Hmmm...you say not a dating site yet the name of this section of the site is: "Interracial Community - Sex & Cuckold Dating - Discussion Forum".
Its exactly this that creates the problem.
While there is a provision for people to advertise if they desire to hook up AND an area to verify they are who they claim to be, the majority of the site is devoted to fantasy: posting pictures that have no basis on actual dating, stories, etc.
I've seen you and others post this same perspective and I don't really get it. Besides the NAME, the site also provides the ability to be verified. If it wasn't meant for dating, why bother?
For the few that are here to actually try to find serious people to hook up with, it COULD be of use. However, few people bother to verify and many of those who complain about people being flakes don't restrict their searches to only those who verify. If you are chatting up people who haven't or who refuse to verify, how can you bitch that most of the people here are fake?
First step is: "I see you haven't verified, so before we go any further, do that or don't bother contacting me again." Simple. No reason to waste hours or traveling just find out someone is fake when you could have done that right at the start.
If you've followed my position on this, I have have stated that getting verified is a VERY SIMPLE process. All anyone needs to do is post a picture of themselves in the nude holding a sign IN FRONT OF THEIR FACE stating their user name for the website and the date, making sure that there is no personal identifying information such as tattoos (cover them) or objects (family pictures, room decor, etc.) in the background.
This shows that you truly are either a white woman or a black stud WITHOUT identifying you to the world.
May not be much, but at least the person taking the time to chat with you can feel comfortable that you aren't a 300+ pound 65 year old white guy jerking off to your descriptions of how bad you want to fuck their left ear without lube.
Virtually everyone has either a digital camera, cell phone with camera built in or camera in their laptop/pc. USB cameras are cheap to add to a PC and if you can't afford $20 to get one, why would anyone want to meet your slack ass anyway as you would clearly be looking to leach. That goes for BOTH men and women.
Additionally, there is a specific forum for stories and fantasies. Again, if this is all about fantasy why bother having a specific forum like this?
Again, the majority is fantasy and it pours over into most of the forum areas. The areas that should be absolutely fantasy free are the profiles and the areas where members post their personal ads and their verification pictures.
The general discussion area could contain anything as there is no restriction on it. Note the general heading info for the forums area: "Share your interracial dreams, desires and experiences. General talk, interracial cuckolding, and real peoples pictures!" Dreams and desires are not exactly reality.
Then the General discussion area says: "Every white wife should get fucked by blacks - Interracial sex forum". It doesn't say anything about being verified as being real or only discussing how to achieve a real hook up.
Not only that, but, if you take it literally, it clearly restricts discussion to white wives getting fucked by blacks, so that means no single women! Its a cuckolding site. Period!