Hotwife Preferences

I like both but married men like keeping it discreet. I like more than one married man at a time. To many single guys at one time sometimes seems more volatile
Agree about the discretion with married men. The few we have/ do play with all have *******, one has grandkids, plus the wives are supportive of their husbands needs as long as its very discreet, so the husbands always oblige with that discretion.
 
Ive been in the lifestyle for about 7 years and one thing ive always wondered is if hotwives like married men or single men? Ive had some who actually like the thought of taking care of a man who is married. What are your thoughts?
I would say married because they are less likely to be playing with multiple woman which is big for me because I am very cautious about stds and am not interested in using condoms.On the other hand Im not i terested in the drama from a scorned wife or sneaking around so both scrnarios have their good & bad.
 
I would say married because they are less likely to be playing with multiple woman which is big for me because I am very cautious about stds and am not interested in using condoms.On the other hand Im not i terested in the drama from a scorned wife or sneaking around so both scrnarios have their good & bad.
Yeah, we need to always chat to the wives and get their ok. Most were swingers and happy to watch or join in, but quite a few are women who have just come to terms that their husband wants sex outside of their marriage and have decided them having sex with a married woman lessens the drama, the risk of running away, std's and that the hotwife will be equally discreet.
 
We pretty much only seek out married men. Thet are more reliable, understand tight/ difficult timeframes, don't want anything more than sex etc. We only play with husbands where the wife knows. This can be he's highly sexed and she's not, a midlife crisis and needing more from their marriage or sometimes the wife enjoys watching. We don't go out of our way to mention it, but my wife loves fucking married men, always has. She was a bit of a homewrecker in her early 20's (not proud of it) and loves that forbidden fruit.

She especially enjoys fucking in front of the wife where she gets to watch her husband fuck her so much harder than herself. Plus my wife preps herself with pussy waxing, heels, lingerie and loves putting on the whole dirty 'cock hungry' slut thing for the hubby, and give him a fuck he'll never forget. She does admit she likes making the wife a little jealous that her husband is so desperate to fuck my wife over and over.
Do you find many men whose wife are into watching? This is something i find very interesting because ive never heard of this scenario from a black woman and a black male who are married
 
I would say married because they are less likely to be playing with multiple woman which is big for me because I am very cautious about stds and am not interested in using condoms.On the other hand Im not i terested in the drama from a scorned wife or sneaking around so both scrnarios have their good & bad.
Married men are not interested in drama either lol and if they are smart the have rules and know what there limitations are
 
Yeah, we need to always chat to the wives and get their ok. Most were swingers and happy to watch or join in, but quite a few are women who have just come to terms that their husband wants sex outside of their marriage and have decided them having sex with a married woman lessens the drama, the risk of running away, std's and that the hotwife will be equally discreet.
Im really interested in where you are located. I have such a different view even from a swingers perspective there are not a lot of black couples in the lifestyle.
 
Is there a swingers site you use or is the community pretty open
We use a swingers site, but its not easy, most swingers are looking for a full couple swap and because we search for well hung gents, their wives are seeking the same. So as soon as you mention cuckold, or my hubby's cock size, they tend to drop off. Its more the couples where the wife has no interest in fucking another guy that we do better with.
 
We use a swingers site, but its not easy, most swingers are looking for a full couple swap and because we search for well hung gents, their wives are seeking the same. So as soon as you mention cuckold, or my hubby's cock size, they tend to drop off. Its more the couples where the wife has no interest in fucking another guy that we do better with.
Yeah i understand that completely the lifestyle is difficult to navigate especially on site like sls and sdc. Where i am everything is kinda "clicky" and everyone has there own people who don't necessarily want to find new people to even converse with which ive always found odd
 
Yeah i understand that completely the lifestyle is difficult to navigate especially on site like sls and sdc. Where i am everything is kinda "clicky" and everyone has there own people who don't necessarily want to find new people to even converse with which ive always found odd
We are guilty of that. When you find a good, honest, std free, reliable bull... you hold onto him with dear life. We tend to drop off the swing sites as well once we find what we are looking for.
 
We are guilty of that. When you find a good, honest, std free, reliable bull... you hold onto him with dear life. We tend to drop off the swing sites as well once we find what we are looking for.
Yep i drop off the site after i find a couple but that is incredibly hard! What site do you use?
 
Yep i drop off the site after i find a couple but that is incredibly hard! What site do you use?
redhotpie But as a cuckold couple, its not easy. You'd think it would be, offering regular no strings attached sex with a mid 40's married MILF, but either men aren't as horny these days with all the porn out there, or its too easy for them to fuck lots of women with all the dating apps out there.
 
redhotpie But as a cuckold couple, its not easy. You'd think it would be, offering regular no strings attached sex with a mid 40's married MILF, but either men aren't as horny these days with all the porn out there, or its too easy for them to fuck lots of women with all the dating apps out there.
I have a few reasons its hard
1. People are fake
2. People aren't serious
3. The people you want are far away
Ive never heard of redhotpie but im going to check it out
 
Makes no difference to me. As I am searching without the knowledge of my husband, I would need strict confidence from my black lover, whether he is married or singel.

The one long-term affair I have had whilst married was with a married colleague, and that worked fine. But with the right man, I am sure it would work equally fine with a single black man.

To begin with at least, I am imagining it will happen whilst travelling, so will mot be a long-term thing anyway.
We should definitely talk PM me
 
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