How chastity can really help

I never planned to wear a cage and my wife has never really been interested in chastity. It was only when I found out my wife was having an affair that I found myself in a cuckold relationship. I was angry when I first found out, but she explained that I had never really satisfied her sexually as I don’t last very long. As she told me that how her lover would give her numerous orgasms, I found myself getting more turned on than I had ever been. Anyway, to cut a long story short, I encouraged her to keep meeting him as long as she told me the details.
After her first meet with him after this, she was telling me the details as I looked at her used cunt. I ended up licking his cum out of her, but ejaculated on the sheets as I did.
I felt disgusted with myself and didn’t want her to meet him again, but didn’t say anything to her. The next day at work, I was thinking how I could get her to end the relationship. As I replayed the details of the previous night, I found myself getting horny again, but I was determined to speak to her that evening.
When I got home she had left a note saying she had gone to Chis’s house for some fun and would be home later. By the time she got home I was so horny and worked up that I met her in the hallway, knelt in front of her and licked her through her panties. There wasn’t much cum, but her panties were soaked. I pulled the crotch to one side and as I devoured her cunt, she orgasmed on my face. I ejaculated in my pants.
She met him most days and I would always go down on her as she told me the detail. She said that she always wiped herself before coming home and I asked her not to.
I found myself thinking about her and Chris all the time. I bought her sexy underwear to wear for him and would help her get ready to meet him. It was always horny waiting for her to return. I would always cum as I licked her. A few times I had cum whilst she was getting ready to meet him and I would ask her not to go, but she always did. I was annoyed, but couldn’t really say anything as I had encouraged her.
After about 3 months, I realised that in all that time I hadn’t fucked her, but when I tried she stopped me and said that Chris didn’t want me to fuck her while he was. For some reason I just accepted it. She did encourage me to wank as she told me what they got up to and would sometimes do it for me or even suck me for a short time.
One night she came home and told me that Chris had shared her with his friend. Although I was shocked, I wanted to hear the detail. She said that they had taken turns with her, culminating in a DP. When she removed her pants and opened her legs, she asked me to clean her. Her cunt was red raw and the smell of cum hit me. I looked at her anus and it was still partially gaping with remnants of cum. As soon as I moved to lick her, I started to cum. The post orgasm blues hit me hard and I refused to lick her and called her a slut. We argued and didn’t speak for the next few days.
When we made up we had sex, the first time in 6 months. I had barely entered her before I started to cum, but it felt so good.
After that I tried to stop wanking and if I did cum, I would still go down on her, even though I didn’t enjoy it.
I was always asking her if I could watch them, but she refused. She did start bringing him to our house while I was out, but I would have to wait until he left before I returned home. This was far better as there was far more cum. I kept pestering her to let me watch and told her that I wanted to lick her straight after he had cum.
She said that she didn’t want me to watch even though Chris had told her he didn’t mind. She agreed that I could wait in the spare bedroom while they fucked and as soon as he had cum. She would come into the spare room and squat over my face, but I had to promise to stay in bed and not try to watch them. I agreed and a few days later, I went to the spare bedroom before he arrive.
For the next hour I listened to them fuck. I couldn’t believe how much noise she made as they fucked. When I heard her orgasm for about the 5th time, I nearly ejaculated, but managed to hold off. I couldn’t really hear anything from Chris, until it was obvious he was cumming in her. He was then really vocal, not sure if that was for my benefit, but it sent me over the edge and I started to cum.
A few minutes later she entered the room holding her hand between her legs. She didn’t say anything, but got on top of me and placed her cunt over my mouth and removed her hand. I felt sick and held my mouth closed as his cum drained over my face. She told me to clean her and made it obvious that she wanted Chris to hear. I pushed her off me and she got up. As she was leaving the room all she said was ”it was you that wanted this”, before returning to Chris. I then listened to them for another half hour.
By the time he had left, I was horny again, but when I tried to have some fun she stopped me. She said that she would never bring him to the house again while I was there.
We talked and she said that if I wanted to continue with this, I needed to stop myself from wanking and cumming.
A few days later I ordered my first chastity cage. It was only a cheap plastic one, but it worked. My wife laughed when she first saw it, but it worked.
I would put it on before her date and not remove it until I had cleaned her and made her cum. I enjoyed this far more as it kept me perpetually horny. I could last not only while I licked her, sometimes for an hour before removing the cage. I would then fuck her or cum over her cunt.
At that time I only used the cage when she was going to meet him, but after a while he started to share her with other guys and started taking her to swingers clubs and private parties. It was after a night she had been with Chris that she told me she was going to a party the next day. After I had licked her I kept the cage on. It was hard sleeping with it on, but I didn’t remove it until after she had come home from the party. I had been wearing it for about 30 hours. The orgasm I had after removing it was mind blowing.
As I found it difficult to put on when I knew she was going to get fucked as it was difficult to put on with an erection. I had tried cold water and ice, but if anything it would make my cock harder. I ended up wanking and after I had cum would have a shower, then put it on. This wasn’t ideal as it ruined my state of arousal. It would take hours before I would feel horny again. So I started putting it on the morning after a wank and shower.
The feeling of wearing it all day was unbelievable. I was constantly horny, but would usually remove it at night after we had fun. I found it really difficult to sleep with it on as it was painful. Even when I did, it would fall off as my cock and balls relaxed.
I still only manage to wear one for a maximum of 3 days, even though I have since bought numerous others.
I have since learnt to enjoy our cuckold relationship even when I cum. I have watched her being fucked, wanked myself off as guys have cum in her and then gone straight down on her. I still like wearing my cage though and although she says that it doesn’t do anything for her. I love it when she says that “ I might want to put my cage on” as it means she has planned a meet.
 
