I've seen him leave the beach with a couple of women.
Haulover Nude Beach BBC.
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When you say "see where it goes"...Does this mean that you have hooked up with these women? If so, any white wives? Would love to hear details.
FLCOUPLE2019
Male
we were out there this weekend. lots of huge bbc everywhere two hung young black dudes came up to us to tell us how hot they thought my wife was. i asked my wife to take pics with them but one of the younger of the two dudes started to get a hard on and she shied away. she was topless with a micro bottom.
Pam, my wife, just told me that our next trip must include a visit to Haulover Nude Beach!
So you're not looking to play then at this point?
FLCOUPLE2019
Male
these guys werent my type. but always looking for the right guy
Take a look at my page. Sent you a few messages - going to be in Miami in a few weeks..
FLCOUPLE2019
Male
thanks
I would love for my wife to take a picture with a BBC at Haulover Beach. My question...is it acceptable to do so at Haulover? I would also have to figure a tactful way to ask my wife to be willing to do so...my mind visualizes her standing there holding a BBC in her hand in the photo.
FLCOUPLE2019
Male
yea its def allowed. theyres all types out there. some pervs though take it a little too far.
Assuming that you are from that general area, I know that I had mentioned this in an earlier post...is there an all nude male strip club in the area that I could take my wife to?...I would love for her to have a private lap dance. I had read that there used to be a gay club that welcomed straight couples...Floppy Rooster?...Swinging Richards?....I had read that there may be plans for something to open again. any intel is appreciated. Thanks.
FLCOUPLE2019
Male
i dont think so? i dont really frequent strip clubs. but theyres one called solid gold i think nearby. the swingin place closed a while ago.
Here is the update from our recent visit to Haulover Beach this past Friday...I am using bullet point format to make it easier to follow, as it is a little lengthy but I am really excited to share it:
-Based on my initial message in this thread, I preface this by stating that I want my extremely conservative blonde wife to be exposed to nude BBC, in hopes that she gets turned on and develops curiosity/interest.
-It started out as a slow day. We arrived around 11:30. Not a lot of people compared to our previous visits. As we approach the nude beach area, I tried to scope out a good spot where we could get a good view of as many other nude bathers as possible. A black couple caught my eye immediately, so I picked a spot and baught 2 chairs just behind them.... just before the first lifeguard tower...I think it was 12? This way, I know that my wife would get a good view of at least 1 BBC today...and she did. She told me that she noticed that when he would stand up, that she could see his long cock hang low between his legs. Actually before she told me that, I wondered why she asked me to stand up in front of her facing away...She then told me why...as she was checking to see if she could see MY cock hanging. This is exciting as this means that she is recognizing size difference and comparing my average sized white cock to a much larger BBC.
-This was our 3rd visit to Haulover...the first time, my wife did not feel comfortable getting nude...but these last 2 visits, she didn't even wear a suit...she just wore an awesome sundress/cover up and just stripped it off as soon as we sat down on our chairs...again..progress.
-We just relaxed at our chairs for a good part of the day, as we unfortunately didn't have have good showing of BBC (AT LEAST FOR NOW!). We didn't even see "Mr. Horse Cock", like we had on our previous 2 visits...not sure if it was because it was a Friday?...or being in October?...
-Around 3:00 I mixed a couple very large vodka cocktails to start our happy hour...this always loosens my wife up.
-We noticed that as the afternoon got later, that there were more people coming...and more BBC. Not sure if this is because some of the BBC scope the area later in the day, as it gets closer to when the lifeguard towers close, in hopes of hooking up with some sun bathers. Regardless, it was great to see! We saw 1 BBC with a cock ring and another with a rubber band around the base of his cock. As this activiity picks up, I make a point of having dialogue with my wife about any BBC that we see so that she can admire them.
-Then, 2 hot girls showed up with 2 gay guys and sat more in front of us, to our left, with chairs and umbrellas. This attracted the attention of other guys as we noticed them starting to picks spots around the area.
