How to start? I want to get my wife into the lifestyle.

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billgreene2020

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How should I go about bringing this up and getting her to buy in? I would love to see her sandwiched between 2 black studs, getting her pussy stretched. We are both 30 years old and just had our 2nd baby. She has a great body and has an absolutely amazing ass. She was built for black cock.

Back story on her, she was raised in a very conservative Christian family. In college, she had a mixed boyfriend that was tall and lean with a big dick that she fucked. She can't cum from just me fucking her but has mentioned she had at least one strictly PIV orgasm with him. Before we got together, she went on a little bit of a wild streak and fucked 5 or 6 guys in about a year period but settled down. None of those guys were black that I know of. Our sex is very vanilla. She has a hitachi magic wand we use somewhat regularly.

How do I even broach the subject?? I want to see her drowning in BBC pleasure.


Update:

I posted this as a comment but figured it would get more response as an edit.

Update on this. Haven't done anything else of substance besides a few comments this past year. Raising a 2 small children has put a damper on our sex lives. Our sex has picked back up slightly and I want to try and introduce her to the idea of hotwifing.

A couple of the comments i've made:

-While I was eating her out, I told her I had a dream she fucked someone else. She kinda of gasped. I just shrugged my shoulders and said it was hot and kept eating her out to a good orgasm.
-We had a great sex session once. Best one we've had since our youngest was born. After she came, I kept fucking her and she was in pure bliss. I told her I had a another dream about her getting fucked by other men and that I thought it was sexy. She said my name out loud as in "I can't believe you said that" . I said "What do you think about that". She just gave a brief smile and said "I don't know".

So that is where I am at. She will be going on a bachelorette party in July and I am thinking about telling her she can have a hall pass if she wants to. She has been working out hard lately and has gotten fitter and more confident about herself.

This woman is beautiful. Blonde hair, blue eyes. An amazing ass. She was built to be fucked. Subservient. Friendly. Outgoing.

I crave to see her with BBC
 
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Date night, drinks, interracial porn!

.Put on some hot interracial porn were the woman looks as similar to her as possible. She needs to see women like herself doing it. (A bigger plus if you can find amateur married cuckold swinger women who look like her doing it!)

.While she is absolutely buzzed or ******* from wine or drinks and as you guys are fooling around or having sex while the movie is playing, ask her what does she thinks about the movie?

.ask her specifically what she thinks of black guys and their big black cocks?

(Depending upon whether she answered the questions positively?)
.Ask her if she could handle one of those big black cocks?

(Depending upon if the answer to that last question was positive?)
.Ask her if it was your fantasy and desire to see, would she take a big black cock for you?

Attention: She must be *******, or high, and horny in a sexual situation or her moral compass alert will launch a defense and set you back for a while.

Good luck. ♠️✌
 
Jdingo619 said:
Date night, drinks, interracial porn!

.Put on some hot interracial porn were the woman looks as similar to her as possible. She needs to see women like herself doing it. (A bigger plus if you can find amateur married cuckold swinger women who look like her doing it!)

.While she is absolutely buzzed or ******* from wine or drinks and as you guys are fooling around or having sex while the movie is playing, ask her what does she thinks about the movie?

.ask her specifically what she thinks of black guys and their big black cocks?

(Depending upon whether she answered the questions positively?)
.Ask her if she could handle one of those big black cocks?

(Depending upon if the answer to that last question was positive?)
.Ask her if it was your fantasy and desire to see, would she take a big black cock for you?

Attention: She must be *******, or high, and horny in a sexual situation or her moral compass alert will launch a defense and set you back for a while.

Good luck. ♠️✌
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What about introducing a BBC dildo in the mix first before the real thing and do some roll playing with it
 
