How do you let an attractive black guy know you're interested in him approaching you?

[sensualluv814]

Being a dominant sensual man I simply love to take charge but I'm not afraid to listen for what gets you going.

Sex is a two-person sport or three four or five LOL. For some it takes teamwork to take you over the top. Listening to your needs or exploring your body and paying attention to what feels good to you.
But it starts with coming correct and making sure you're not showing up in gym shorts and you're giving a sexy vibe.

Are there any things other than hygiene and tight abs that might catch your eye from across the room?
Out for a *******.. and you see that black man from across the room looking your way.
Running around the store buying things for the family or yourself.
Or even settling in for a night playing online looking for the right profile that catches your eye.

Many ways to choose the way you want to meet someone. Or make yourself available for a comforter man to walk up and approach you.
But what's something you do to let them know you're interested?
Staring is something black men are used to. Doesn't always necessarily mean that's their cue to walk up to you.

I mean chocolate comes in many different flavors. Some sweet mellow some heart and dark and of course some light and creamy.

When you want a nibble what are some of the gestures you might do?

 

[dickhurtz472]

c'mon ladies. we're interested.

 

[Milf4u2take]

I’ve met guys at the mall checking me out, the beach where I can show off my best assets, bars of course, work, jogging in the park, the gym, etc. now just cause they checking me out mean I’m going to sleep with them but I’m always open to be chatted up by a nice looking guy no matter where I am. Sometimes I find on or one finds me when I’m not even looking for one particularly.

 

[Jen2016]

If I was interested and wanted something, I would approach. You get 5 mins, if you come off as a prick, I am gone.

 

[RedHead2Share]

We like going to mixed race nightclubs on Saturday nights where there is dancing. Sometimes we have a prearranged meeting with a guy but other times we go just to have a good time. Now we do play the "what do you think about that guy" game and if I see someone who interests me and who shows interest back I'll make and hold eye contact and perhaps mouth something like "ask me to dance". Sometimes hubby will leave the table for awhile to give the dude an opening. It's worked quite a few times and if nothing else I get to meet and dance with an attractive black man.

 

[NatalyaUA]

I'm afraid to go up on the street to get acquainted, because I don't know the German language

 

[ggosselin]

I smile at him and direct contact look and a little bit loud with when I'm laughing

 

[EileenPhelps]

Being a dominant sensual man I simply love to take charge but I'm not afraid to listen for what gets you going.

Sex is a two-person sport or three four or five LOL. For some it takes teamwork to take you over the top. Listening to your needs or exploring your body and paying attention to what feels good to you.
But it starts with coming correct and making sure you're not showing up in gym shorts and you're giving a sexy vibe.

Are there any things other than hygiene and tight abs that might catch your eye from across the room?
Out for a *******.. and you see that black man from across the room looking your way.
Running around the store buying things for the family or yourself.
Or even settling in for a night playing online looking for the right profile that catches your eye.

Many ways to choose the way you want to meet someone. Or make yourself available for a comforter man to walk up and approach you.
But what's something you do to let them know you're interested?
Staring is something black men are used to. Doesn't always necessarily mean that's their cue to walk up to you.

I mean chocolate comes in many different flavors. Some sweet mellow some heart and dark and of course some light and creamy.

When you want a nibble what are some of the gestures you might do?

Smile and say hello.

 

[profhotwife]

It's usually been harder to try and NOT inadvertently send a signal than it is to deliberately send one hinting that I wouldn't mind being chatted up. Either way, a guy who takes his shot at more than just a "Hello" needs to thread the needle between douchebag/asshole and confident. Funny is almost always a plus (but don't be a douchebag still). And since my wedding ring is pretty obvious, be respectful while being flirty. I don't mind flirting when I'm in the mood, but that doesn't mean I'm ready to hop into bed.

 

[kay2468]

Yes a smile and say hi
A good start
Then just be honest and do expect to say hi and 5 mins later we are off to have sex

 

[sensualluv814]

I very much agree with you ladies there's no reason to be as you say LOL a " douche bag"
There are quite a few arrogant men around I think it's just a smile and hello means you're going to drop your pretty little panties and pull them away somewhere more secluded. I don't know if it's pornography or egotistical ideas that makes them think that is intoxicating to you.