-Then, HE showed up. A good looking black guy with an athletic physique and a nice Big Black Cock! He sat his chair, to maybe 25 feet left of my wife and slight forward, so that he was well positioned for the hot girls. I pointed him out to my wife, but she could see his Big Black Cock while he was sitting down, facing forward. He then stood up and casually turned around to check out the area, and my wife saw his BBC. I then told her she should grab her phone and get a picture of him. I cannot tell you how fast she dug for her phone and without any awerness at all, she held her large iphone up in front of her poised to take some pictures...maybe the alcohol was kicking in. She got a few shots but he was kind of standing sideways so she couldn't get any good ones. THEN, he glanced and noticed her COMPLETELY OBVIOUS intention of taking his picture...so he tactfully turned our way as he acted like he was gazing around and up at the incoming clouds and proudly displayed his Beautiful Big Black Cock!!!! she got a few absolutely PERFECT photos of this specimen. Then, he casually walked across in front of us, right in front of our chairs. so that we could get a closeup view of his Big Black Cock. As he did, I heard him say under his breath "next time, why don't you just get in a picture with me." Now I was not sure if he was saying that to my wife...or to me (so that he could really show off how much bigger he is than me). As he then started to walk back right in front of us on his way back to his chair, I felt that I should engage him, as I felt bad that my wife taking the photos was awkward. So I asked him if the rain was coming in? He politely responded and we exchanged a pleasant conversation. Then (as did "Mr. Horse Cock" from our previous visit did) he stopped over on my wife's left side, standing fairly close, with his Big Black Cock at her eye level...purely intentional...and very much appreciated by ME...and hoping my wife as well. We continued to talk and he introduced himself to us and shook both our hands (Again a nice turn on for me to see my NUDE conservative wife have physical contact with another nude man...especially a BBC). His name is Darrin (We THINK)...so will refer to him as Darrin for the sake of this thread. He was a great guy. Very friendly and very engaging. He was wearing a Toronto Blue Jays hat... so being a sports fan that I am I asked about it...he said he has no cnonnection to it and that it's just a hat that he grabbed, as he is a local. I noticed that on several occasions that he would touch his cock quickly as he was talking and standing there...maybe to get it to grow more or maybe to just grab our attention to his Big Black even more. Don't get me wrong, it was not distateful by any means...it was a slight and quick contact. Then, as we were wrapping up our conversation and he was going to walk away I asked him if I could get a picture of him with my wife...and of course he said sure! (because of what I thought I heard him quietly say earlier about taking a picture with him, as he originally walked by, I felt it would be appropriate...let alone for the fact that I would love to see him with my wife!). To my surprise and ABSOLUTE delight, my wife hopped off of her chair and posed with him!...they stood very tight and each wrapped an arm around the others back, with him to her left, and her left tit rubbing against his chest! He leaned his head towards hers and has an unforgettable big smile on his face that reads "I know I can get your wife to fuck me and it will be the BEST fuck of her life" It is an absolute GEM to have a picture of my blonde, blue-eyed conservative wife, posing completely nude while embracing a great looking, athletic black man with a Beautiful Big Black Cock! I thanked him and we all smiled as he walked back to his chair.
-Some rain was coming in but I was NOT ready to leave...my wife made a comment that we probably should go because of the weather...but I told her that I would like for us to finish our last cocktail and wait it out. it started to rain a little bit so Darrin grabbed his chair and stuff and sheltered underneath the guard tower that was near us. So I told my wife that we should do the same. so we joined him over there. We grabbed a long chair and pulled it under the small shelter and it was tight quarters as Darrin had a nice beach/wind umbrella that he opened and laying on the sand as a wall of rain/wind protection (and visibility) from the one side of under the tower. My thoughts immediately went to "how far am I willing to see where things could potentially go" while here with all 3 of us nude in very tight quarters, under a shelter. My fantasy thought was to have loose, playful and bold conversation with him...something like: "My wife and I have not seen many Big Black Cocks like yours...I have to ask, how big is that thing? (with a laughing/joking tone). How big is it when it grows hard? Can we see that?" Again, he is really nice guy with an engaging personality, and I could have seen him responding this way (would love to see this response): He starts massaging his cock and then reaches for my wife's hand and places it on his cock to get her to start stroking it. As he removes his hand, leaving only my wife stroking his Big Black Cock now, he say "most beautiful women start to get a little wet when they feel my Big Black Cock growing in their hand." Then I would feel my wife's naked pussy for wetness and then say to Darrin..."you would be a better of judge of this, don't you think?" Then he would politely ask my wife if it's ok for him to check...and my wife shyly allows him to do so. Then we would be on our way! She sould be sitiing with her legs opened wide, while Darrin rubs/fingers her pussy as she is stroking him...and then she is so fucking turned on by this that she surrenders to anything that he says and does from this point on. Asking if he can rub the just tip of his Big Black Cock on her pussy lips and then rubbing it up/down/around the opening of her wet, aching pussy and then him saying to her "Tell me what you want"...then her just letting loose and getting the best fuck of her life. This is what I was HOPING would happen. Unfortunately we were barely under the shelter for 5 minutes before beach patrol came and kicked us out. So HUUUGE bummer!
