Has this ever just remained a long term fantasy between couples?

mistercuck

mistercuck

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Hi guys, I was just wondering, is there any couples here where their gf/wife has not slept with anyone else and it has just remained a fantasy for years? Or is it usually once the seed is planted in their partners mind, within a certain amount of time the inevitable just happens?

The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control. I might just want it to be a fantasy for years before anything happens. Who knows it might happen one day and I might think why didn't I mention it sooner or it could go the other way and damage our relationship / sex life. (I'm not new to this I've fantasized about being a cuck for over 10 years) however like I said I'm scared of the outcome, I mentioned it to a couple of my partners in the past and had negative reactions but they were not very open minded and I was younger and probably went about it the wrong way, but with my current gf I don't want to mess our relationship up.
 
mistercuck said:
Hi guys, I was just wondering, is there any couples here where their gf/wife has not slept with anyone else and it has just remained a fantasy for years? Or is it usually once the seed is planted in their partners mind, within a certain amount of time the inevitable just happens?

The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control. I might just want it to be a fantasy for years before anything happens. Who knows it might happen one day and I might think why didn't I mention it sooner or it could go the other way and damage our relationship / sex life. (I'm not new to this I've fantasized about being a cuck for over 10 years) however like I said I'm scared of the outcome, I mentioned it to a couple of my partners in the past and had negative reactions but they were not very open minded and I was younger and probably went about it the wrong way, but with my current gf I don't want to mess our relationship up.
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You need to.try and work.hard. noting is impossible. For me it was the same but... going.with my wife in town for.a.dr.ink ... going home.she change her.opinion.
He is not blacked yet but we love a lot ir scene and she have her bbc dildo.all the time.
Don't give up.if you want to.see her with a real bbc. Drin.king a bottle of vine.ne can resolve a lot of problem and open new wild things in us.
 
john1984 said:
You need to.try and work.hard. noting is impossible. For me it was the same but... going.with my wife in town for.a.dr.ink ... going home.she change her.opinion.
He is not blacked yet but we love a lot ir scene and she have her bbc dildo.all the time.
Don't give up.if you want to.see her with a real bbc. Drin.king a bottle of vine.ne can resolve a lot of problem and open new wild things in us.
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How did you approach it when you went for a beverage in town? We often have a bottle of wine at weekends so that shouldn't be a problem ;). But yeah like I said I dunno if I'd like it to remain a fantasy or not because you know the saying once you go black... But then the thought of having no control over who my gf sleeps with and when really turns me on. Just the thought of her telling me she will be stopping at another guys house for the night really turns me on like you wouldn't believe
 
mistercuck said:
How did you approach it when you went for a beverage in town? We often have a bottle of wine at weekends so that shouldn't be a problem ;). But yeah like I said I dunno if I'd like it to remain a fantasy or not because you know the saying once you go black... But then the thought of having no control over who my gf sleeps with and when really turns me on. Just the thought of her telling me she will be stopping at another guys house for the night really turns me on like you wouldn't believe
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Thinking of her fucking another bbc man in the end you will push her to try. Now it is just fantasy, tomorrow will be more than a fantasy and in this way keep.going you will push her to.do.it.
More if she will.know.what you want or.what your fantasy are... she will.play with your fantasy and will try in the end.
Think to times before you do something!
 
john1984 said:
Thinking of her fucking another bbc man in the end you will push her to try. Now it is just fantasy, tomorrow will be more than a fantasy and in this way keep.going you will push her to.do.it.
More if she will.know.what you want or.what your fantasy are... she will.play with your fantasy and will try in the end.
Think to times before you do something!
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Maybe if it did get to the point where she told me she did want to try with another man I would have come to terms with it in my mind by then. I've just received a cock sleeve with plenty of lube and will see what she thinks tonight maybe she's not interested in bigger cocks or maybe she'll love it, who knows. Wish me luck :LOL:
 
mistercuck said:
Maybe if it did get to the point where she told me she did want to try with another man I would have come to terms with it in my mind by then. I've just received a cock sleeve with plenty of lube and will see what she thinks tonight maybe she's not interested in bigger cocks or maybe she'll love it, who knows. Wish me luck :LOL:
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If she will.accept to fuck.her tonight with the cock.sleeve she will.want to.go.further for sure... just need time.
Have a wild night 🌙
 
john1984 said:
If she will.accept to fuck.her tonight with the cock.sleeve she will.want to.go.further for sure... just need time.
Have a wild night 🌙
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At first she said it was far too big and I said it sounds like a challenge, she was worried her pussy would never recover and be stretched (I kinda hope it does, then she won't be fully satisfied by me anymore) but she said we might try it next weekend so wish me luck haha
 
mistercuck said:
Hi guys, I was just wondering, is there any couples here where their gf/wife has not slept with anyone else and it has just remained a fantasy for years? Or is it usually once the seed is planted in their partners mind, within a certain amount of time the inevitable just happens?

The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control. I might just want it to be a fantasy for years before anything happens. Who knows it might happen one day and I might think why didn't I mention it sooner or it could go the other way and damage our relationship / sex life. (I'm not new to this I've fantasized about being a cuck for over 10 years) however like I said I'm scared of the outcome, I mentioned it to a couple of my partners in the past and had negative reactions but they were not very open minded and I was younger and probably went about it the wrong way, but with my current gf I don't want to mess our relationship up.
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My wife and I have been fantasizing together for about 5 years. For about the last year we always only fantasize about her fucking a black man or black men while fantasizing. She is all in 100% while fantasizing (check our posts and media) but does not want to talk about it while not going at it. Often while fantasizing I am certain this is the time that will take her over the top and she will agree to finally take the next step. When we come down from our sexxx high and I talk with her about turning fantasy to reality she reminds me its only fantasy, that she only wants to fuck me.

