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How does your close friends and family feel about your need to go black?And have any decided not to be your friends anymore or do you feel like they treat you different now that they know?
I have one friend who lives some distance from me who knows only that I have been with black men and very little beyond that. I live in a small very white community where everybody knows everyone else. I have yet to tell anyone about my black only life. It's not really race, if I was doing the conventional black boyfriend or husband bit there would be some who I am sure would dissaprove and some who would be supportive.How does your close friends and family feel about your need to go black?And have any decided not to be your friends anymore or do you feel like they treat you different now that they know?
Once again, the fantasy element of mostly men is coming out for this question lol. Sorry, but most normal, everyday women who have sex with men other than their husbands (whether the men are black, white, or something else) are not going around and telling their family and close friends about their "need to go black". It our society, having sex outside of marriage whether it is adultery or with permission just isn't really acceptable, so please stop with the idea that wives are going around and telling their family and friends about their private sex lives.How does your close friends and family feel about your need to go black?And have any decided not to be your friends anymore or do you feel like they treat you different now that they know?
I can k8nd a she both sides of this point mainly because I do think that the goal post about interracial extramarital fun is very quickly shifting and gaining acceptance .. I'm not sure if things are changing in the south but as a general statement it the new way that tho he are going to beOnce again, the fantasy element of mostly men is coming out for this question lol. Sorry, but most normal, everyday women who have sex with men other than their husbands (whether the men are black, white, or something else) are not going around and telling their family and close friends about their "need to go black". It our society, having sex outside of marriage whether it is adultery or with permission just isn't really acceptable, so please stop with the idea that wives are going around and telling their family and friends about their private sex lives.
Whether it is true about more women having sex with black men or not and whether it is more acceptable or not, the fact is most people do not discuss their private sex lives with friends and family members and the idea that they do is just the fantasy of some men on this website of their wives telling everyone....just another example of the humiliation sexual excitement some men have from the idea of others knowing about their wives' sex lives. This thread is mostly men pretending to be women who are answering other men who also like this idea.....men talking to men lol.I can k8nd a she both sides of this point mainly because I do think that the goal post about interracial extramarital fun is very quickly shifting and gaining acceptance .. I'm not sure if things are changing in the south but as a general statement it the new way that tho he are going to be
Lol! I actually never thought of that angle too much but the way you put it together makes some sense in the here and now ..Whether it is true about more women having sex with black men or not and whether it is more acceptable or not, the fact is most people do not discuss their private sex lives with friends and family members and the idea that they do is just the fantasy of some men on this website of their wives telling everyone....just another example of the humiliation sexual excitement some men have from the idea of others knowing about their wives' sex lives. This thread is mostly men pretending to be women who are answering other men who also like this idea.....men talking to men lol.
And I wish that white couples would start to educate their families in an open and comfortable way to how positive interracial breeding isNone of our family or friends have a problem with it. They do ask me about it a lot out of curiosity.