And so many movies that some generations have grown up with they think just flashing a cock on a photo and asking if you want this is a great way to me a woman worth your while. Although you may enjoy The view it might be better when approaching to simply be a little charming but respectful too.
I will tell you this..
Like most men there have been plenty of times where I found interest and I'm beautiful attractive woman giving me glances and smiling at the very last minute to say hello.
But growing up and a family where you show respect to those who show it back to you. It can be much harder to decipher a simple smile and an interest.
A great example would be when I'm working out at the gym. Never like the thought of making my move there. For a simple fact that I know that women feel very vulnerable as they are trying to better themselves and are focused on a goal for themselves so I try not to interfere.
But there have most certainly been times where I couldn't take my eyes off of a beautiful woman. So obvious that I look away staring at the floor or ceiling as I work out. LOL
I've had times where someone just simply wouldn't stay away from me. Interfering in the way of my workout though I don't mind the view. I've even said hello too a lovely lady more times than I can count. With a man that seems to play the friend role as her workout buddy. Pretty sure he wants so much more but he's no Alpha and over the course of time it's appeared that he is most definitely a beta having girl talk as I try not to pay attention to their conversation. Whenever I do say hello he seems to pop up to make sure I say hello to him or know that he's near. I smile back and greet him. I also smile at her and make sure to say hello as well.
To take it any further would seem rude though there have been plenty of times I've seen her and the reflection of the mirror watching me.
Women can be particularly shy in most situations. But taking the chance to know a little more for someone worth your while is definitely away to let a woman know your interests.
So hopefully agree with you ladies having a quick conversation about more than the weather and staying focused on what she is interested in has a good listener is vital to taking anything further.

But how do you turn the corner?
To the lovely women who are kind enough to give me their feedback.
And the hot wife wearing that beautiful diamond ring. We don't know your status though we can be flirtatious. Doing it without insults for making you feel uncomfortable can be a very tricky thing.

Of course you will take your losses. But who wants to be labeled that creep. As a black male a little bigger than most at 6'2 225 lbs. Athletic or somewhat athletic in build.
In a majority of a large white community. Black males that have their ******* together seem to stand out in a crowd. I've been a lifestyle for quite some time. Enjoying giving pleasure but not knocking on everyone's door.
Turning that corner from conversation with a little sexual innuendo seems to work just fine.
There are times where you don't want to be remembered as the guy that just made a move. Women talk am I right? No man wants to be that guy that comes off creepy or a horndog that's constantly in the mood.
Turning that corner I might already have the answer. Through a smile eye contact saying hello and possible innuendos. A subtlety. With an aggressive nature.
Is that a good way to say hello to you?

 

[margaritaeasy]

I have found that eye contact, a smile and a hello have always worked
well for me should some one be interested in pursuing things further.

 

[kay2468]

I have found that eye contact, a smile and a hello have always worked
well for me should some one be interested in pursuing things further.
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Great smile

 

[margaritaeasy]

Great smile

Thank you

 

[Tayler]

easiest way is to make eye contact and smile.

 

[sensualluv814]

To all the beautiful ladies and I mean beautiful in spirit not just by looks.
I appreciate you all forgiving your feedback.

I think a lot of us could learn a few things. And for those of us that are a little overconfident in what it takes to catch a lovely woman's eye and make that approach that is worthwhile....

We can all continue to learn from each other.
Thank you all.
Men and women of Black to White.

 

[fundate]

So given these answers, what's the BBC's next move?

 

[hhvchotwife]

I have found that eye contact, a smile and a hello have always worked
well for me should some one be interested in pursuing things further.
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Beautiful smile, I would say you have no problem finding what ever you want.

 

[Lolamaze]

Definitely making eye contact, than a soft smile. Want to make it known that I see him, but not aggressively, just subtle hints with locking eye contact, especially when you can feel the vibe from across the bar/room, you can almost read each other without saying anything...

 

[sensualluv814]

So given these answers, what's the BBC's next

So given these answers, what's the BBC's next move?

This is just a chance for Black men to listen and learn. Or at least take the information given into consideration. it's always good too communicate and learn from each other's cues. I'm sure any" BBC" if that's what they would like to be called would come to their own conclusion.