okay sounds good! Please share with the group your tactics if you don't mind.
No. It's fine. I'll give examples. But sometimes I ask for more clever things than I'll list here. If someone is using stolen photos. They will have any where from one photo or maybe even a dozen. Some of them can look professional or look more home taken like selfies. Either way. Everyone has a camera phone. Ask for selfies first. Ask for easy specific things. Like hold up a certain amount of fingers. Wearing a certain colored shirt. Have something specific in the background. Anything. Be creative. They can't have fakes of everything you ask for. They can't photoshop everything. And Photoshop takes time.
But trust me. Try it. Then watch the fakers reactions. They will either have some excuse or they just disappear cause they are looking for easier prey. But there is a risk. I'm sure some people that are REALLY here get insulted by being tested or they just don't want to put in the effort. But if I'm asking for too much. Then your probably not my type.
Just take your time. Our urges are strong. But be safe. Smart. If you wouldn't jump into bed with a stranger you met in public. Why would you want to do it here!
Remember this only weeds out the fakes. Not the game players. That's a whole different story.
Good luck to all. And happy fishing! There are some great people on here. Sadly they just aren't next door!!!
Linda