It took several years further of continued encouragement, development and to patiently try to figure out which paths could be possible.
Often there were two steps forward but then one back.
After years of small steps, via naturism, sunbathing and swimming naked, that we made love on the beach, risk of being discovered, to the point that we arranged so that we were actually watched.
We discovered and developed my wife's interest and found talent for exhibitionism, that she increasingly liked to be watched, to eventually make sure we ended up in pleasant circumstances where we eventually with small steps began to dip our toes and experienced small little adventures.
From playing on our own, in front of others, but without physical contact, to the first small experiences with some small physical contact.
To the fact that after many years we had for the first time a complete experience where everything was right that day, so that we invited an attractive man home to our hotel room, for the first real experience.
It was very good and more successful than expected, probably because we waited so long and had the patience to wait for the right opportunity and for a very good man.
And eventually, after another year or so, I managed to find the very right man, an excellent attractive recurring lover for my wife and a man who has become our close friend.
And this our excellent man, an extraordinary lover, perhaps he has also have become something of a boyfriend to my wife.
And he is a man of dark skin color.
(I apologize and ask for understanding that English is not
my first language.)