Then get a GF or get married. You’re participating in a fetish based forum.Ive Out grown it .
Im now 41 i just want a white,asían or latina chick who see me as a regular guy not a flesh vibrator .
Then get a GF or get married. You’re participating in a fetish based forum.Ive Out grown it .
Im now 41 i just want a white,asían or latina chick who see me as a regular guy not a flesh vibrator .
You are absolutely right beautiful lady!!This is just to funny. Complaining about the very thing that is getting him all that white pussy.
Is your response of "move past him" because you think he is wrong in his convictions or beliefs, or that you are neutral so it's an "oh well, whatever, no big deal" mindset? Not trying to ruffle any feathers or offend, just looking for insight.Just move past him...
I have the same kind of doubts. I love IR sex, I love being cuckolded by Black Men, I love transferring power to them. But I definitely don't want to say or do anything they don't like, be disrespectful in any way, or worse, treat them like sex toys!We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;
"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."
Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.
How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.
For example I never use the term "BBC" to indicate a person. I use "black man". And to find some Bull we don't look at the dimensions but at the whole personI have the same kind of doubts. I love IR sex, I love being cuckolded by Black Men, I love transferring power to them. But I definitely don't want to say or do anything they don't like, be disrespectful in any way, or worse, treat them like sex toys!
He’s not wrong, it is pretty much fetishizing a human.. but ppl enjoy enjoy the taboo of it, some don’t.We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;
"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."
Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.
How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.
I can understand where he's coming from with that perspective about fetishizing black people and especially when it comes to black men but i've also seen most black men fetishizing white women who have a preference for black men and in my opinion, this lifestyle isn't for everyone and that's ok.We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;
"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."
Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.
How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.
Sex is about personal attraction and arousal. It's not different then when a guy 'fetishizes' a large boobs or 'thigh gap'He’s not wrong, it is pretty much fetishizing a human.. but ppl enjoy enjoy the taboo of it, some don’t.
I'm not sure what "dehumanizing behavior'' means. Is that like "show me your tits?"I can understand where he's coming from with that perspective about fetishizing black people and especially when it comes to black men but i've also seen most black men fetishizing white women who have a preference for black men and in my opinion, this lifestyle isn't for everyone and that's ok.
With me, i don't mind if a white woman is attracted to me & liked my body and who i am as a person, but i won't tolerate any dehumanizing behavior towards me or towards anyone in general.
Oops......I just got one, virtually the same instant that I posted.I'm not sure what "dehumanizing behavior'' means. Is that like "show me your tits?"
I have practically never got a message that said that. @@
that's a good question & dehumanizing behavior is when someone only sees you as a means to an end & not a person with your own feelings, thoughts and values but i could be wrong thoughI'm not sure what "dehumanizing behavior'' means. Is that like "show me your tits?"
I have practically never got a message that said that. @@
Wait, have we met lol? I'm 6'1 200 though.With the exception of 'hotwife' I would never use any of those terms, so I kind of understand where he is coming from. But I also think that it is crazy to try to act like sexuality does not involve sexual attraction which is almost wholly "irrational" and based on each person's personal attractions which are just that, personal. You can't mandate that another person has to be attracted to any particular characteristic. If a gentleman is aroused by extremely petite, fit, blue eyed blonds with very athletic features.....well, he's probably not going to be interested in me. And that's fine. It's not "body shaming" or "discrimination" or anything else, it's just personal desires. Likewise, there has been a thread about "do women like 'thugs'?" Well, obviously there are some who do. the "bad boy" thing definitely exists. But it's not for me....if you approach me with incomprehensible words and nasty attitude and rough behaviour....I don't tend to reply rudely, but our interaction will most likely be brief and inconclusive. I just do not appreciate those characteristics. If approached by a 19 year old 5'2'', 105 lb, pale, freckled, pimple faced red head and a 40 year old, 6'3, 245 lb, hard body, Adonis with with smooth, glistening dark chocolate complexion and a smooth bald head and bulging powerful arms and legs......well, my attention is going to 100% be drawn to one and not the other.
ppl can have fetishes for boobs or thigh gaps.. the same way a woman can have a fetish of big dicks.. but if a guy has a fetish of (for example) an Asian woman then that’s fetishization.. like I said it’s taboo but it definitely is there. Some ppl enjoy it some don’t, and he didn’t. This is not an attack on youSex is about personal attraction and arousal. It's not different then when a guy 'fetishizes' a large boobs or 'thigh gap'
Facts!This is just to funny. Complaining about the very thing that is getting him all that white pussy.
We humans have a capacity to extend general assessments to the place they become stereotypes. Some people do go to far. One example could be the subject of race play. I'd say approaching once a month some total stranger won't introduce himself or saying or asking about me the person but make a statement about n*gger dick. I would be wrong to attribute it to every non Black person, every white person. But that doesn't make ME wrong to just start out I'm not going there.We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;
"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."
Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.
How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.
Keep in mind that the males are often doing the postings ... strictly fetish gratifications.Questions: how do women/couples react to the guys who are solely here for "easy pussy"?
For Black men, why is so extremely, extremely rare that any of us ever mention bringing a Black woman with us to the party? Do white people ever wonder about it?