We've had several meetings setup with guys that seem very eager to get together, but they flake out when the time comes to actually meet.
Has everyone encountered more and more flakes recently?
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I certainly had no problem finding a new friend at Moon City, or two new friends at Eleven!
Many guys do not understand why we want them to be in a closer range . We understand how there are cancellations and stuff comes up , The Fantasy Porno world goes off without a hitch , That is why we want so bad for Scarlett to meet another femdom cuck couple to talk about real life stuff that surrounds that actual event and how to deal with things within the lifestyleNo, we have not had that problem. Maybe part of the issue is the definition of, "flake."
Here is what I mean: My husband arranges all of our playtimes. I know for a fact that things are often left pretty nebulous until the last minute, because we have a very busy life, and understand that the men do too, and things come up.
So our plans are like, "Hey, we will be at the same event, Sure, happy to meet up if we run into each other there." So no firm promises given, or asked for. So no one can really, "flake" on us, because we didn't extract a promise.
Now we did have one guy who said he was coming to our hotel, talked a big game, and then texted to say he would be late. And he was late enough that he got into surge pricing for Uber and couldn't afford to come. He actually asked my husband to pay LOL. So he I guess kind of flaked, but if the delay was actually unavoidable and he really couldn't afford the Uber, what are you going to do?
Fortunately, that was a night my husband had arranged for TWO men to meet me, so I did not exactly go unfulfilled.
What is your criteria for a bull or guy to play with? From what I observed, most couples are going after the same pool of guys. So you and the guy might be chatting and setting up a meat, and at the time he might really want to meet with you, however, another couple or woman might reach out to him while y'all are still setting up a meet time. And he weigh his options and might go the other way. You can't take it personally, the lifestyle has changed a lot. It has become commercialize. Anytime that happens flakes and scammers flock to it.
So you ended up finding different guys out at the bar or club?
We've had people that were just hard o connect with due to busy and conflicting schedules. I completely understand that. By flaking, I mean arranging to meet at a particular time and place, only for the other party to no show without even the courtesy of a call or text. To that point, we've only had that problem with a few new people in the last couple of years. We have a pretty good group of friends that always shows up when they say they are going to, give our take any delays such as traffic or other unforseen occurrences. That's why my wife is more reluctant to even try to meet anyone new many times.
There's really no specific criteria. It's really a case by case basis. It has to be someone that we both trust and respect and there obviously has to be a physical attraction between him and her.
Nothing but fakes it seems like. I say this a lot but never in my wildest dreams did i think it would be this hard to find a hung sane and chill black dude to absolutely own and destroy my sexy as fuck 20 something year old white wifes pussy. Experience isnt necessary or anything. Its her first as well as my first real cuck experience. If anyone should be nervous and wanna back out it should be us lol.
Right! Doesn't make any sense. Lol. Like I said, we've met a few solid people throughout the years that we really enjoy, so they are out there. Just a lot of flakes along the way.
it always sucks whenever flakes occur...when all of a sudden those frequent messages become much more quiet...I feel like as people have mentioned, there is a rise of flakes and scammers...but also a lot of men double/triple book...I blame not operating from the right head in those moments. that and a lot of people are opportunists...if they feel something better is on deck they choose that...and to each their own, but it is ALWAYS rude and disrespectful to not give notice if you aren't going to show up.
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A lot of men do get cat fished to or it a dude act as a couple and girl trying to steal pictures and play games why i think snapchat is important to have. It gives you a way to hear each others voice or face time without giving up your real number at first. It gives both parties the ability to feel each other out and see both are who they say they are.I have run into a lot of fake women or couples that a suspect are dudes and when i ask to speak first before sending sensitive pictures or info they have issues with that which is a big red flag on my part. Especially if you have a sensitive career and must have discretion. Also some ppl have social anxiety i would say more and more men do. The phone and internet has really change a generation of ppl to be uncomfortable in social events with strangers in a intimate manner.
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