We have attended Splash Mocha 3 times, and were laid back each time, but this time, my wife said she has been w/ up to 12 men, including many BBC's, but was not able to do much do to "female issues" this time, but was so turned on, especially in the Take 5 room, asked me to book us for SM in Atlanta 2020. Question is, in looking at some of the some of the more active ladies, it looks like they can take on a dozen, or dare I say 2 during the event. How many can the ladies take in the weekend, and how long did it take to be able to take that many? Like me, she was excited to see ladies be able to take on one after another. (which she has done years ago, so flashback to great times!) Also, as we have been out of the lifestyle, and I am thin, is it better to use toys or try to find BBC's of greater and greater sizes to get her ready? Now, she is ready for play, with or without me. As long as she get the BBC, I am great with it. Any thoughts? BYW, Splash Mocha is the BEST IR event in the country we think, so we have to do whatever needed to get her ready again to enjoy herself fully by February. (pun attended)