-So the 3 of us actually joined the 2 hot girls with the 2 guys from earlier, since they had rented the big beach umbrella's..they were kind enough to let us pull long chairs under theirs in a row for shelter from the rain. So we sat and finished our drinks for another 20 minutes. Unfortunately my wife and I were at the opposite end of the row from Darrin as has at the other end next to the 2 girls., so we could not have conversation with him. I did grab my phone and take a short video of him statnding by the girls as his Big Black Cock was swinging as he moved. So the rain started getting harder and there was lightning so we were all ready to leave. Darrin suggested that we all go to a sports bar near Haulover Beach to continue the party...he jokingly said he would throw his cock over his shoulder and walk in with alll of us. We had dinner plans for the evening so I (regretfully now) declined. I did however ask for another picture with him...this time with me, him and my wife. He said yes and as I walked over to him I told him that I was going to ask my wife to hold our cocks while she stood between us. He said: "You really want ot make your wife angry now don't you?!" So I handed my wife's phone to one of the guys to take the picture. As my wife stood between us I asked her to grab both our cocks...disappointingly she did not. The guy with our phone kept taking multiple pictures...So we have a dozen photos of my average white cock on one side of my wife and BBC on the other side. I just wish she would have grabbed us! So we then said good byes and shuffled through the rain, under the tunnel, to the Haulover Beach parking lot and got soaked.
-Fast forward to that evening. We reviewed the photos. She sent some to my phone. I sent her the short video of Darrin's Big Black Cock swinging with the girls. She deleted some but kept the one of her alone naked with Darrin, the video of his Big Black Cock by the girls and 4 of the ones of all 3 of us. While reviewing the photos of all 3 of us together, she made the point of how much bigger Darrin's cock is compared to mine. She made a big deal about it. That turned me on! Later that night, after finishing our last cocktails for the night, I pulled out my laptop and we watched some BBC porn for the first time together. She stayed engaged for longer that I would have guessed. We ended the evening with a great fuck session while using the Eroscillator and Womanizer on her clit, as she enjoys those toys.
-I have more to share regarding our conversation relative to BBC (of which I would really like some advice on ), but I feel that this has been long enough for now and it is better suited for another reply.
-Lastly, if anyone knows Darrin (Again we THINK that's his name)....he may wear a Toronto Blue Jays hat at times at Haulover Beach, we are planning another trip back and I would love for us to
"COINCIDENTALLY" run into him again at Haulover Beach! so PM me if anyone does!!!!!!
-Based on my initial message in this thread, I preface this by stating that I want my extremely conservative blonde wife to be exposed to nude BBC, in hopes that she gets turned on and develops curiosity/interest.
-It started out as a slow day. We arrived around 11:30. Not a lot of people compared to our previous visits. As we approach the nude beach area, I tried to scope out a good spot where we could get a good view of as many other nude bathers as possible. A black couple caught my eye immediately, so I picked a spot and baught 2 chairs just behind them.... just before the first lifeguard tower...I think it was 12? This way, I know that my wife would get a good view of at least 1 BBC today...and she did. She told me that she noticed that when he would stand up, that she could see his long cock hang low between his legs. Actually before she told me that, I wondered why she asked me to stand up in front of her facing away...She then told me why...as she was checking to see if she could see MY cock hanging. This is exciting as this means that she is recognizing size difference and comparing my average sized white cock to a much larger BBC.
-This was our 3rd visit to Haulover...the first time, my wife did not feel comfortable getting nude...but these last 2 visits, she didn't even wear a suit...she just wore an awesome sundress/cover up and just stripped it off as soon as we sat down on our chairs...again..progress.
