How to start the conversation with very conservative Indian wife

I’m very much interested to get my very conservative wife used by others and satisfy her. She is very hot 36 28, 38, conservative, doesn’t talk much about sex, just enjoys when she is getting but never asks for it. I somehow feel she badly needs more. I’m not able to Satisfy as I just out in less than a minute. I feel bad that I m not able to Drill her pot much. I like to get her banged by black but it’s too far to think of. How can I get started about anything like this? Any Indians here who and how you initiated with your wife and how you made it success? Do you regret anything after the fact?
 
Not sure how the Indian conservative wife mind works (only having intermittent success with my conservative US wife) but these are techniques you try.

1) see if you can have a chat about mutual fantasies. If she can share some that’s a great jumping off point. If she doesn’t mention any (very possible) you can still bring up one that you have that makes you really, really turned on. Tell her it’s not easy to share but you love her, she is your life partner, and who else better to trust? Also tell her that your fantasy is different from many men, and that’s actually a good thing. Many men fantasize about women other than their wives, or maybe sex with a *******, or ******* fantasy or a number of other fantasies that can be dangerous and possibly mentally or physically painful. Your fantasy is all about her and her pleasure. It turns you on so much to see her have pleasure. Tell her you want to see her have maximum pleasure and you don’t feel like you are in a position to do this. Because of this you have been fantasizing about watching other men give her maximum pleasure that you are incapable of providing. You still only want to be with her physically, that’s not going to stop, but it gets you so hot thinking about another man pleasing you. Drives you crazy with passion and desire.

2) Tell her that this would just be between you and her and whomever she agrees to be with. But tell her if I thought there was a chance that you will leave me for the other man, I won’t do this. I love you and always want to be with you and don’t want to risk that. But this is a pretty common fantasy and there are many married couples (especially in the US) who have this arrangement and it makes their marriage stronger, they get closer and the communication increases. The other man must realize he is there for mutual sexual satisfaction but nothing more, no romantic love connection. Her body you are willing to share for her pleasure and her/his, but her heart is yours and needs to remain yours.

3) Tell her you want to make it perfectly clear. You are not suggesting this in order for her to approve of you sleeping with someone else. Your pleasure derives exclusively from watching her get pleasured.

4) Tell her you want her to keep an open mind. And if nothing else it would still be hot to role play and have sex talk about her wanting to be pleasured by another man who can give her everything she needs.

5) Pick out and show her a hot video of a couple who are in this arrangement. You know you, bit.her and your culture better than I would so put a lot of thought in which video she might like the best. Play with her and get her in the mood first, if she drinks alcohol maybe have her ******* something to relax her. Then start the video with you next to her close, caressing her and maybe even rubbing her pussy a bit. When the action picks up, if you think she would like it, go down on her and give her oral sex while the video is playing. Maybe take small pauses, look at the screen and say things like, “wow, look how much she is enjoying that man fucking/making love to/on top if her (chose one of those three or find a better alternative word or expression.

6) hopefully you show her a porn with a good looking man, with a better physique and materially bigger cock than yours. Then say things like:
“God he is so big, no wonder she is enjoying it so much. Can you imagine what that would feel like if you were her? He’s fucking her so good and lasting so long.” I bet a guy like that would love to be with you. I bet he would be filled with lust thinking about everything he would want to do with your sexy body. I love fucking you, but I bet he would love it even more. First I think he would know that you have never had someone that could go as deep as him. He probably would be on a mission to make you want to have sex with him all the time.”

again use your best judgement on what types of movies would get her the most wet/hot. I’m partial to well hung black men fucking white wives because that is what I want to see and is my goal for my wife. So I have included some of the hottest ones I like where the husband is there and enjoying the experience.

If you don’t hear or see the husband in the shot (like the first video below) please let your wife know the husband is filming his wife and her lover.





Couple Indian Wife Cuckold clips here:

 
Not sure how the Indian conservative wife mind works (only having intermittent success with my conservative US wife) but these are techniques you try.

1) see if you can have a chat about mutual fantasies. If she can share some that’s a great jumping off point. If she doesn’t mention any (very possible) you can still bring up one that you have that makes you really, really turned on. Tell her it’s not easy to share but you love her, she is your life partner, and who else better to trust? Also tell her that your fantasy is different from many men, and that’s actually a good thing. Many men fantasize about women other than their wives, or maybe sex with a *******, or ******* fantasy or a number of other fantasies that can be dangerous and possibly mentally or physically painful. Your fantasy is all about her and her pleasure. It turns you on so much to see her have pleasure. Tell her you want to see her have maximum pleasure and you don’t feel like you are in a position to do this. Because of this you have been fantasizing about watching other men give her maximum pleasure that you are incapable of providing. You still only want to be with her physically, that’s not going to stop, but it gets you so hot thinking about another man pleasing you. Drives you crazy with passion and desire.

