How many actual cuckold marriages survive?

pvak74 said:
I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?
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What you have described is basically the "ultimate" in the cuckolding fantasy. If you are trying to use the pornography as a gauge for what actually happens, then you should realize that pornography is overly dramatized acting designed for a maximally pleasing viewing experience. Even the amateur videos are, to some extent, usually staged/exaggerated.

A large proportion of men who want to be cuckolded enjoy the *idea of* the shame and humiliation aspects of watching their wives with other men (often culminating in her choosing to be with the other man permanently). Personally, I am not into being demeaned; instead of getting jealous, I just get turned on by seeing my wife fucking other men (especially Black men). However, I don't mind humiliation of the husband being in the videos, and it seems like most cucks enjoy it, and some cucks are looking *only* for those humiliation videos. As a result, a high proportion of cuckolding porn ends up being about humiliation, submission, and wives permanently denying sex to their husbands. A high proportion of cuckolding porn also ends up implying that all these white wives end up having Black babies. I don't even want to go on, because there's some weird fucking ******* in some of those videos. Point is, all kinds of crazy ******* happens in porn, and this is one of those "out there" genres, so it's going to be crazier than usual.

The reality, of course, is that most couples just dabble in sexual fantasies, and would never take it anywhere near the extremes seen in pornography -- and, also, most people will only take the fantasy as far as they fantasize. For example, just because a man shares his wife with his friend whom he trusts after many discussions with his wife does not mean that wife will end up doing a bareback gangbang in front of the husband's parents and pastor. That's the cuckold humiliation fantasy taken to an extreme that probably will never occur in the real world.

Also, it's good to remember that this whole fantasy is based on the idea that the wife is going to end up totally subserviating her entire being to the purpose of pleasuring Black men sexually (usually, to please her husband). It is an exceptionally rare woman who is so impractically oriented 100% around sex. Most women have their own life goals and ******* that have little or nothing to do with sex. And, even if she is that submissive and that sexually dedicated, then she's probably already submitted completely to her husband's sexual pleasure, even including her cuckolding him if that's what he wants, and she will take that fantasy as far as he wants her to -- and, in most cases, not further.

Obviously, there are risks involved for any cuckold encouraging his wife to fuck other men. But, for a strong marriage with good communication and a stable foundation, the risks are minimal. Just remember that women are, you know, individual people, with complex emotions and thoughts, and you'll see that there's no reason to think that indulging part of this fantasy would automatically result in anything in particular.
 
Angie T said:
I guess I just can't understand the extreme cuckhold lifestyle. While I would love it if my husband let me fuck a big black cull, and would not mind if he watched, I could not tolerate some of the degrading behavior I read about some husbands taking on here. I would lose all respect for my husband if he took that kind of treatment. Sorry, just how I feel.
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. Not always a question of "him" letting "you" do something. Some cuckholds don't get a choice in the matter. And Yes. Others do willingly volunteer.
 
Traveler22310 said:
I think vanilla or swinger wives are much more proned to cheating than hotwife/cuckold lifestyle wives. In hw/cuck nothing to hide and the couple agrees the wife will have lovers.
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Yes. The wives are encouraged to have other men often for the pleasure of the cuckold husband. Perhaps he knows his limitations but has seen his wife in action with more endowed men and know what she likes. Once you " go to the moon " , you know what's there.
 
Angie T said:
I guess I just can't understand the extreme cuckhold lifestyle. While I would love it if my husband let me fuck a big black cull, and would not mind if he watched, I could not tolerate some of the degrading behavior I read about some husbands taking on here. I would lose all respect for my husband if he took that kind of treatment. Sorry, just how I feel.
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No apologies necessary Angie. Not everyone is the same and there are probably a lot of wives that feel like you do too
 
Angie gallo said:
Our marriage was great when we first got into this lifestyle, but after while he had second thoughts because of the volume of bbc I was getting. I couldn’t turn back so we split up for awhile. He finally came back and has fully accepted his role and we are happy again. The power of bbc is incredible!
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Does your hubby suck black cock? If not, would you like to see him suck black cock?
 