-We just relaxed at our chairs for a good part of the day, as we unfortunately didn't have have good showing of BBC (AT LEAST FOR NOW!). We didn't even see "Mr. Horse Cock", like we had on our previous 2 visits...not sure if it was because it was a Friday?...or being in October?...
-Around 3:00 I mixed a couple very large vodka cocktails to start our happy hour...this always loosens my wife up.
-We noticed that as the afternoon got later, that there were more people coming...and more BBC. Not sure if this is because some of the BBC scope the area later in the day, as it gets closer to when the lifeguard towers close, in hopes of hooking up with some sun bathers. Regardless, it was great to see! We saw 1 BBC with a cock ring and another with a rubber band around the base of his cock. As this activiity picks up, I make a point of having dialogue with my wife about any BBC that we see so that she can admire them.
-Then, 2 hot girls showed up with 2 gay guys and sat more in front of us, to our left, with chairs and umbrellas. This attracted the attention of other guys as we noticed them starting to picks spots around the area.
-Then, HE showed up. A good looking black guy with an athletic physique and a nice Big Black Cock! He sat his chair, to maybe 25 feet left of my wife and slight forward, so that he was well positioned for the hot girls. I pointed him out to my wife, but she could see his Big Black Cock while he was sitting down, facing forward. He then stood up and casually turned around to check out the area, and my wife saw his BBC. I then told her she should grab her phone and get a picture of him. I cannot tell you how fast she dug for her phone and without any awerness at all, she held her large iphone up in front of her poised to take some pictures...maybe the alcohol was kicking in. She got a few shots but he was kind of standing sideways so she couldn't get any good ones. THEN, he glanced and noticed her COMPLETELY OBVIOUS intention of taking his picture...so he tactfully turned our way as he acted like he was gazing around and up at the incoming clouds and proudly displayed his Beautiful Big Black Cock!!!! she got a few absolutely PERFECT photos of this specimen. Then, he casually walked across in front of us, right in front of our chairs. so that we could get a closeup view of his Big Black Cock. As he did, I heard him say under his breath "next time, why don't you just get in a picture with me." Now I was not sure if he was saying that to my wife...or to me (so that he could really show off how much bigger he is than me). As he then started to walk back right in front of us on his way back to his chair, I felt that I should engage him, as I felt bad that my wife taking the photos was awkward. So I asked him if the rain was coming in? He politely responded and we exchanged a pleasant conversation. Then (as did "Mr. Horse Cock" from our previous visit did) he stopped over on my wife's left side, standing fairly close, with his Big Black Cock at her eye level...purely intentional...and very much appreciated by ME...and hoping my wife as well. We continued to talk and he introduced himself to us and shook both our hands (Again a nice turn on for me to see my NUDE conservative wife have physical contact with another nude man...especially a BBC). His name is Darrin (We THINK)...so will refer to him as Darrin for the sake of this thread. He was a great guy. Very friendly and very engaging. He was wearing a Toronto Blue Jays hat... so being a sports fan that I am I asked about it...he said he has no cnonnection to it and that it's just a hat that he grabbed, as he is a local. I noticed that on several occasions that he would touch his cock quickly as he was talking and standing there...maybe to get it to grow more or maybe to just grab our attention to his Big Black even more. Don't get me wrong, it was not distateful by any means...it was a slight and quick contact. Then, as we were wrapping up our conversation and he was going to walk away I asked him if I could get a picture of him with my wife...and of course he said sure! (because of what I thought I heard him quietly say earlier about taking a picture with him, as he originally walked by, I felt it would be appropriate...let alone for the fact that I would love to see him with my wife!). To my surprise and ABSOLUTE delight, my wife hopped off of her chair and posed with him!...they stood very tight and each wrapped an arm around the others back, with him to her left, and her left tit rubbing against his chest! He leaned his head towards hers and has an unforgettable big smile on his face that reads "I know I can get your wife to fuck me and it will be the BEST fuck of her life" It is an absolute GEM to have a picture of my blonde, blue-eyed conservative wife, posing completely nude while embracing a great looking, athletic black man with a Beautiful Big Black Cock! I thanked him and we all smiled as he walked back to his chair.
