Cuckoldswede
Male
Have had this cuckold fantasy for some years now and I had a well worked plan how to break it to my my wife. She is not the shy type of girl and enjoy dirty sex and are open to most fantasies. We have a great marriage and all.
My plan was altered though when my wife was abroad, was of course planning to pop this thing between our selves at home - but as always plans ar altered when the reality hits. I do not like travelling abroad that much so she went with out me because she love it. Then one day she told me that a guy had hit on her - and I could not hold it in any more. To perfect, lonely wife at vacation and all that - like a porn scene coming true.
I told her that she maybe should get some fun when being abroad. She probably thought I was just joking around, we have rough humor, but I really tried to make her understand over the phone that I was serious. I was saying that it was a turn on that other men finds her attractive, that I have had fantasies of her being my private MILF-pornstar, man - her hug tits and well shaped big spankable ass is just a dream for all of us that love curvy MILF:s. Well she did not really seem to understand that I acutally meant it over the phone, so I also wrote an email to explaine that I was truly serious about it - not joking around.
Well, she did not dismiss it totally, but said that she was not interested about it for now and we talked a bit about it afterwards and she ones again made it clear that it was nothing she was really into for now. I encouraged her to say if any guys at work or in town looked at her that special way and said that it was enough for now and that she bought. She did mention it a few times, but then she got pregnant with our forth baby and I scrapped the thing for now and she seems she has dropped it as well - full focus on that baby happines until we have landed again of course.
I have not nagged about it before , that is a big nonono when it comes to this kind of things - that I understand, and I did not ask for any of the times about any guy watching at her the "special way" - she always said it her self. I understand that patients and bit by bit is the game plan here if it should have the opportunity to be a real thing in the future. But the question is when to pick up the ball again and how to proceed in the future.
I have had this idea to first write some dirty novels with her being with another, I am into to this IR thing where a typical pornstar black guy handling my white wife. Then maybe buying av big black dildo and playing with her when we are doing some bondage or something - which is her favorite dirty thing in bed. The next step might be asking her to start an account at a sex date site and just talking dirt with som guys and finally try to convince her to try it out with one that she feels comfortable with.
Of course, no nagging or pushing, just try to set this bit by bit and get her to understand that this is the strongest fantasy I have ever had som far - which is true.
Any body out there, couple or guy, that have had this experience with a hesitant wife and what made her "go over the top" and finally try it?
My plan was altered though when my wife was abroad, was of course planning to pop this thing between our selves at home - but as always plans ar altered when the reality hits. I do not like travelling abroad that much so she went with out me because she love it. Then one day she told me that a guy had hit on her - and I could not hold it in any more. To perfect, lonely wife at vacation and all that - like a porn scene coming true.
I told her that she maybe should get some fun when being abroad. She probably thought I was just joking around, we have rough humor, but I really tried to make her understand over the phone that I was serious. I was saying that it was a turn on that other men finds her attractive, that I have had fantasies of her being my private MILF-pornstar, man - her hug tits and well shaped big spankable ass is just a dream for all of us that love curvy MILF:s. Well she did not really seem to understand that I acutally meant it over the phone, so I also wrote an email to explaine that I was truly serious about it - not joking around.
Well, she did not dismiss it totally, but said that she was not interested about it for now and we talked a bit about it afterwards and she ones again made it clear that it was nothing she was really into for now. I encouraged her to say if any guys at work or in town looked at her that special way and said that it was enough for now and that she bought. She did mention it a few times, but then she got pregnant with our forth baby and I scrapped the thing for now and she seems she has dropped it as well - full focus on that baby happines until we have landed again of course.
I have not nagged about it before , that is a big nonono when it comes to this kind of things - that I understand, and I did not ask for any of the times about any guy watching at her the "special way" - she always said it her self. I understand that patients and bit by bit is the game plan here if it should have the opportunity to be a real thing in the future. But the question is when to pick up the ball again and how to proceed in the future.
I have had this idea to first write some dirty novels with her being with another, I am into to this IR thing where a typical pornstar black guy handling my white wife. Then maybe buying av big black dildo and playing with her when we are doing some bondage or something - which is her favorite dirty thing in bed. The next step might be asking her to start an account at a sex date site and just talking dirt with som guys and finally try to convince her to try it out with one that she feels comfortable with.
Of course, no nagging or pushing, just try to set this bit by bit and get her to understand that this is the strongest fantasy I have ever had som far - which is true.
Any body out there, couple or guy, that have had this experience with a hesitant wife and what made her "go over the top" and finally try it?
