Falling in love?

Ann4BBC said:
We already have that lifestyle babe! Been doing it since 2013! X
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That is our way too. After the very first time my wife had another cock she said she wanted to do him again and even though it sounded selfish, she did not want me to fuck anyone else. I accepted it then, I knew I couldn't satisfy her let alone any other woman, I was just enthralled and excited to see her having amazing sex and it has worked for us. I do feel on some level she "loves" him, however she also loves me in a very different way. Kind of like best friends, while he is her sex partner that she also has feelings for. But she describes her feelings towards him as "physical" and with me it is more "emotional and heartfilled". Whatever it is, it works for us
 
Bellaazz said:
That is our way too. After the very first time my wife had another cock she said she wanted to do him again and even though it sounded selfish, she did not want me to fuck anyone else. I accepted it then, I knew I couldn't satisfy her let alone any other woman, I was just enthralled and excited to see her having amazing sex and it has worked for us. I do feel on some level she "loves" him, however she also loves me in a very different way. Kind of like best friends, while he is her sex partner that she also has feelings for. But she describes her feelings towards him as "physical" and with me it is more "emotional and heartfilled". Whatever it is, it works for us
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Exactly! Couldn't agree more! X
 
MacNfries said:
So, if the situation was reversed ... hubby moved in with another female for a couple years, then came back to you after he tired of her, you'd be willing to accept your hubby with open arms, huh? Is Your love that deep for your hubby?

Reminds me of an old BeeGees song ... "How Deep Is Your Love"
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One thing I never worried about was my husband cheating or wanting another woman. My husband was quite a ladies man in his high school years and before we were married. Myself on the other hand was a virgin and only had sex with him until I had sex with the 3 black guys when I was 35. I did give him the opportunity to have another woman and he was not interested. He said he was only interested in me being sexually satisfied. Now when I went back home it was because it was where I thought I needed to go not because that was the only place I could go. Several black guys offered to let me move in with them but I declined. Everybody always asks me if I would do the same thing again and I always say I may have done it different but I would have still went to live with Jamal because I needed to be sexually satisfied.
I know you may think bad of me but I can't change that.

Phyliss
 
I know Mrs inked has feelings for our regular BBC and I don't have a problem with that, in fact I am glad she does as it makes the whole experience more real? She gets a little confused with it sometimes as she feels as if she is cheating on me! I reassure her that I don't mind and its natural that after 2 yrs of us enjoying intimate moments with him , together as a 3 sum and sometimes on there own and with out me around that she will have emotional attachments. We know he as feelings for her, but more as a very good friend and not the sort of love we share. We all get on amazingly, even holiday together just the 3 of us recently in Portugal, where you would of thought they were the married couple. I feel that the love she has for him enhances the whole set up, watching them together is the most erotic experience I have seen, the way they touch and caress each other, her moans of pure delight and the way she responds is enhanced ten fold because of the "love" they share and I am honoured that she feels that relaxed and safe in his hands to be able to feel that comfortably to show this in front of me. In a way it's the ultimate trust of our own love and our relationship for one another. If she had no feelings for him, that would make her feel cheap, you can get sex anywhere but for it to be special you need emotions?
 
rock said:
When I left my husband to move in with one of my black lovers neither of us were in love but we were both
in lust as I call it. The sex between us was so amazing, he knew what I needed and I knew what he wanted.
I spent 29 months with him and can't remember a day that I didn't have at least 1 black cock in me. When
he found another woman that he wanted to be with I moved back with my husband because even though it had
been 29 months the love for him was still there. I know it is hard to understand but the need for sexual
satisfaction was greater than my need for love when I moved out.
Phyliss
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Gangster
 
She is owned by a gang - well, WE are. Still after a long while and a pregnancy she made the mistake of asking for more commitment with one of the bulls she thought could be one of the fathers. She now says it was a hormonal thing. His commitment, he said, would be to come home 3 or as many times as he wanted.
 