-Some rain was coming in but I was NOT ready to leave...my wife made a comment that we probably should go because of the weather...but I told her that I would like for us to finish our last cocktail and wait it out. it started to rain a little bit so Darrin grabbed his chair and stuff and sheltered underneath the guard tower that was near us. So I told my wife that we should do the same. so we joined him over there. We grabbed a long chair and pulled it under the small shelter and it was tight quarters as Darrin had a nice beach/wind umbrella that he opened and laying on the sand as a wall of rain/wind protection (and visibility) from the one side of under the tower. My thoughts immediately went to "how far am I willing to see where things could potentially go" while here with all 3 of us nude in very tight quarters, under a shelter. My fantasy thought was to have loose, playful and bold conversation with him...something like: "My wife and I have not seen many Big Black Cocks like yours...I have to ask, how big is that thing? (with a laughing/joking tone). How big is it when it grows hard? Can we see that?" Again, he is really nice guy with an engaging personality, and I could have seen him responding this way (would love to see this response): He starts massaging his cock and then reaches for my wife's hand and places it on his cock to get her to start stroking it. As he removes his hand, leaving only my wife stroking his Big Black Cock now, he say "most beautiful women start to get a little wet when they feel my Big Black Cock growing in their hand." Then I would feel my wife's naked pussy for wetness and then say to Darrin..."you would be a better of judge of this, don't you think?" Then he would politely ask my wife if it's ok for him to check...and my wife shyly allows him to do so. Then we would be on our way! She sould be sitiing with her legs opened wide, while Darrin rubs/fingers her pussy as she is stroking him...and then she is so fucking turned on by this that she surrenders to anything that he says and does from this point on. Asking if he can rub the just tip of his Big Black Cock on her pussy lips and then rubbing it up/down/around the opening of her wet, aching pussy and then him saying to her "Tell me what you want"...then her just letting loose and getting the best fuck of her life. This is what I was HOPING would happen. Unfortunately we were barely under the shelter for 5 minutes before beach patrol came and kicked us out. So HUUUGE bummer!
-So the 3 of us actually joined the 2 hot girls with the 2 guys from earlier, since they had rented the big beach umbrella's..they were kind enough to let us pull long chairs under theirs in a row for shelter from the rain. So we sat and finished our drinks for another 20 minutes. Unfortunately my wife and I were at the opposite end of the row from Darrin as has at the other end next to the 2 girls., so we could not have conversation with him. I did grab my phone and take a short video of him statnding by the girls as his Big Black Cock was swinging as he moved. So the rain started getting harder and there was lightning so we were all ready to leave. Darrin suggested that we all go to a sports bar near Haulover Beach to continue the party...he jokingly said he would throw his cock over his shoulder and walk in with alll of us. We had dinner plans for the evening so I (regretfully now) declined. I did however ask for another picture with him...this time with me, him and my wife. He said yes and as I walked over to him I told him that I was going to ask my wife to hold our cocks while she stood between us. He said: "You really want ot make your wife angry now don't you?!" So I handed my wife's phone to one of the guys to take the picture. As my wife stood between us I asked her to grab both our cocks...disappointingly she did not. The guy with our phone kept taking multiple pictures...So we have a dozen photos of my average white cock on one side of my wife and BBC on the other side. I just wish she would have grabbed us! So we then said good byes and shuffled through the rain, under the tunnel, to the Haulover Beach parking lot and got soaked.
-Fast forward to that evening. We reviewed the photos. She sent some to my phone. I sent her the short video of Darrin's Big Black Cock swinging with the girls. She deleted some but kept the one of her alone naked with Darrin, the video of his Big Black Cock by the girls and 4 of the ones of all 3 of us. While reviewing the photos of all 3 of us together, she made the point of how much bigger Darrin's cock is compared to mine. She made a big deal about it. That turned me on! Later that night, after finishing our last cocktails for the night, I pulled out my laptop and we watched some BBC porn for the first time together. She stayed engaged for longer that I would have guessed. We ended the evening with a great fuck session while using the Eroscillator and Womanizer on her clit, as she enjoys those toys.
-I have more to share regarding our conversation relative to BBC (of which I would really like some advice on ), but I feel that this has been long enough for now and it is better suited for another reply.
