my wife had an emotional affair back in the 70s. unfortunately, i didn't know about it until 3 years ago. it was a co-worker she'd meet for breakfast before work.( that is all the info. she gave me). i never asked if it turned physical, or not.
i, also, remember one friday afternoon, she called me about 4:45pm & asked if i minded if she went out for a ******* with "some people" from work.
now, she worked in a, small, trucking terminal. there was only one other female working there, who was fucking the married mgr. so "some people" needed to be defined.
she got home about 9:00 & looked plenty sober to me. she sure didn't look like she was drinking for 4 hours. i asked her who attended & she gave me the same "just some people" from work. maybe she spent the evening in bed, i'll never know.
as much as she loved sucking dick, i can't believe she never did him in the car or at work.
she said it ended because they were developing feeling for each other.