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
you are one lucky girlfriend every boyfriend always ask for.
 
I just began in chastity, it having been a desire of mine for a number of years now. My Goddess and I live in different towns and have played with chastity for the odd day or two in the past but this morning I was instructed to put my Looker 02 on in the knowledge that I would not see her again until the weekend (and even then she says there's no guarantee she'll unlock me).

My Goddess allowed me to keep one of the keys and I'm under strict instructions to only use it in an emergency and with her permission.

My Goddess also knows about my fantasy of seeing her taken by a younger, more skilled, and better endowed black guy but has signalled that she doesn't see it actually happening for real.

It has been 10 days since I last had an orgasm (honour system) and in that time Goddess has teased, edged, and denied me numerous times. I now have the Looker 02 with urethral tube in (an exquisite experience) on for the next five days.

During those tease and denial sessions she would get me to detail my fantasies else she would stop touching me. I admitted I wanted to be tied to a chair while she was fucked by a big black guy and then released in order to clean up her cum filled pussy.

The last time I was allowed to orgasm it was whilst Goddess gently massaged my balls and bit down on my pierced nipple with resultant excruciating but erotic pain. I came so hard and with no penile stimulation whatsoever.

My Goddess is an amazing woman. I am so blessed.
 
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. And what is your next step beyond pornstar ?
Well I'm pretty happy with how things are going currently so no new exploits arranged. Just my normal life. Work hard, continue spending time with my loving and amazing husband and have my lovers take care of all my sexual needs. I love our current lifestyle and I see no reason to ever going back. Getting the dildo and harness will also9 allow Michael to take part. Jess is coming over to our house this weekend and is bringing her hubby Steve with her. We are inviting our regular bulls to join us and I will be demonstrating to Jess the harness I have purchased to allow Michael to take part. This is definately one of my kinkier fantasy's. To have a load of bulls all over me and Jess and then have my husband there in a cock cage wearing a strap on in order to have sex with his wife. Hopefully Jess will pickup a similar harness for Stephen. It just makes me wet thinking of denying my.pussyfree hubby and fucking my bulls bareback . I even put a condom on Michaels dildo lol. This weekend I am doing a DP. Michael below.me.and Dan in my ass.
Can't wait.
J
Xpxoxox
 
Well I'm pretty happy with how things are going currently so no new exploits arranged. Just my normal life. Work hard, continue spending time with my loving and amazing husband and have my lovers take care of all my sexual needs. I love our current lifestyle and I see no reason to ever going back. Getting the dildo and harness will also9 allow Michael to take part. Jess is coming over to our house this weekend and is bringing her hubby Steve with her. We are inviting our regular bulls to join us and I will be demonstrating to Jess the harness I have purchased to allow Michael to take part. This is definately one of my kinkier fantasy's. To have a load of bulls all over me and Jess and then have my husband there in a cock cage wearing a strap on in order to have sex with his wife. Hopefully Jess will pickup a similar harness for Stephen. It just makes me wet thinking of denying my.pussyfree hubby and fucking my bulls bareback . I even put a condom on Michaels dildo lol. This weekend I am doing a DP. Michael below.me.and Dan in my ass.
Can't wait.
J
Xpxoxox
Congrats! Enjoy!! Sounds incredibly hot!
 
That is exactly right in my experience. Its about control. Michael is much bigger in stronger than me. The power I have over him now is complete. I like him wound up and on edge and he loves it. His attitude is far better and he works hard to keep us happy. He has joked so many times that hemis married to a pornstsr because I am pretty nasty when it comes to sex but am now far more naughty than before. So he does have a pornstsr as a wide but he's just not allowed to have me himself. I likewise joke that I would have sex with him several times A day of he dick was much bigger and a different colour. Lol. He will a good show tonight.
J
Xoxo
Mmm I like nasty when it comes to sex good girl what a lucky cuck!
 
Chastity is a great tool for teasing your partner. But as I have learned recently that having your partner locked away doesn't mean he can't take part in some form, even sexually.
These can really help.
J
Xoxoxo

You are the best wife/woman ever !!! How small do you think your husband can be? If I remember right you bought him a much smaller cage.
 
Hey. Yes I did, several in fact. Like I said before, Michael's dick 3 or.4 years ago was 7.5 (round abouts?) And a 6.5 inch girth. That is more than useful. We decided to consider cuckolding but chastity was more my idea. I've changed cages 3 times and he now has this.one below. I don't let him out very often let alone measure him. But I've been asked this so many times I did when he.was wearing the harness. That is a perfect way to fully humiliate him. So he is now about 5.5 inches now about about 5.5 around. You can see the size difference. It's huge in comparison. But one of my bulls Dan, is much larger than the dildo. It's like the dildo humiliates my husband and Dan humiliates the dildo and Michael. Michael has no idea.
J
Xoxozoxo
 
Hey. Yes I did, several in fact. Like I said before, Michael's dick 3 or.4 years ago was 7.5 (round abouts?) And a 6.5 inch girth. That is more than useful. We decided to consider cuckolding but chastity was more my idea. I've changed cages 3 times and he now has this.one below. I don't let him out very often let alone measure him. But I've been asked this so many times I did when he.was wearing the harness. That is a perfect way to fully humiliate him. So he is now about 5.5 inches now about about 5.5 around. You can see the size difference. It's huge in comparison. But one of my bulls Dan, is much larger than the dildo. It's like the dildo humiliates my husband and Dan humiliates the dildo and Michael. Michael has no idea.
J
Xoxozoxo
Like how you think
 
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
Does your boyfriend as t least get the chance to masturbate?
I would certainly need to.
 
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