Gay or not Gay? That is the question

I think it is all about POWER , some blacks can scenes a weaker white male and if a woman is around it's his time to shine.. even if it's just to humiliate ....once he has laid down that law it's just a matter of time till he's using holes .
 
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Fuck! All IR porn watchers, or even everybody watching porn is bi?!! C'mon!
I am not into putting labels into this. I consider the hubby submitting to bbc as a part of the domination. The hubby may not even be attracted to all kinds of cock or even other bbc. The couple submitting to the bull is pure power play. But i do see some of the guys take it to the extreme with sissification. Thats a whole other side of the lifestyle and probably dont belong in this thread.
 
Fuck! All IR porn watchers, or even everybody watching porn is bi?!! C'mon!
I am not into putting labels into this. I consider the hubby submitting to bbc as a part of the domination. The hubby may not even be attracted to all kinds of cock or even other bbc. The couple submitting to the bull is pure power play. But i do see some of the guys take it to the extreme with sissification. Thats a whole other side of the lifestyle and probably dont belong in this thread.
Sorry, I actually meant wesmaxim's post that you liked.
all cucks are bisexual to some degree. its a bi act to enjoy watching another man fuck your wife and cum in her.
Plain porn watching and voyeurism are related. And basic cuckold is nothing but voyeurism. I agree some people think all humans are a little bi by some degree. But even in a more participative cuckold rel, a specific experience linked to a black dom doesn't make you more gay. Would putting your wife's dildo in your mouth make you gay or bi?
 
I've seen this discussed a while back on this site but I wanted to ressurect it. As a Bull, when you excert your dominance over a cuck hubby by making him suck your BBC or taking him anally infront of his wife, is that a gay act or the act of complete power? I'm of the opinion that it is an act of power unless it happens outside of the Dom/sub relationship. Personally I've never been attracted to a man, but while in the mist of cucking a few hubbys, my cock is harder than ever. Power is the key for me, not the homosexual nature of it. Just wanted a few opinions, from both perspectives. The Bulls and the cucks. And the wives as well.

Great topic and I guess I'll speak on it as it pertains to me. I am straight, I am not attracted to men, I do not seek out men, I do not look at porn of that involves only men. I enjoy the theme of a well hung black man seducing my wife and taking her as I watch.
The idea of two men together I did not understand at all but that sort of changed after a cam session with someone on another site recently named Talllife25, a young well hung black guy who was interested in my wife. I did not read his bio but he was bi so I had no idea things were going to go from talking about my wife to him talking to me.
We talked about my wife for quite awhile and things were winding down and out of nowhere he asked me to help him cum. I was put on tilt for a second because here I was looking for a man for my wife and he sounded like a fit for us (see my other thread for info) and I did not want him to be insulted if I said no to him. I told him I was straight and had never done this before and was nervous but would like to try and and I asked him what he wanted me to do.
He asked me if I had ever thought about letting a black guy have both my wife and I said in this cuckold situation the idea had fleetingly went through my mind since I saw it a lot but it was not a plan I had in mind. He then said I want you both, mind you here was this 25 year old black guy on my cam slowly stroking this huge cock which he said was over 9" long and here I was hoping to secure him for my wife so I felt both desperate and a little excited when he said I want you both.
At that point I was nervous as hell but I went with it and told him "You have a huge cock." He said to me" yes I do now tell me you want to suck it." That was when it hit me that he had the power over me, here was a black man with a huge penis and he was taking charge and I found myself turned on by it and was giving in to what he wanted.
From there I told him whatever he wanted to hear. I mean I went into detail my wife and I being in the room with him and me telling him he had a huge cock and then getting up and coming over to him as he sat on the bed and getting on my knees and taking him in my hands and putting his cock to my lips and sucking him off. But it did not stop there and even now I shutter that I went further with him.
He asked me what else I would do and the only other thing that was left was to say the obvious. I had no intentions of doing that but I kept watching him and he kept at me and since I did not want to disappoint him I found myself saying to him "after I suck you for awhile I am going to get undressed and ask you to fuck me." I was uneasy saying this but at the same time I admit I was excited. He told me to tell him how bad I wanted him to fuck me and here again I felt him having power over me and without any hesitation I told him "I want you to fuck me with your big black dick" and then went on to to say "I would get down on all fours and bend over and tell you to fuck my ass long and hard until I can't stand it, I want you to own me."
Everything else is self explanatory but fuck what a revelation. I still do not have any "sexual" desire for men but with a black man who well hung and bi and with me and my wife, I could see myself giving into the seductive power of the being dominated. And as a note to black guys on here I may be talking to that are straight, I HAVE NO HIDDEN AGENDAS AND I AM NOT LOOKING TO SPRING THIS ON YOU OR USE MY WIFE AS A SUBTERFUGE FOR ANYTHING GAY.
 
If you don't have any interest in sexual contact with another man, then don't invite one who is into that into your bedroom. In the BDSM community we have a process we call "vetting". No one gets into our bedroom without getting vetted. The dominant men usually don't get past it. We have no interest in allowing another dominant into our lives. I have zero interest in sex with a man. The bulls who bring it up while being vetted are eliminated from consideration.
 