WillandSusn said:
Unfortunately, a common problem for older husbands with younger passionate wives. And not such an obvious solution but becoming more apparent and perhaps even more reasonable too as people have fewer sexual hangups and religion seems too have less interferance these days. Besides , sex like exercise , is good for your health and wellbeing.
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Hotwifing is more common than most people think. We are friends with several couples with wives who are encouraged to have sex with other men. I have always encouraged Kate to be promiscuous and have sex with as many men as she desires. She enjoys her sexual freedom.
 
bdowned said:
Being proud of how appealing my wife is to other men is a huge factor I don't acknowledge enough. Thank you!
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You are so right. My wife feeling and being desired by other men is a big factor in her demeanor. I love the fact that she gets hit on by other men. Kate has become a magnet for black men. I don't know if it is her pretty suburban soccer mom look or if black guys somehow know she likes black men. Maybe it is the way she looks at them. Black guys hit on her all the time.
 
if the white lady does not reject her white husband and/or does not disregard their financial situations, i don't see any reason for cuckold marriages to ever end
 
ctcougar said:
Looking at the posts it appears that people are talking about apples and oranges and not the same kind of a relationship. The term 'cuckold' is used to cover any situation where the lady in a relationship is having sex with other men but here on this board that needs to be nuanced more carefully.

On the extreme end we have those situations where the hubby is sissified, put in chastity and otherwise humiliated by both the wife and her paramours. That is not what the vast majority of couples who engage in some form of extramarital adventures are into.

Most of those adventurous couples are swingers, both play outside the marriage, or are in a hotwife or stag-vixen dynamic where the lady has lovers other than her husband but there is no humiliation, no sucking the cock of her lovers by the hubby, no cleanup of cream pies, etc. In such relationships the hubby is sharing his woman from a position of power and is not at all subservient.

While we have not done any research we believe that the percentage of extreme cuck relationships which are 24/7 is so small as to be infinitesimal. Just common sense tells you that. After all how many men will put up with virtual non stop disrespect and humiliation but yet dutifully troop off to work every day and compete successfully in the workplace just to support a wife, her bulls and who knows how many illegitimate children? The dynamic does not work for us from a common sense standpoint and we doubt it works in practice for many couples.

Now, of course, there are situations where the 'cuck' factor is used playfully as in wife tells hubby 'Leon came over and fucked me today while you were at work. His cock is so much bigger than yours' but that is far from the extreme stuff that people here think is commonplace.
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There is definitely a difference between a cuckold and a hotwife couple. We are a hotwife couple. I encourage my wife to have sex with other guys and I love to watch and be with her afterward but I am never denied sex or ****** to do anything. It is fun for everyone involved.
 
We are also a HW couple who have more sex than ever and I am so PROUD of her and the guys she has fucked! Her self confidence is off the charts better and each pickup and new guy is a huge ego boost for her! She works hard at staying attractive for her younger BBC BFs and pickups! I damn sure benefit from that! It just gets better and better!
 
pvak74 said:
I have no hard and fast statistics on the cuckolding phenomenon but my guess is this is best left a fantasy. The minute you bring cuckolding into your marriage it will begin to destroy it. Cuckolding in real life will make a cuck husband much more submissive when done over time. It will turn a vanilla white wife over time into a nympho for bbc and only bbc. As this happens, the white hubby will become more submissive especially if caged which seems to happen a lot when cuckolding starts. After enough time passes the hubby who could of been an alpha before, takes on a very submissive tone to the point of doing whatever the black bull wants including sucking their bbc’s. Before you know it the hubby has changed and the wife sees it. As the wife gets more bbc they start to realize sex is more than the 5 inch hubby can give her and becomes addicted and will cut white hubby off eventually. Once that happens, it’s downhill from there. Divorce is almost always the way after that. That seems to be what I have heard and read from everyone on here. Is there anyone who feels like doing this has made their marriages stronger?
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We ha e being married for over 35 years, wife started to cuckold me after our second year of marriage, our marriage today is stronger than ever we both happy w our roles in this awesome lifestyle, she as a BBC only hotwife, and myselfe as her devote cuckold husband.best decition ever.
 
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