rock said:
When I left my husband to move in with one of my black lovers neither of us were in love but we were both
in lust as I call it. The sex between us was so amazing, he knew what I needed and I knew what he wanted.
I spent 29 months with him and can't remember a day that I didn't have at least 1 black cock in me. When
he found another woman that he wanted to be with I moved back with my husband because even though it had
been 29 months the love for him was still there. I know it is hard to understand but the need for sexual
satisfaction was greater than my need for love when I moved out.
Phyliss
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So humiliate for husband but I understand the need for sexual satisfaction that just black man can give to a woman is strongest than love fot white husband.I love the way you think and live.
 
I don't think it will happen with me. I love my husband and have a good life. The time I spend with my lover(s) is all based around sex. They tend to be younger and have different interests. Perhaps I see them less often than others
 
worshipu9 said:
My wife has always had relationships with Black Men since the age of 16. When she and i started seeing each other she was 25 and was, at that time, seeing 3 Black Men which she told me about.
Eventually we got married and I have always been OK with her seeing her Men and she continued to see them on and off during our marriage.
We moved to a different country but she still went back now and again to see her friends and once or twice, to be with one or another of her Men.
One time she went back and went to a friends wedding where she met a Black guy who was attending the wedding alone. They clicked and one thing led to another. She spent the night with him (with my full knowledge and even better with the full knowledge of the bride and groome and they were also HIS friends).
After that weekend she came back to me and we had amazing sex. She also admitted she wanted to see him more often and "felt" a connection with him. I agreed so every 2 or 3 weeks she flew into London to spend weekends with him. Eventually they went out together as a couple with the couple from the wedding (this was, for some reason, especially erotic for me).
After 6 months or so my wife admitted that she had fallen in Love with him and told me not to ever push her into leaving him as she would not. I have to admit although a little upset at her way of telling me this, i was also very aroused and excited.
By this time we had stopped having sex (at his request and my acceptance) and all i was getting was a very very occasional hand job from my wife and being told that i should wank myself as much as possible.
After 2 years he broke off the relationship with my wife after he asked her to leave me and move in with him. My wife did not think this was fair as it would break up our home, so she simply said "No". I am not sure to this day is she expected his reaction but what happened was that he told her not to come and see him again unless it was to move in with him.
She was devastated and desperate. She rang him every day but he stopped taking her calls. She begged me to call him, which i did, and humiliated myself by begging him to take my wife back and pleaded with him. I never thought i would lower myself to the levels which i did for my wife and her Lover. I told him i would do almost anything he wanted including paying for their holidays together, that i would pay for his hotel stays so he could come over and be together with my wife and a lot more things.
But he point blank refused unless she left me, something she did not do.
It was a very difficult time for us as a couple. She cried for months and even now, six years after, when she thinks about him or we bring up the subject (i have to admit it still gets me very aroused thinking about what my wife did), it is painful for her.
We are still together. 23 years later. She stopped playing after that because she did not want to get hurt again, even though i still encourage her to play and find a lovely Man.
I love and adore my wife and would do anything if it makes her happy and gives her pleasure.

Would i go through all this again knowing what i now know? Yes. Without thinking about it IF my wife was willing to.
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I completely get this. My wife fell in love like this twice and I went through some of the same things. I couldn't believe I was comforting my own wife as she pined for another man, sitting up with her nights, giving her my shoulder to cry on literally, hearing her talk about him until the wee hours, and then hearing his name from her lips as she slept. I'd try to cheer her up with presents or mini vacations, to little or no avail. I did her share of the housework for weeks because she was so depressed. Only the passage of time let her get past it.

In both cases, her lovers broke it off without giving her any kind of ultimatum to go with them or me, so I can't say for sure if she'd have stayed with me, but I think she would have. After the second time she stop didn't stop playing, but she did restrict herself to brief or very short term encounters with men. She never allowed a long term relationship to develop after that.
 
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