I'm divorced or single again. I was in an exclusive relationship with a black man; I usually saw him 2 or 3 times a week. I went to his place, during the week we stay at his place, on the weekends we went out. During the week at his place I was expected to be nude or in sexy lingerie when I was with him. I was usually in just a garter belt, stockings and high heels. We greeted affectionally then just let nature take it's course. Sometimes he wanted sex right away, in different ways, sometimes we just relaxed until he was ready or in the mood. Sometimes we had dinner, sometimes we watched TV, sometimes his friends came over. I knew why I was there and I knew at sometime before I left I knew he would want me in one way or another and I always looked forward to pleasing him. And when I left I always looked forward to the next time I'd be with him.