-Lastly, if anyone knows Darrin (Again we THINK that's his name)....he may wear a Toronto Blue Jays hat at times at Haulover Beach, we are planning another trip back and I would love for us to
"COINCIDENTALLY" run into him again at Haulover Beach! so PM me if anyone does!!!!!!
hook me up with more. Do you have any pics of him and your wife together. show us how sexy your wife looks with a BBC
I will fill you in on the rest when I have time to do so very soon. I do have the pics as mentioned, but I don't have either of their permission to put on the internet. I love the pics.
Sorry for the late follow-up on this...have been busy. Here is the continuation of how our weekend getaway to Haulover Beach area went:
-This follow-up actually fits in the timeline between us leaving Haulover Beach that day and when we watched porn on my laptop for the first time later that evening.
-To rewind for a moment...prior to our weekend getaway, I had found a Sex Fantasy Quiz online. It is a site that has a questionnaire for couples to complete (separately) and has a list of a lot of different questions relative to sex fantasies. It is a tool to share common fantasies and create discussion on whether you want to fulfill them or just keep as fantasies. Again, each person answers each question with the optional responses from "Not interested in doing"...to "Would turn me on"...to "Willing if my partner wants"...to "Yes, I want to try it". Here is the kicker...After each person answers all of the questions separately, it gives a list of ONLY the questions that BOTH people expressed ANY willingness to try...and at what level of response. So it did NOT list any questions/answers of any items that one or both said "NO" to. This is a great concept as it won't list anything that would be embarrassing for either one of us to admit to being into. There were probably 60 plus questions on all kinds of topics relative to fantasies for couples (from as mild to simply having more sex...to using toys...to swinging...to bondage...to orgies...). It also gave the option to add "customized" questions to the quiz. So I added some very specific custom questions...mostly relative to having sex with BBC.
-So fast forward to that evening...I pulled out my laptop at the hotel and told her about this questionnaire. Told her that I heard about it on a radio show (which I did) and that it is an innocent way to create communication and spice things up a bit. Again, I had already answered the quiz on my end, several days before our weekend getaway. Both of us still with a mild cocktail buzz, she was willing to go through the exercise of questions so I gave her privacy to do so and had her submit her answers when done. Then you hit a results button and review all common answers together...which was fun.
-So getting straight to our results...We had approximately 25 plus fantasies that we both answered as at least "willing if my partner wants." A lot of them were mild and probably common with most couples.
-Not going to list all, but here are a few that I am excited about...My conservative wife answered "Willing if my partner wants" to:
-Watch porn together.
-Go to a strip club together.
-Get a lap dance at a strip club.
-Go to a sex or swingers club together to check it out.
-Go to a nudist resort together.
-Go to a pleasure resort together.
-Watch other couples have sex (live).
-I was disappointed that she did not answer "willing" for any of the BBC questions. I am hopeful that maybe she was to afraid to answer that way.
-So since "watch porn together" was a match, later that evening I grabbed my laptop and pulled up some porn for us to watch together. I went to one of the tube sites so that she could see all of the different categories. This gave me the opportunity for us to bounce around to a variety of categories. This also gave me a chance to pull up some BBC porn and I brought up conversation regarding our experience with Darrin from Haulover Nude Beach earlier in the day.
-Then I FINALLY took the opportunity to slightly, slowly carefully ease into one of my fantasies...for the FIRST time. I told her that I was really hoping that she would have held Darrin's Big Black Cock in one of the photos from the beach earlier that day (as I described in my preceding post). That it would have been really HOT to see her do that. This caught her off guard and she questioned it. I told her that it would make her look so sexy by doing so. I told her that I am comfortable with her touching another man and that there is no issue as long as I know about it and am there. I then mentioned something that I had heard before relative to discussing fantasies...that everyone has fantasies and that they can be dynamic and unique to each person. The BIGGEST point being made is that we CANNOT control what turns us on...we can't help it... we don't choose what turns us on...it is just a fact of physiology and life. I absolutely truly think that this approach made it more comfortable of a discussion So I then branched out and told her that I am turned on by the thought of Hot-wifing. I had to explain what this means. Again, she was caught off guard and surprised. I told her that I cannot help that I am turned on by this and that I would be ok with it. As I mentioned, this approach seemed to make things less awkward. She then said that she doesn't have an interest in being with anyone else but me. Obviously, that is such a great thing for a husband to hear a wife say to him. It also gives me a baseline to her current thoughts. As I have mentioned many times, she is very conservative, so I am not surprised by her comment. That being said, she reacted to this entire sequence of events, in a very comfortable, non-judging, non-offended manner.
