She wants to do it and guys are backing out? That’s a shame.
You/she may have better luck with a Black guy on this site if one is fairly local to you.
The first time, about 10 yrs ago, and it shocked the hell out of me, we were at the swingers hotel one Saturday night, they require single guys to get a room on Friday and Saturday night. She and I had gone for the evening, we were sitting on the edge of the pool, she was wearing along robe, I was in the pool talking to her, this random guy came over and sat next to her, just from sitting her robe was open enough that one breast and most of a leg were exposed, he made a few comments complimenting her. After about 20 minutes, she said she was ready for the pool, she got up, left the robe with our towels on a chair and got in. We were leaning against the side of the pool making out, her legs wrapped around me. The guy got in the pool, came over beside us making small talk, eventually he asked to touch, she said ok, he got behind her rubbing her back, eventually she was sandwiched between us, he was rubbing her back, sides, around to her breasts, since her legs were spread he could rub her pussy and ass. Three different times, she said he was fully erect and trying to fuck her, and we told him to stop. A couple times he said he had a room, eventually she was super turned on and told me she was willing to go back to his room. We explained the ground rules to him, she had never gone this far, and if she said stop, it was stop, he realized there was no guarantee they would fuck, and he said he didn't want to be teased. Later that night when we got home, and she was riding me, we talked about it, she said she probably would have fucked him, but at that moment in the pool she was still very scared, despite being incredibly turned on. The next time, last summer, she was ready to go, she told him he had to wear a condom, no exceptions, he refused. Both of these were white guys. This last time, couple weeks ago, young black guy in his mid 20's, she was absolutely ready to fuck, we were in the hot tub playing, she was almost trying to pull him in, she realized we had a huge audience which she doesn't want, and the condoms were in the room, she told he and I lets go back to the room and fuck, I told him what room we were in, she was halfway to the room, I followed her, he never showed, we gave him 20 minutes, when we went back looking for him, he'd left, even the 6 or 7 who had been watching were shocked he didn't come to our room.