if i had my druthers, it's usually a large cock that does the trick for me but...(& there's always a but...lol)there are a lot of other things that factor into my preferring black men as lovers. when i was younger, there was the taboo aspect(i was born & raised in rural north carolina)that struck some sparks for me. after a few partners, it was a little comparative considerations(the black partners i had, luckily, were just more skilled at sex than the few white ones...that was, in retrospect, just the luck of the draw but as a young woman that's not how i evaluated it at the time). once i got to college, it was personality. the black guys i met on campus were more confident, aggressive, & exuded sexuality which was catnip to me.
then, there was cock size. fact is, just as all men aren't created equal down below, same w/women. i thought i was the same as other women but my gfs always had difficulty w/some of the same guys i had NO problem with & preferred. they got me off everytime. there's also an aesthetic aspect. a gf of mine always said: i LOVE seeing & touching big cocks but...i can't take them when it gets down to it. well, i felt the same way about seeing & touching them but i COULD take them when it got down to it.
so, many factors played a part in my preference BUT(& there's always a but...lol), you add all the other factors besides SIZE & you get why black men with or without huge cocks are NOW my only sex partners: personality, confidence, dominant sexuality, muscularity & skin textures, & yes, cock size but the formers outweigh the latter for me nowadays. BUT(& there's always a but...lol), if i had my druthers, they'd have a big cock. lol