-So now that the ice has been broken, I feel a sense of relief as well as excitement. I say this because for the first time, we have had an open conversation on topics that I never thought that she would be willing to discuss and shared some very sexy experiences (her being nude at a beach...taking a picture while being nude with a nude black man with a Big Black Cock...us watching porn together...her revealing the willingness to go to check out a swingers club...) that I didn't think were possible. I have been on this site for a number of years...I historically don't initiate many threads. But I do read a LOT of the advice/suggestions/recommendations of those on the site, relative to how to get wives engaged in the topics of hot-wife/cuckold/interracial. One of the BIGGEST take-aways that resonates with me is that to take it SLOWLY, do NOT ******* your wife to do ANYTHING that she doesn't want to do and that it is a "process." I can honestly say that this has absolutely been the case for me! Our communication and willingness to share more "sexy" experiences has continued to gradually improve and expand. Now I am not sure where this will continue to go, but I am approaching this in an honest and respect manner with my wife.
-Lastly I ask for advice on this:
-On our next visit (which will be in either January or May at the latest) we will be spending another day at Haulover Beach.
-Since we both shared the same answer on the Sex Fantasy Quiz ("Willingness if my partner wants") to the question of going to a swingers club to check it out, I am thinking of bringing up the possibility of going to the Trapeze Club in Ft. Lauderdale. I have visited the website and it looks intriguing. I would want for us to go to literally check it out...to watch...to be watched... Not with the intention of participating in any playing at this time. With this mindset, hopefully we would find it to be a very sexy experience...taking it slow...and possibly plan to visit again on our next trip to the area later in the Summer. Again...a process.
-4 questions:
1. Does anyone have any experience with Trapeze and would be kind enough to share comments/opinions?
2. Any advice on how to approach this subject with my wife (based on what I have shared on this thread)?
3. Does anyone know if there is the opportunity to engage with much BBC at Trapeze?
4. To circle back around to my previous summary regarding our day at Haulover Beach...by chance is anyone familiar with Darrin from that area?
Thanks in advance and I look forward to sharing our progress moving forward.
-This follow-up actually fits in the timeline between us leaving Haulover Beach that day and when we watched porn on my laptop for the first time later that evening.
-To rewind for a moment...prior to our weekend getaway, I had found a Sex Fantasy Quiz online. It is a site that has a questionnaire for couples to complete (separately) and has a list of a lot of different questions relative to sex fantasies. It is a tool to share common fantasies and create discussion on whether you want to fulfill them or just keep as fantasies. Again, each person answers each question with the optional responses from "Not interested in doing"...to "Would turn me on"...to "Willing if my partner wants"...to "Yes, I want to try it". Here is the kicker...After each person answers all of the questions separately, it gives a list of ONLY the questions that BOTH people expressed ANY willingness to try...and at what level of response. So it did NOT list any questions/answers of any items that one or both said "NO" to. This is a great concept as it won't list anything that would be embarrassing for either one of us to admit to being into. There were probably 60 plus questions on all kinds of topics relative to fantasies for couples (from as mild to simply having more sex...to using toys...to swinging...to bondage...to orgies...). It also gave the option to add "customized" questions to the quiz. So I added some very specific custom questions...mostly relative to having sex with BBC.
-So fast forward to that evening...I pulled out my laptop at the hotel and told her about this questionnaire. Told her that I heard about it on a radio show (which I did) and that it is an innocent way to create communication and spice things up a bit. Again, I had already answered the quiz on my end, several days before our weekend getaway. Both of us still with a mild cocktail buzz, she was willing to go through the exercise of questions so I gave her privacy to do so and had her submit her answers when done. Then you hit a results button and review all common answers together...which was fun.
-So getting straight to our results...We had approximately 25 plus fantasies that we both answered as at least "willing if my partner wants." A lot of them were mild and probably common with most couples.
-Not going to list all, but here are a few that I am excited about...My conservative wife answered "Willing if my partner wants" to:
-Watch porn together.
-Go to a strip club together.
-Get a lap dance at a strip club.
-Go to a sex or swingers club together to check it out.