billgreene2020 said:
How should I go about bringing this up and getting her to buy in?
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Of course you already suspect that her being raised in a conservative Christian family is going to be the primary mountain to climb with her. She's had 2 babies ... she's conservatively family oriented already. If your able to talk openingly, maybe you can get her to share some sexual fantasies; if she really doesn't have any, then I'm afraid you're SOL.
What's her opinion on porn? Does she know you like it and watch it? If so, what is her reaction to you doing that? I don't believe she's going to be an instantaneous success story ... you'll need to be patient.
Her inability and maybe her lack of urgency in having orgasms tells me she doesn't have anywhere near the same sexual drive you have or she'd be wanting to figure out the "orgasm" issue herself. Maybe when she sees her female doctor, she can discuss this with her.
• I'd start by trying to have a conversation about sex and sexual fantasies.​
• Get her to do deeper into her little wild fling she had and let her know that turns you on knowing she's fucked other guys.​
• Figure out how you can give her orgasms much more frequently. She's simply NOT MISSING what she's not HAVING. She starts having orgasms and her sexual drive will go up and your possibilities extend. She can have orgasms ... something's just out of whack; have a nice deep talk about her clitoris (as it IS her pleasure button) and how to best make it "work" for the two of you. Find out if she can/has orgasms masturbating. If she's extreme conservative, however, she may not want to do that and may even deny she's ever masturbated. Somehow, you need to break her loose from her conservative morals and convince her sex isn't just for reproducing or to fulfill a wife's obligation.​
I'm afraid you may have a long way to go, but each small accomplishment will encourage her to go the next step.
Mac
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MacNfries said:
Of course you already suspect that her being raised in a conservative Christian family is going to be the primary mountain to climb with her. She's had 2 babies ... she's conservatively family oriented already. If your able to talk openingly, maybe you can get her to share some sexual fantasies; if she really doesn't have any, then I'm afraid you're SOL.
What's her opinion on porn? Does she know you like it and watch it? If so, what is her reaction to you doing that? I don't believe she's going to be an instantaneous success story ... you'll need to be patient.
Her inability and maybe her lack of urgency in having orgasms tells me she doesn't have anywhere near the same sexual drive you have or she'd be wanting to figure out the "orgasm" issue herself. Maybe when she sees her female doctor, she can discuss this with her.
• I'd start by trying to have a conversation about sex and sexual fantasies.​
• Get her to do deeper into her little wild fling she had and let her know that turns you on knowing she's fucked other guys.​
• Figure out how you can give her orgasms much more frequently. She's simply NOT MISSING what she's not HAVING. She starts having orgasms and her sexual drive will go up and your possibilities extend. She can have orgasms ... something's just out of whack; have a nice deep talk about her clitoris (as it IS her pleasure button) and how to best make it "work" for the two of you. Find out if she can/has orgasms masturbating. If she's extreme conservative, however, she may not want to do that and may even deny she's ever masturbated. Somehow, you need to break her loose from her conservative morals and convince her sex isn't just for reproducing or to fulfill a wife's obligation.​
I'm afraid you may have a long way to go, but each small accomplishment will encourage her to go the next step.
Mac
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Oh she can have orgasms. HA
 
MacNfries said:
Of course you already suspect that her being raised in a conservative Christian family is going to be the primary mountain to climb with her. She's had 2 babies ... she's conservatively family oriented already. If your able to talk openingly, maybe you can get her to share some sexual fantasies; if she really doesn't have any, then I'm afraid you're SOL.
What's her opinion on porn? Does she know you like it and watch it? If so, what is her reaction to you doing that? I don't believe she's going to be an instantaneous success story ... you'll need to be patient.
Her inability and maybe her lack of urgency in having orgasms tells me she doesn't have anywhere near the same sexual drive you have or she'd be wanting to figure out the "orgasm" issue herself. Maybe when she sees her female doctor, she can discuss this with her.
• I'd start by trying to have a conversation about sex and sexual fantasies.​
• Get her to do deeper into her little wild fling she had and let her know that turns you on knowing she's fucked other guys.​
• Figure out how you can give her orgasms much more frequently. She's simply NOT MISSING what she's not HAVING. She starts having orgasms and her sexual drive will go up and your possibilities extend. She can have orgasms ... something's just out of whack; have a nice deep talk about her clitoris (as it IS her pleasure button) and how to best make it "work" for the two of you. Find out if she can/has orgasms masturbating. If she's extreme conservative, however, she may not want to do that and may even deny she's ever masturbated. Somehow, you need to break her loose from her conservative morals and convince her sex isn't just for reproducing or to fulfill a wife's obligation.​
I'm afraid you may have a long way to go, but each small accomplishment will encourage her to go the next step.
Mac
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She just can't normally have them strictly through intercourse
 
billgreene2020 said:
She just can't normally have them strictly through intercourse
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Lots of women have that issue, actually. The ladies love the "foreplay" and often us guys don't provide enough of it to get them aroused. I love starting out with oral sex ... getting my lady off a couple times that way, then if she's a relatively new partner, let her choose the sexual position that provides the most stimulation to her during intercourse. But even then, a little finger(s) manipulation during intercourse is preferred or even needed. If you observe some of the porn flicks and women rubbing their clits during intercourse.
Us guys ... heck, we don't need any foreplay unless its to get help with getting or maintaining an erection.
 
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billgreene2020 said:
How should I go about bringing this up and getting her to buy in? I would love to see her sandwiched between 2 black studs, getting her pussy stretched. We are both 30 years old and just had our 2nd baby. She has a great body and has an absolutely amazing ass. She was built for black cock.

Back story on her, she was raised in a very conservative Christian family. In college, she had a mixed boyfriend that was tall and lean with a big dick that she fucked. She can't cum from just me fucking her but has mentioned she had at least one strictly PIV orgasm with him. Before we got together, she went on a little bit of a wild streak and fucked 5 or 6 guys in about a year period but settled down. None of those guys were black that I know of. Our sex is very vanilla. She has a hitachi magic wand we use somewhat regularly.

How do I even broach the subject?? I want to see her drowning in BBC pleasure.
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We had a similar situation - She first refusing, then over time, not agreeing but no longer outright refusing yet still not ever discussing it. I'm cutting and pasting a post I made last year regarding how it finally came to pass. I hope you find it helpful. Please keep in mind this occurred after several years of subtle hints and side comments and introduction to AMATEUR IR porn.

