The marriages that didn’t last were probably doomed anyways, because this lifestyle made me and my hubby even closer. We are best friends and soul mates and have been for over 15 years now and we know the difference between love and just sex. We both enjoy this lifestyle equally.
How many actual cuckold marriages survive?
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It's weird how the bull is discussed as just an appliance. I wonder if they realize they are being exploited at the f whim of a white couple. The more thing's change..........
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. Congratulations and well done in this lifestyle as cuckhold husband
. Yes some are as are more BBC by white women. But many form close friendships. Many long term where the bull adds a new dimension to the marraige which allows the wife more sex and often with a well endowed partner or another race.
. Just as vacationing to different parts of the world brings new experiences to the marraige so does the new relationships formed in this lifestyle. Couples are albe to be more open and honest about feelings and desires. But this must work both ways to suceed
celebrating 20 years marriage this weekend. And we've been playing extra-maritally the entire time (off and on, for sure), but for us - the core of our marriage has always been trust, respect, and honesty. Adding hot black men to that combination has merely been an exciting addition!
The principles you add here are easily navigated with good communication and respect of each person so feelings aren't ignored, and time is taken when it needs to be taken.. Just like Susan. I call her my happy whore.
. Yes. We have become friends with many couples who now enjoy this lifestyle. We met many couples on vacation who include HW and BBC now. Some husbands are cuckholds and others are more active partners in sex. All say they are very happy with this lifestyle
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. Yes. Has to be good for both.
. Marraiges fail for many reasons and often because there is no physical sex. Some couples now having more sex because wife has other partners as well. Some husbands with ED and other issues are happy wives have sex with other men to meet her sexual needs vs separation or divorce.
I disagree with the idea that a relationship will begin to fail when a third is introduced into the dynamic.
The key, like every other aspect of the relationship, is to keep lines of communication open and respect your partner. If you (regardless of your gender, are open with your spouse, freely expressing your desires, then chances are that your relationship will survive. However, when the relationship starts to become entwined in a bed of lies and secrecy, it's headed for disaster that few recover from.
Since we (yes, the plural applies here) became involved in this lifestyle, we have openly expressed our desires to each other. Compromising where necessary, accepting when we can, all to arrive at a mutually acceptable situation. I don't do anything that isn't totally above board, and neither does my husband. We are, very much, in this together. He enjoys watching, and I enjoy the sex. I am very confident that if we were to be asked independently, we would both state, without hesitation, that it has improved, not degraded our marriage.
All that being said, I will also state that if my husband were to ask me to quit, I would do so instantly. Why? Simple. My relationship with my husband is far more important to me than a fling with anyone else, regardless of their race or equipment.
The key, like every other aspect of the relationship, is to keep lines of communication open and respect your partner. If you (regardless of your gender, are open with your spouse, freely expressing your desires, then chances are that your relationship will survive. However, when the relationship starts to become entwined in a bed of lies and secrecy, it's headed for disaster that few recover from.
Since we (yes, the plural applies here) became involved in this lifestyle, we have openly expressed our desires to each other. Compromising where necessary, accepting when we can, all to arrive at a mutually acceptable situation. I don't do anything that isn't totally above board, and neither does my husband. We are, very much, in this together. He enjoys watching, and I enjoy the sex. I am very confident that if we were to be asked independently, we would both state, without hesitation, that it has improved, not degraded our marriage.
All that being said, I will also state that if my husband were to ask me to quit, I would do so instantly. Why? Simple. My relationship with my husband is far more important to me than a fling with anyone else, regardless of their race or equipment.