I continue to nudge her without applying pressure. Just last night she agreed to look at guys on SLS. She looked, but every guy I thought would be a good fit was met with a NO. After looking at about 4 men she was done with it. Just looking with her got me hard and continues to give me hope that she wiil eventually take the next step. As far as next step im only looking to take baby steps. Just talk with a potential lover by phone, maybe phone sexxx? If there is chemistry set up a no pressure meet without sex on the table for first time meet.

I think part of the issue is I do satisfy her everytime we have sexxx. I am fit with a real 8" that I just cannot keep out of her married white pussy!

I still believe exposed to the right man she will go for it. Im working on it!

Any advise is welcomed.

All that being said, the fantasizing is ridiculously hot! We both cum longer and harder than we ever did before fantasizing about her giving herself to a black lover. Over the past few months she always cums twice while fantasizing!

We will be fantasizing tonight! Wish me luck! Maybe tonights the night!
 
forher789 said:
My wife and I have been fantasizing together for about 5 years. For about the last year we always only fantasize about her fucking a black man or black men while fantasizing. She is all in 100% while fantasizing (check our posts and media) but does not want to talk about it while not going at it. Often while fantasizing I am certain this is the time that will take her over the top and she will agree to finally take the next step. When we come down from our sexxx high and I talk with her about turning fantasy to reality she reminds me its only fantasy, that she only wants to fuck me.

I continue to nudge her without applying pressure. Just last night she agreed to look at guys on SLS. She looked, but every guy I thought would be a good fit was met with a NO. After looking at about 4 men she was done with it. Just looking with her got me hard and continues to give me hope that she wiil eventually take the next step. As far as next step im only looking to take baby steps. Just talk with a potential lover by phone, maybe phone sexxx? If there is chemistry set up a no pressure meet without sex on the table for first time meet.

I think part of the issue is I do satisfy her everytime we have sexxx. I am fit with a real 8" that I just cannot keep out of her married white pussy!

I still believe exposed to the right man she will go for it. Im working on it!

Any advise is welcomed.

All that being said, the fantasizing is ridiculously hot! We both cum longer and harder than we ever did before fantasizing about her giving herself to a black lover. Over the past few months she always cums twice while fantasizing!

We will be fantasizing tonight! Wish me luck! Maybe tonights the night!
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Good luck 😈😈
 
It all takes time. I been with my wife for 13 years I'm 34 she's 30. I got into this fantasy about 8 years ago. I introduced it to my wife in lockdown 2021 in May. She wasn't into the idea at first she was abit thrown back. Later that day she came up to me and said show me what you like watching then ! So I did and she loved it she got the wettest I've ever seen literally dripping wet ! We used dildos but the porn is what changed her mind . We really enjoy it as a couple and she even said she wants to do it in real life but she's nervous about taking the step . We been doing this for year and a half now and she is definitely getting closer to it. No doubt she loves it. She said if we didn't have young children she would do it now. So I think it's on the cards with in the next couple years. Sometimes she acts like she wants to do it now. She said wish I could click my fingers and we could be in the scenario but it's not as easy as that ! We got a great sex life. She's only ever been with me too so that's what makes it hot 👿
 
mistercuck said:
Hi guys, I was just wondering, is there any couples here where their gf/wife has not slept with anyone else and it has just remained a fantasy for years? Or is it usually once the seed is planted in their partners mind, within a certain amount of time the inevitable just happens?

The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control. I might just want it to be a fantasy for years before anything happens. Who knows it might happen one day and I might think why didn't I mention it sooner or it could go the other way and damage our relationship / sex life. (I'm not new to this I've fantasized about being a cuck for over 10 years) however like I said I'm scared of the outcome, I mentioned it to a couple of my partners in the past and had negative reactions but they were not very open minded and I was younger and probably went about it the wrong way, but with my current gf I don't want to mess our relationship up.
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Cuckholding is amazing
 
“The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control.”

this is a GREAT example of what we’ve been talking about in other threads. Your profile says FEMALE, yet you’re clearly a dude….a dude who seems to be doing this behind their partner’s back. this is lame as hell. you know that right?

your profile is fake. reported.
 
BBCBuff said:
“The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control.”

this is a GREAT example of what we’ve been talking about in other threads. Your profile says FEMALE, yet you’re clearly a dude….a dude who seems to be doing this behind their partner’s back. this is lame as hell. you know that right?

your profile is fake. reported.
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Oh ******* I just realised this ! I just read the post and replied 😂
 
Thanks but this profile was created a long time ago, I have no idea why it says female and I can assure you I'm not fake, don't always assume. I used the contact us form at the bottom of the forum assuming an admin would be able to change the gender on my profile, but I've not had any replies for over a week. There's not much more I can do. And "bbcbuff" can you explain exactly what I'm doing behind my partners back?
BBCBuff said:
“The reason I ask is because I fantasize about it a lot but I'm not sure if I'd be ready to introduce my gf to my fantasy because of the fear it might snowball out of control.”

this is a GREAT example of what we’ve been talking about in other threads. Your profile says FEMALE, yet you’re clearly a dude….a dude who seems to be doing this behind their partner’s back. this is lame as hell. you know that right?

your profile is fake. reported.
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mistercuck said:
Thanks but this profile was created a long time ago, I have no idea why it says female and I can assure you I'm not fake, don't always assume. I used the contact us form at the bottom of the forum assuming an admin would be able to change the gender on my profile, but I've not had any replies for over a week. There's not much more I can do. And "bbcbuff" can you explain exactly what I'm doing behind my partners back?
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You really created your own reality, huh? Have a great week!
 
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