Is it much an horror? because will be very hard to convince her watching an horror movie...
Is there not a movie or series on Netflix or Prime that really go into couples exploring the boundaries of sex?
Encouraging My Wife to Open Up About Her Fantasies: Tips?
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Is there not a movie or series on Netflix or Prime that really go into couples exploring the boundaries of sex?
Make her horny and talk to her about your fantasies.
Then she may find out that you'll find her fantasies fine.
Then she may find out that you'll find her fantasies fine.
.Get her *******.
.Put on some BBC porn (preferably with women that look as similar to her as possible!)
.As she watches them take BBC ask her what she thinks about the woman woman taking that BBC and if she thinks she could take it?
.Tell her that your fantasy is to watch her take a BBC like the woman in the video.
.Ask her if she would take a BBC while you watched?
.Put on some BBC porn (preferably with women that look as similar to her as possible!)
.As she watches them take BBC ask her what she thinks about the woman woman taking that BBC and if she thinks she could take it?
.Tell her that your fantasy is to watch her take a BBC like the woman in the video.
.Ask her if she would take a BBC while you watched?
I think what you're proposing is specific for one fantasy. Moreover, maybe, is too direct.
Here I'm talking about all the fantasies she has and making her openly express them and ask for.
This morning's chat was interesting, thanks to the start of school, we were alone in bed the whole time. And, in addition to sex, we talked about threesomes. On the one hand she reiterated that she doesn't want to do it with another man right now, but on the other, when I jokingly asked her the requirements if I were ever to "open selections", she was quite specific both with generic details (nice, tall, not old, not a kid...) what details about the endowment ("as much as you if not more" and I'm statistically quite over the average). In addition to this, many discussions about fear and possible effects on the relationship, which absolutely make sense.
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That, again, seems to me a sort of conflict between "what I say" and "what I would like"
Hormones surely have an impact on the mood.
But I think that, if first we do not fix this blocking point about open discussion of desires, we cannot move on real act.
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Is the ovulation so strongly affecting? Do you suggest talk about at its peak?
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When your in bed with her and engaged in foreplay, start running some of your fantasy scenarios by her. Give it some thought, you know what turns her on. "Strangers in a Las Vegas casino," "Young sailors on liberty in San Diego," "Thug gangsters who moved into the apartment next door," "one of your friends who has the hots for her and one night when the three of you had too much to ******* he ends up in bed with you guys," "blackmailed by a lover who has threatened to share nude pictures he has of you unless you service him and his crime partner." Guaranteed, she'll throw some great fucks on you and start giving it some real serious thought.
Thanks for the suggestion.
We aim ti experience all our fantasies sometime. At least once to see how its like.
The recomendation is to start with the easy and not so extreme stuff and work yourself up from there.
No need to rush its just a risk that you or her get uncomfortable and gets less interested in continue your journey.
The recomendation is to start with the easy and not so extreme stuff and work yourself up from there.
No need to rush its just a risk that you or her get uncomfortable and gets less interested in continue your journey.
Thanks
So you suggest to move from "easy" fantasies (examples?) to the "strongests" (example) step by step?
Had you followed this strategy?
Yes we are. And still do.
What has been your "escalation"?
Ok
Comfort her and go on Dates to meet a bull. Alternatively you can start the process with Text Messages with the Bull if she's more of a "Lover-Girl". It could also be the potential of y'alls lifestyle change getting out too but you'll find whatever the insecurity is soon enough!!