My 2 cents starting with the OP-> I think it's a rationalization to wholly believe the act is ever 100% Dominance, unless it's ******* there is a degree of mutual acceptance. That being said as an individual act it's only that. Repetition at any level may qualify for reconsideration.....nevertheless, it is personal to those involved and not my place to label.

I once had a few drinks with a couple and the wife may have been the loveliest woman I ever played with......after her second she made the comment that one reason she agreed to try playing was while her husband was trying to talk her into fucking a Black man, the thought of making him prep the dick for her would bring her close to orgasm by itself....I looked at him and said "I guess you better get to sucking......"

I'm not straight, I'm not bisexual, I'm not gay......I'm me, and I'm good.....no disrespect, no need to attempt to label me.
 
It is a huge misconception that homosexuality is about sex - It isn't.
Homosexuality is being mentally as well as physically attracted to a person of the same sex and a desire to be with, in a loving relationship, someone of the same sex. It has nothing to do with having sex itself.

Two men can be gay, live together all their life, but never have sex. Likewise a man and women could live their life together and never have sex. It is the emotional attachment that makes you gay, bi, or hetro, not the act of sex itself.

There are many sides to sex, one way is to express our feeling for someone, another is for enjoyment. When having sex for enjoyment (or empowerment) then no holds bared (or should I say no holes bared lol). Now if you actively think about meeting men and making love to them, then you might want to consider the possibility. ;)

Frankly I don't know why we need labels such as Gay, Bi or Hetro. Just be with whom ever you want to be with, have sex however you want to have it, and everyone stop judging everyone else for doing what most of us think about doing anyways.

That is so well said and spot on imo!
 
I really enjoyed reading this blog. I was a cuckold for my wife and her lovers for about 5 years. I always encouraged her to pick men she was attracted to and she did. I have always been attracted to black bulls, but she always preferred Latin/Mediterranean men. She no longer likes to meet with other men, but I still do (with her knowledge and approval) and I always prefer black alpha type men. It is the sex and the submission to superior black men I enjoy. Much of my pleasure comes from serving their sexual needs in any way I can. The only thing that would make it better would be if she would join me with them.View attachment 1678464

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It a power thing and me being a submissive sissy cuck that love humiliation especially if the wife and bull is humiliating me, and he fucks me in front of my wife showing he is in charge and there is nothing I can do but take like a sissy that I am
 
I've seen this discussed a while back on this site but I wanted to ressurect it. As a Bull, when you excert your dominance over a cuck hubby by making him suck your BBC or taking him anally infront of his wife, is that a gay act or the act of complete power? I'm of the opinion that it is an act of power unless it happens outside of the Dom/sub relationship. Personally I've never been attracted to a man, but while in the mist of cucking a few hubbys, my cock is harder than ever. Power is the key for me, not the homosexual nature of it. Just wanted a few opinions, from both perspectives. The Bulls and the cucks. And the wives as well.

It's homosexual play. What you call it is up to you.
 
It is gay for BOTH the hubby and the Bull.

If a guy sucks another guy's cock he is GAY.

If a guy lets another guy suck his cock he is also GAY.

Nothing wrong with being Gay but that is what men having sex with men is.
 
No its not gay. Personaly i am not attracted to any men including black. But knowing and watching my gf or friend being blacked turns me on. Its just a regular fetish, just as any other
 
FROM CHRISTINE - The first time I ever saw Ray doing something with another guy was
when I finally came out of our bedroom and saw him being mounted by some guy.

My bull brought him him over. He was totally gay. My bull wasn't bi at all.
As my bull spent the night with me, he knew his friend was an assertive top.

It was still early, like maybe 6 or 7am. I found out later that Ray had already been
topped twice earlier that night. "Terrance" was again busy "droppin' his morning load"
into my husband when I walked in on them.

"I be way up his gut... up the 2nd hole... he gonna nut any second", Trey said.
And with that, Ray gave up his load without even touching his tiny pee-pee.

All I could say was, "Oh my God, you were right! He is a bottom", talking
to my bull. "Nate" (my bull) just smiled. I guess he knew all along that once
I witnessed that (i.e. Ray giving up his manhood) his "new ownership" of me was inevitable.

After that, I often called hubby Ray a "faggot". For me, it was just another
way of saying and acknowledging that he was now gay.
 
Labels are the problem here. But, to me being Gay is wanting to spend your whole life with the same sex, not just about sex. I think as we get older, many once virile males become less potent and can begin to have thoughts of taking cock from a far greater endowed and virile man. Especially after being made a cuckold.
And us white males, just like white females, we cannot stop being aroused by BBC.
 
I've seen this discussed a while back on this site but I wanted to ressurect it. As a Bull, when you excert your dominance over a cuck hubby by making him suck your BBC or taking him anally infront of his wife, is that a gay act or the act of complete power? I'm of the opinion that it is an act of power unless it happens outside of the Dom/sub relationship. Personally I've never been attracted to a man, but while in the mist of cucking a few hubbys, my cock is harder than ever. Power is the key for me, not the homosexual nature of it. Just wanted a few opinions, from both perspectives. The Bulls and the cucks. And the wives as well.
it#s definetly nor gay, just an act of power, respect, willing to serve...
 
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