"My Wife's first experience was with a BBC - "office sex" in a way. She was in her mid 40's and we were at a Holiday Office party (her work)the evening of a work day. I was never really able to satisfy her and we'd always discussed the idea of her being fulfilled by a larger cock and naturally the BBC mystique entered into the discussion. At this party after a good deal of drinks, the opportunity arose with a black co-worker of hers. She had an excessive amount of drinks, and we began chatting with the co-worker. I steered the conversation with subtle sexual innuendo's and he easily caught on and indicated agreement. It was getting late, and some of the other people were beginning to leave the restaurant. We moved over to the bar/lounge section of the restaurant, which was pretty dark and empty (though still open) and took a booth which was pretty secluded and ordered more drinks. Once the drinks came and the waitress left, I started rubbing her tits. She didn't object to being felt up in front of him, nor did she object when I invited him to feel her up. In short time, I suggested she give him a hand job. In the privacy of a booth, she began stroking him while I opened her blouse and played with her tits. He unzipped and she had him in her hand stroking and pumping, and, to both his and my surprise, she bent down and began sucking his cock and kept at it until completion. No one actually saw her sucking his dick, but several of her co-workers figured out what we had done. When the party finally broke up, we stayed a while, brought her into the men's room, locked the door and she blew him again. Eventually, they fucked, and she's had many others since then, but she still gives him and several of her other black co-workers blowjobs on a regular basis.
 
A lot of good supportive advice has already been given.

A couple other considerations:

1) Remember to not badger or try to convince her. It's true that in some cases she may "give in" and want to satisfy your fantasy because she cares so much about you, but really she should be truly interested on her own to enjoy the experience. So talk to her, hints are fine, roleplaying is fine, etc.. but be sure to listen to her and build on what she indicates she likes, but don't overwhelm, rush, or try to ******* it.

2) A couple suggestions have been made to get her *******... and that may not be a good idea for everyone. If your wife already likes to ******* as part of social activities including being *******, that might be fine. But I can imagine that some wives could feel "tricked" (mine would be) into something like this if they are pushed into getting *******, and put into a situation they might not normally be interested in if they weren't *******. And that would almost certainly set you back, not help, and it also just isn't the right and considerate thing to do.


Bottom line, have open lines of communication, take things slowly, perhaps introduce some small steps over time, but most importantly respect her limits and boundaries. Also remember to be willing to possibly entertain her interests that you might not normally consider. That shouldn't be used as a strategy to convince her to join in yours, but it will show her that you too consider her desires and are willing to give things a try. Even if she initially isn't interested, she might come around to "give it a try" if you have been clear that you respect her desires and boundaries, and you too are willing to give some new things a try.

And of course, perhaps most importantly, be sure your relationship is healthy. These activities build on an existing strong relationship, and don't replace what is missing.
 
billgreene2020 said:
How should I go about bringing this up and getting her to buy in? I would love to see her sandwiched between 2 black studs, getting her pussy stretched. We are both 30 years old and just had our 2nd baby. She has a great body and has an absolutely amazing ass. She was built for black cock.

Back story on her, she was raised in a very conservative Christian family. In college, she had a mixed boyfriend that was tall and lean with a big dick that she fucked. She can't cum from just me fucking her but has mentioned she had at least one strictly PIV orgasm with him. Before we got together, she went on a little bit of a wild streak and fucked 5 or 6 guys in about a year period but settled down. None of those guys were black that I know of. Our sex is very vanilla. She has a hitachi magic wand we use somewhat regularly.

How do I even broach the subject?? I want to see her drowning in BBC pleasure.
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Just be honest! Tell her the thought of it really turns you on. Watch IR porn with her. Tell her you'd love to see her pleasured in that way. But everything has to be honest and above board.
 
billgreene2020 said:
How should I go about bringing this up and getting her to buy in? I would love to see her sandwiched between 2 black studs, getting her pussy stretched. We are both 30 years old and just had our 2nd baby. She has a great body and has an absolutely amazing ass. She was built for black cock.

Back story on her, she was raised in a very conservative Christian family. In college, she had a mixed boyfriend that was tall and lean with a big dick that she fucked. She can't cum from just me fucking her but has mentioned she had at least one strictly PIV orgasm with him. Before we got together, she went on a little bit of a wild streak and fucked 5 or 6 guys in about a year period but settled down. None of those guys were black that I know of. Our sex is very vanilla. She has a hitachi magic wand we use somewhat regularly.

How do I even broach the subject?? I want to see her drowning in BBC pleasure.
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Omg great back ground so far. I’d bring up with her that period of time before you where she was with 6 different guys, innocently ask her about it. A few days later ask her if she has thought about any of them over the time you have been together. You might be surprised at her answer. You planted the idea days earlier and she might say she text one of them or wouldn’t mind finding some new guys to fuck.
 
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