-Go to a nudist resort together.
-Go to a pleasure resort together.
-Watch other couples have sex (live).
-I was disappointed that she did not answer "willing" for any of the BBC questions. I am hopeful that maybe she was to afraid to answer that way.
-So since "watch porn together" was a match, later that evening I grabbed my laptop and pulled up some porn for us to watch together. I went to one of the tube sites so that she could see all of the different categories. This gave me the opportunity for us to bounce around to a variety of categories. This also gave me a chance to pull up some BBC porn and I brought up conversation regarding our experience with Darrin from Haulover Nude Beach earlier in the day.
-Then I FINALLY took the opportunity to slightly, slowly carefully ease into one of my fantasies...for the FIRST time. I told her that I was really hoping that she would have held Darrin's Big Black Cock in one of the photos from the beach earlier that day (as I described in my preceding post). That it would have been really HOT to see her do that. This caught her off guard and she questioned it. I told her that it would make her look so sexy by doing so. I told her that I am comfortable with her touching another man and that there is no issue as long as I know about it and am there. I then mentioned something that I had heard before relative to discussing fantasies...that everyone has fantasies and that they can be dynamic and unique to each person. The BIGGEST point being made is that we CANNOT control what turns us on...we can't help it... we don't choose what turns us on...it is just a fact of physiology and life. I absolutely truly think that this approach made it more comfortable of a discussion So I then branched out and told her that I am turned on by the thought of Hot-wifing. I had to explain what this means. Again, she was caught off guard and surprised. I told her that I cannot help that I am turned on by this and that I would be ok with it. As I mentioned, this approach seemed to make things less awkward. She then said that she doesn't have an interest in being with anyone else but me. Obviously, that is such a great thing for a husband to hear a wife say to him. It also gives me a baseline to her current thoughts. As I have mentioned many times, she is very conservative, so I am not surprised by her comment. That being said, she reacted to this entire sequence of events, in a very comfortable, non-judging, non-offended manner.
-So now that the ice has been broken, I feel a sense of relief as well as excitement. I say this because for the first time, we have had an open conversation on topics that I never thought that she would be willing to discuss and shared some very sexy experiences (her being nude at a beach...taking a picture while being nude with a nude black man with a Big Black Cock...us watching porn together...her revealing the willingness to go to check out a swingers club...) that I didn't think were possible. I have been on this site for a number of years...I historically don't initiate many threads. But I do read a LOT of the advice/suggestions/recommendations of those on the site, relative to how to get wives engaged in the topics of hot-wife/cuckold/interracial. One of the BIGGEST take-aways that resonates with me is that to take it SLOWLY, do NOT ******* your wife to do ANYTHING that she doesn't want to do and that it is a "process." I can honestly say that this has absolutely been the case for me! Our communication and willingness to share more "sexy" experiences has continued to gradually improve and expand. Now I am not sure where this will continue to go, but I am approaching this in an honest and respect manner with my wife.
-Lastly I ask for advice on this:
-On our next visit (which will be in either January or May at the latest) we will be spending another day at Haulover Beach.
-Since we both shared the same answer on the Sex Fantasy Quiz ("Willingness if my partner wants") to the question of going to a swingers club to check it out, I am thinking of bringing up the possibility of going to the Trapeze Club in Ft. Lauderdale. I have visited the website and it looks intriguing. I would want for us to go to literally check it out...to watch...to be watched... Not with the intention of participating in any playing at this time. With this mindset, hopefully we would find it to be a very sexy experience...taking it slow...and possibly plan to visit again on our next trip to the area later in the Summer. Again...a process.
-4 questions:
1. Does anyone have any experience with Trapeze and would be kind enough to share comments/opinions?
2. Any advice on how to approach this subject with my wife (based on what I have shared on this thread)?
3. Does anyone know if there is the opportunity to engage with much BBC at Trapeze?
4. To circle back around to my previous summary regarding our day at Haulover Beach...by chance is anyone familiar with Darrin from that area?
Thanks in advance and I look forward to sharing our progress moving forward.
You have a Mr. Marcus 9" incher and you never discussed sex with BBC? Seriously!
Only in "general" references...while using it on her. Telling her how sexy she looks while being fucked by the BBC. We never had discussions about it actually happening...we are just not to that point yet.
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