On both sides of the fence there is plenty of beauty with no brains. There are plenty of males and females get get by on their appearance. Nice to look at but a waste of time
However one of the great joys in life for me is an intelligent , attractive woman with a quick wit and a subtle sense of humor. I am sure that from time to time you will find someone that is a joy to be with. The majority of people I have met in my life I really wouldn't want to spend a lot of time with. But those rare individuals make it worthwhile.[/QUOTE
.... and all talk about sex aside that's why I'm married to the man I am. He challenges me everyday to evolve and become better than I was the day before. We can talk about anything from vibrators to quantum physics. One day when we aren't swingers, due to sickness or old age, that's the man whose side I'll be at. He'll still be singing "Ever little thing she does is magic" to me, and I'll still be so thankful he picked me.