My wife and I have been happily married for over 30 years, she's probably had 300 different cocks in her over that time, 90% of those black cocks. Neither of us could imagine a better more loving marriage than we have and if we had it all over to do again, we would in a heart beat. The only thing we might change is her walking down the aisle just BBC fucked and having a fun honeymoon of watching her take 2-3 BBC's at a time. For us, this is just an enhancement to our sex life, nothing more. Although per my urging, my wife is a complete BBC slut, it's exactly what I requested and guided us into because it turns me on and it's a huge addiction and need for me and she just so happens has always loved fucking and orgasms easily. Never for one second in our many, many years together has she not made me feel completely loved at all times. Although I do crave sexual humiliation, it turns me on to hear her tell me how much she loves and wants BBC, she does it for me. She tells me often she could stop all of this in a heartbeat if I ever wanted and she isn't a BS'r so I know she's telling the truth although it would turn me on more to hear her tell me, there is no way in hell I'll ever give up my BBC boyfriends, the sex is just to good.....and she knows that about me too. It does take a very special relationship to make this work the way it works for us and many others. There has to be complete trust both ways, a deep love and connection, an ability to communicate to one another above and beyond what would be considered "normal" communication and so on but when you do have all of this, when you both want this....her because she loves sex, loves to fuck and cum, loves knowing this turns me on and me understanding all of this, that to her it's only fucking and there is no worry about it damaging our relationship because no one will ever come between us (although they do CUM between us haha)…..it makes this off the charts super hot and rewarding. My wife fucking other men, rubbing her used pussy in my face, bragging about it, denying me at times pussy and making me cum in her hand only knowing others are fucking and cumming in it all they want, has done nothing but enhanced the sexual side of our marriage which in turn, makes the overall marriage better! Better sex in an already great overall relationship equals a level of joy that words will never explain and that others less fortunate in their own monogamous long term boring marriages with more than likely a much poorer and less rewarding sex life to both will never understand. I know there are people in marriages as long as us still monogamous and happy. I also know from experience and talking with friends in long term "traditional" marriages, when the wife's are together drinking wine and the husbands are out drinking whiskey, there are lots of complaints about sex. It seems weird and odd to me that I'm one of the only ones that doesn't have one sexual complaint and inside, that just makes me smile. One of our friends/couples who was married about the same time as us, his wife is in her 50's, looks 30 and is smoking hot still in a bikini, beautiful body and face. She has never swallowed, likes sex in just one position and thinks 3-5 times a month is plenty to suffice her husband. Here he is with a hot smoking wife, a body still to salivate over and what does he do????? he hits the Asian rub and tugs 1-2 times a week for sex because he just doesn't get enough at home. sad, sad, sad! Maybe if he let her try some BBC, it would reignite a fire in her and they could have the sex my wife and I have that would make most porn stars blush!!!!!!!!! I've never been more in love and I'm proud my wife handles our sex life the way she does, is understand, listened to my needs and responded to keep me/us both happy! She doesn't have to have BBC but understands what it does to me so goes with it. I love that about her! Yes this is my awesome wife letting me watch her take 2 BBC's for my birthday last year!!!!!!!!!!!! Took me out to dinner, drinks, then to a hotel where these two were waiting in our room in robes, a chair by the bed with a bow on it for me to sit in and watch!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's how awesome my wife is!!!!!!! She only sucks BBC so my BJ for my birthday was watching her suck and fuck 2 BBC's both of them cumming in her mouth, twice each with a big birthday kiss for me after each time!!
yes many fail yet would they have failed even if it wasn't due to cuckolding?? my wife cheated on me initially, I would have not thought for one minute at the time I would want see her fucking other men, I had full intentions of kicking her out at the time , if fact I would have thrown her out that night in the early hours except for one thing!!!!! I was stunned just how wrecked she looked I knew she had been drinking as well but when I saw her mascara and make up all smudged
I saw she was knickerless and her stockings laddered and the love bites all around her neck and shoulders I couldn't believe she could come home like this
after a while arguing I told her to get out, she begged me to forgive her, I couldn't stop looking at her and she was pleading with me not to make her go and I asked more and more what had been going on, as she told me I became aroused listening and I wanted to fuck her
she was all over me saying she would do anything for me if id forgive her. I ended up fucking her there and then on the sofa cumming straight away and then feeling disgusted in my self and her seeing her cunt spunky and my own cock covered in someone elses spunk turned me
I went to bed and left her down stairs only to find her getting in bed with me stroking my cock which soon was rock hard again and arousing me and also my curiousity again wanting to hear more
this went on all the next day my feelings of arousal then disgust in what she had done
that night she again said to me that she would do anything for me as long as I didn't throw her out and forgive her
I had full intentions of chucking her if the truth was known, but again curious to know more got to me, and I asked her if she would do it again for me so I could secretly watch , she agreed she would and I told her to arrange it
she was straight on the phone to them and she did exactly that and arranged for them to meet her later that night
I told her I wanted her to be fucked like the slut she was and took full advantage of her willingness to please me
I really wanted her to act like the slut she was and even told her how I wanted her to dress like I loved seeing her dress up when we played at home
4 hours later I watched her stood waiting for them to pick her up with a little pink dress just long enough to cover her cunt and some 6 inch heels she had only worn in bed with no underwear at all, she complained she looked like a slut but I told her she was so she had behave like one
that night after watching her get fucked again by them in a car I was so desperate to see her come home again
the sex we had that night after was mind blowing to say the least
32 yrs later I still have same feeling as that first time watching her knowing I was watching
ever since despite my initial reaction I have shared her and know everything
Fantastic! And I understand completely. We're nowhere near as far down the road as you, but I have one question. Have you guys ever run into sexual health problems with all those cocks? I know that is a very personal question and you can tell me to mind my own business if you like.
Cheers
None...wife plays safe but most are willing to be tested, with recent testing, they are free to go bareback and it’s our preference. Nothing like watching that BBC part those pink pussy lips bareback and seeing how shiny and wet it glistens on the withdrawal.....love how wet and turned on her pussy is taking her bulls!
. Yes. Even better knowing they filled her with hot cum as she begged them for it.
. Yes. She wants the BBC but she wants the cum too. Its a sign to her that she was GWP for the BBC. Most women want the cum and relay prefer bareback.
