Gay is when masculine is attracted to masculine. But that is not the dynamic between a Black Man and a white boi. It may be hard for whites to understand, but it is very natural for Black Men to see weaker, softer, white guys as quite feminine in relation to themselves. We may have bigger clits than women but to a Black Man we are feminine bois, physically and certainly sexually, not men as they know manhood. Even though the boi is not feminine within his peer group, the masculine Bull dominates the relatively feminine boi that he naturally perceives as his submissive inferior. There's nothing at all gay about that. I see Asian men as being feminine relative to me - imagine how a Black Man sees me from his position at the top of the sexual/biological pyramid.
As for the boi, and speaking as a former str8 guy, I've acknowledged and accepted my biological femininity relative to Black Men and the natural attraction that sparks in me toward them. Many would call it gay but it's definitely not the same thing as mutual attraction among males of the same biological makeup. And I think lots of evidence here shows that Black Men have the power to exploit that feminine/masculine difference with white bois in a way no one else can. I certainly don't believe any white guy could have reprogrammed my sexuality to see myself as his pussy like I do toward a Black Man. That's a feminine/masculine dynamic grounded in basic biology and awakened by ****** confrontation with reality.