2) Tell her that this would just be between you and her and whomever she agrees to be with. But tell her if I thought there was a chance that you will leave me for the other man, I won’t do this. I love you and always want to be with you and don’t want to risk that. But this is a pretty common fantasy and there are many married couples (especially in the US) who have this arrangement and it makes their marriage stronger, they get closer and the communication increases. The other man must realize he is there for mutual sexual satisfaction but nothing more, no romantic love connection. Her body you are willing to share for her pleasure and her/his, but her heart is yours and needs to remain yours.

3) Tell her you want to make it perfectly clear. You are not suggesting this in order for her to approve of you sleeping with someone else. Your pleasure derives exclusively from watching her get pleasured.

4) Tell her you want her to keep an open mind. And if nothing else it would still be hot to role play and have sex talk about her wanting to be pleasured by another man who can give her everything she needs.

5) Pick out and show her a hot video of a couple who are in this arrangement. You know you, bit.her and your culture better than I would so put a lot of thought in which video she might like the best. Play with her and get her in the mood first, if she drinks alcohol maybe have her ******* something to relax her. Then start the video with you next to her close, caressing her and maybe even rubbing her pussy a bit. When the action picks up, if you think she would like it, go down on her and give her oral sex while the video is playing. Maybe take small pauses, look at the screen and say things like, “wow, look how much she is enjoying that man fucking/making love to/on top if her (chose one of those three or find a better alternative word or expression.

6) hopefully you show her a porn with a good looking man, with a better physique and materially bigger cock than yours. Then say things like:
“God he is so big, no wonder she is enjoying it so much. Can you imagine what that would feel like if you were her? He’s fucking her so good and lasting so long.” I bet a guy like that would love to be with you. I bet he would be filled with lust thinking about everything he would want to do with your sexy body. I love fucking you, but I bet he would love it even more. First I think he would know that you have never had someone that could go as deep as him. He probably would be on a mission to make you want to have sex with him all the time.”

again use your best judgement on what types of movies would get her the most wet/hot. I’m partial to well hung black men fucking white wives because that is what I want to see and is my goal for my wife. So I have included some of the hottest ones I like where the husband is there and enjoying the experience.

If you don’t hear or see the husband in the shot (like the first video below) please let your wife know the husband is filming his wife and her lover.





Couple Indian Wife Cuckold clips here:

Thanks a lot for taking time and posting all these info. Appreciate it
 
Curious how conservative Indian women might differ from US conservative religious married wives? What are the biggest challenges? Is there a component of it being a traditional arranged marriage so there are more stringent expectations on wives? I’m curious because if you look at my story and those of other US men on here that married devote religious women many were eventually able to broach the subject and convert their wives to participate willingly and enthusiastically in the lifestyle.

Setting all the above aside, if this is really important to you and it’s something you don’t want to miss out on, you need to find a way because regrets in life gnaw at you. It’s a common fantasy, at least in the US.

Lastly, search the forums for existing Indian cuckold couples and try to pick their brains about how they made this happen.
 
It's very challenging to talk this with a traditional Indian woman
Ultimately her job is to please you and see you satisfied! The best way for that to happen is for your fantasies to be fulfilled by your loving wife. So if that means putting on a show for you by erotic dancing or by having wild sex with another man then she should be willing to do it strictly to please you and make you happy! Especially if you have done and are doing everything that you are supposed to be doing as a man!

Bottom line have a few glasses of wine then ask her if she has fantasies? Tell her that you have fantasies and in order to be pleased you want to see them fulfilled by your loving wife!
 
Going straight to big black cock is a mistake in this case.
Assuming she is attractive, first step is to get her to dress a little less conservatively and get her in situations where there are men who will start staring at her. Take her to a gym with that has a lot of guys. Insist she goes even when you can't make it.
Then start to tell you like it when other guys look at her when you are together, it makes you feel lucky, etc, etc. Once a woman knows the power of showing off her ass there is really no coming back. Trust me.

Once you get to that point get back to us. I'm white, but I just fucked my second Indian wife about 2 months ago. She was a Cisco Network consultant working for my company. Super conservative, religious shy type. Didn't know how to fuck properly, didn't know how to suck dick. I could tell she's never been smashed. She was only on site for 3 weeks and I managed to fuck her 3 times in her hotel suite. Granted I'm the VP, but generally I don't fuck with women I work with but she liked to wear business suit/dresses with pantyhose and just absolutely perky breasts.

Point is, its easier than you think.
 
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Going straight to big black cock is a mistake in this case.
Assuming she is attractive, first step is to get her to dress a little less conservatively and get her in situations where there are men who will start staring at her. Take her to a gym with that has a lot of guys. Insist she goes even when you can't make it.
Then start to tell you like it when other guys look at her when you are together, it makes you feel lucky, etc, etc. Once a woman knows the power of showing off her ass there is really no coming back. Trust me.

