that women that will ~ you will find out if you’re a real cuckold or that fantasy is way better that reality
This.

The jealousy and angst are a huge part of the cocktail. I get super turned on at her level of raw arousal and sexuality and it conflicts with my jealous feelings. The pain plus pleasure mix emotionally is what I love.

Look up the concept of “compersion”. You can get pure joy out of her pleasure when you remove the self-centered ego from the equation.

Communication is also important because she should know your limits clearly and respect you enough to not push them too much further or faster than you’re ready. Most problems arise because the cuck is all “go go go” and didn’t do the inner work to verbalize his needs or limits beforehand and the wife had no way to know she was hurting his feelings in the heat of the moment. Very avoidable.

In BDSM, they have a concept of “aftercare” where the sub gets loved up and reassured after rough play. Cuckolding is essentially emotional BDSM, so we always make sure to have aftercare where we discuss, I can express vulnerabilities and receive reassurances as needed.
 
As someone who has been in the swinging lifestyle,with my lovely Wife for at least 20 years or so (Before ) She discovered the joys of very well endowed black/ coloured guys.
We had had experienced quite a number of different partners over the years, both together and on many occasions singlet.
We always found that our sex life was heightened by the fact that one of us had been with someone else, or had had different sex ( In My Wifes case with other Woman ).
I always felt, and now We are too old for the lifestyle, She agrees with Me that we never lied to me or , me to Her.
As we got older We had both of us quite a few partners over the years.
However for me the very best sex was always with my Wife, and She always said the same about me.
This all,changed when She got fucked at a swingers party by 2 very well endowed black guys in front of around 40/50 odd people.
The only white guy that She had sex with after that was Me !!!.
She became black only after that.
Now the only time I got jealous was when She spent about 4 days away in Spain with Her boyfriend and I think about 5 of His buddies.
I was requested to let Her go on Her own ( By Her ) to which I reluctantly agreed.
By this time our Children were married with their own homes and lives.
However being on my own and that strange feeling of knowing She was in someone else,s control.
Also knowing She was a submissive exihibitionist, Who just loved to sexually please Men.
Also,that for a 50 year old Woman was extremely attractive for Her age and still very fit.
She had just cycled from London to Brighton the week before.
So I knew She would be agreeing to pretty much anything that they wanted to do with Her.
Whilst I trusted Her main man to look after Her ( Which He always did ) , the apprehensions and that exquisite ******* that many in a similar situation will know.
This,all heightened by by occasional videos sent to me by Her or Him etc.
This increased the delicious torment, I felt.
Then She was on Her way home, Waiting for Her at the arrivals gate at Stansted airport for Her to come through customs, then picking Her up and having Her accompanied by Her black lovers, Who always made sure everyone watching knew that She had been with them all, Which always got Her noticed.
Then just the two of us and the journey home, once She got in the car, and me feeling incredibly horny, wanting to know about Her time away, Which She never said, just a little grin or smile, and the occasional smell of Her hand and sometimes wet finger wiped round my face as I drove.
Then getting Her home and having Her all to myself, And then She would tell me about Her time away, Which always led to an amazing fuck/fucks.
Then Us both telling each other how much We loved each other.
Then slowly over the coming week,She would tell me a bit more, about what turned Her on while She was away, which in turn turned Me on again.
I think my Wife would have been an amazing porn star, If the opportunity had been given to Her, but perhaps it is just as well it was,nt.
 