Once you get to that point get back to us. I'm white, but I just fucked my second Indian wife about 2 months ago. She was a Cisco Network consultant working for my company. Super conservative, religious shy type. Didn't know how to fuck properly, didn't know how to suck dick. I could tell she's never been smashed. She was only on site for 3 weeks and I managed to fuck her 3 times in her hotel suite. Granted I'm the VP, but generally I don't fuck with women I work with but she liked to wear business suit/dresses with pantyhose and just absolutely perky breasts.

Point is, its easier than you think.
you should tell more in detail how you fucked an indian girl? that could be nice story/ is he initial AS or HK?
 
Going straight to big black cock is a mistake in this case.
Assuming she is attractive, first step is to get her to dress a little less conservatively and get her in situations where there are men who will start staring at her. Take her to a gym with that has a lot of guys. Insist she goes even when you can't make it.
Then start to tell you like it when other guys look at her when you are together, it makes you feel lucky, etc, etc. Once a woman knows the power of showing off her ass there is really no coming back. Trust me.

Once you get to that point get back to us. I'm white, but I just fucked my second Indian wife about 2 months ago. She was a Cisco Network consultant working for my company. Super conservative, religious shy type. Didn't know how to fuck properly, didn't know how to suck dick. I could tell she's never been smashed. She was only on site for 3 weeks and I managed to fuck her 3 times in her hotel suite. Granted I'm the VP, but generally I don't fuck with women I work with but she liked to wear business suit/dresses with pantyhose and just absolutely perky breasts.

Point is, its easier than you think.
Way to go! She sounds secretly sexy!
 
Going straight to big black cock is a mistake in this case.
Assuming she is attractive, first step is to get her to dress a little less conservatively and get her in situations where there are men who will start staring at her. Take her to a gym with that has a lot of guys. Insist she goes even when you can't make it.
Then start to tell you like it when other guys look at her when you are together, it makes you feel lucky, etc, etc. Once a woman knows the power of showing off her ass there is really no coming back. Trust me.

Once you get to that point get back to us. I'm white, but I just fucked my second Indian wife about 2 months ago. She was a Cisco Network consultant working for my company. Super conservative, religious shy type. Didn't know how to fuck properly, didn't know how to suck dick. I could tell she's never been smashed. She was only on site for 3 weeks and I managed to fuck her 3 times in her hotel suite. Granted I'm the VP, but generally I don't fuck with women I work with but she liked to wear business suit/dresses with pantyhose and just absolutely perky breasts.

Point is, its easier than you think.
this sort fo advice is really handy thanks
 
Ultimately her job is to please you and see you satisfied! The best way for that to happen is for your fantasies to be fulfilled by your loving wife. So if that means putting on a show for you by erotic dancing or by having wild sex with another man then she should be willing to do it strictly to please you and make you happy! Especially if you have done and are doing everything that you are supposed to be doing as a man!

Bottom line have a few glasses of wine then ask her if she has fantasies? Tell her that you have fantasies and in order to be pleased you want to see them fulfilled by your loving wife!
It is quite possible that she doesn’t want more than she is getting. I would ponder that before bringing up the topic.
 
Going straight to big black cock is a mistake in this case.
Assuming she is attractive, first step is to get her to dress a little less conservatively and get her in situations where there are men who will start staring at her. Take her to a gym with that has a lot of guys. Insist she goes even when you can't make it.
Then start to tell you like it when other guys look at her when you are together, it makes you feel lucky, etc, etc. Once a woman knows the power of showing off her ass there is really no coming back. Trust me.

Once you get to that point get back to us. I'm white, but I just fucked my second Indian wife about 2 months ago. She was a Cisco Network consultant working for my company. Super conservative, religious shy type. Didn't know how to fuck properly, didn't know how to suck dick. I could tell she's never been smashed. She was only on site for 3 weeks and I managed to fuck her 3 times in her hotel suite. Granted I'm the VP, but generally I don't fuck with women I work with but she liked to wear business suit/dresses with pantyhose and just absolutely perky breasts.

Point is, its easier than you think.
Best advice.
 
I’m very much interested to get my very conservative wife used by others and satisfy her. She is very hot 36 28, 38, conservative, doesn’t talk much about sex, just enjoys when she is getting but never asks for it. I somehow feel she badly needs more. I’m not able to Satisfy as I just out in less than a minute. I feel bad that I m not able to Drill her pot much. I like to get her banged by black but it’s too far to think of. How can I get started about anything like this? Any Indians here who and how you initiated with your wife and how you made it success? Do you regret anything after the fact?
 
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