As someone who has been in the swinging lifestyle,with my lovely Wife for at least 20 years or so (Before ) She discovered the joys of very well endowed black/ coloured guys.
We had had experienced quite a number of different partners over the years, both together and on many occasions singlet.
We always found that our sex life was heightened by the fact that one of us had been with someone else, or had had different sex ( In My Wifes case with other Woman ).
I always felt, and now We are too old for the lifestyle, She agrees with Me that we never lied to me or , me to Her.
As we got older We had both of us quite a few partners over the years.
However for me the very best sex was always with my Wife, and She always said the same about me.
This all,changed when She got fucked at a swingers party by 2 very well endowed black guys in front of around 40/50 odd people.
The only white guy that She had sex with after that was Me !!!.
She became black only after that.
Now the only time I got jealous was when She spent about 4 days away in Spain with Her boyfriend and I think about 5 of His buddies.
I was requested to let Her go on Her own ( By Her ) to which I reluctantly agreed.
By this time our Children were married with their own homes and lives.
However being on my own and that strange feeling of knowing She was in someone else,s control.
Also knowing She was a submissive exihibitionist, Who just loved to sexually please Men.
Also,that for a 50 year old Woman was extremely attractive for Her age and still very fit.
She had just cycled from London to Brighton the week before.
So I knew She would be agreeing to pretty much anything that they wanted to do with Her.
Whilst I trusted Her main man to look after Her ( Which He always did ) , the apprehensions and that exquisite ******* that many in a similar situation will know.
This,all heightened by by occasional videos sent to me by Her or Him etc.
This increased the delicious torment, I felt.
Then She was on Her way home, Waiting for Her at the arrivals gate at Stansted airport for Her to come through customs, then picking Her up and having Her accompanied by Her black lovers, Who always made sure everyone watching knew that She had been with them all, Which always got Her noticed.
Then just the two of us and the journey home, once She got in the car, and me feeling incredibly horny, wanting to know about Her time away, Which She never said, just a little grin or smile, and the occasional smell of Her hand and sometimes wet finger wiped round my face as I drove.
Then getting Her home and having Her all to myself, And then She would tell me about Her time away, Which always led to an amazing fuck/fucks.
Then Us both telling each other how much We loved each other.
Then slowly over the coming week,She would tell me a bit more, about what turned Her on while She was away, which in turn turned Me on again.
I think my Wife would have been an amazing porn star, If the opportunity had been given to Her, but perhaps it is just as well it was,nt.
Sounds like she had a great experience .being away in.a m other country witj a grrat stud fuckimg the ******* out of her the two.of you have a great relationship..The most my hotwife has bedn.away is fir a long weekend but only with one guy .She not into
Multiple guys But k owing they wete doing thimgs as acouple as well.as fuckimg was.ajor turn.on. She did tell.me xome on.the highlites we hzve agreed some of her play time should stY just between.them
 
Hello, looking for advice on how to not get jealous when you have a hotwife. We are getting into the style and know that when the bbc is deep in her pounding her to the most intense orgasms of her life and I am hearing her begging for more, how can I avoid the jealous feeling? Do other couples/husbands have any advice on what you are thinking while watching your wife cum harder than ever with a black man?
Channel that jealous energy into sexual energy. Be happy that she's getting a food fucking and so horny that you'll do anything for her after.
 
Hello, looking for advice on how to not get jealous when you have a hotwife. We are getting into the style and know that when the bbc is deep in her pounding her to the most intense orgasms of her life and I am hearing her begging for more, how can I avoid the jealous feeling? Do other couples/husbands have any advice on what you are thinking while watching your wife cum harder than ever with a black man?
We've only been in the lifestyle for 4years & being blacked for hours by a bbc that knows how to please is amazing!
It's important to know your husband's limits example for us it's kissing I'll keep it to no kissing or at the most just quick pecks never letting myself do any passionate kissing! When done after 2-4 hours of wild none stop sex with my bull once he leaves I'm always still wownd up & I'm sure to reconnect with my husband with very passionate kissing and we make very passionate love making , once he adds his load to the cum in my pussy I'll suck his cock clean & cuddle to sleep in his arms, content with being full of cum in all 3 holes, & my body obsorbing it's goodness into my system, it changes me & makes me much more slutty with/towards my husband I love him for letting me play with bbc's
 
Hello, looking for advice on how to not get jealous when you have a hotwife. We are getting into the style and know that when the bbc is deep in her pounding her to the most intense orgasms of her life and I am hearing her begging for more, how can I avoid the jealous feeling? Do other couples/husbands have any advice on what you are thinking while watching your wife cum harder than ever with a black man?
Simple don't do it anymore lol or don't get married lol
 
We've only been in the lifestyle for 4years & being blacked for hours by a bbc that knows how to please is amazing!
It's important to know your husband's limits example for us it's kissing I'll keep it to no kissing or at the most just quick pecks never letting myself do any passionate kissing! When done after 2-4 hours of wild none stop sex with my bull once he leaves I'm always still wownd up & I'm sure to reconnect with my husband with very passionate kissing and we make very passionate love making , once he adds his load to the cum in my pussy I'll suck his cock clean & cuddle to ******* in his arms, content with being full of cum in all 3 holes, & my body obsorbing it's goodness into my system, it changes me & makes me much more slutty with/towards my husband I love him for letting me play with bbc's
Love him lol for letting him make you a BBC cunt slut wife lol
 
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