Does IR sex lead to divorce?

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Since we are all visitors at BlackToWhite, it means we all love it, or admire it, or fantasize about it. The question is to the experienced couples or those who studied the trend: does IR sex make marriage stronger or weaker? How many of you divorced - with IR sex being a factor in ending marriage or relationship?
 
mywayintermsofsex said:
i think, in an "interracial" marriage "ir sex" makes the marriage stronger as sex typically creates a stronger bond between two people. Does that answer your question?
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Coming from someone with absolutely no experience - I'd say it could, depending on the situation... it seems to be a major component to throw into the marriage.
MyWay... is entitled to the above opinion, just as I am mine.
That's my 2 cents, anyway.
 
Not divorced here... we had established trust and intimacy for ourselves over many years before entering into IR land. She has sleep overs occasionally and enjoyed a bbc lover here for several days recently. The extra relationships only solidified our passion for each other with all things open to one another (feelings, thoughts, directions, etc). Answers here will vary from a-z but hey, that's what makes this forum exciting too
 
Shenty2016 said:
Since we are all visitors at BlackToWhite, it means we all love it, or admire it, or fantasize about it. The question is to the experienced couples or those who studied the trend: does IR sex make marriage stronger or weaker? How many of you divorced - with IR sex being a factor in ending marriage or relationship?
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If you ask
Feedback of surgeons from any patients then every patience is going to say good thing about his surgery because patients with unsuccessful surgery will not be alive to tell how he died because of unsuccessful surgery...similarly any one who has burned tbeir fingers wont be here anymore on this site to answer your questions however from my personal experience i can tell you that cuckold life style is not everyones cup of tea. Many posts are fictitious here and many posters are troll..i have lived all my life as cuckold hubby and it worked me and for my wife..our bond became really stronger..however i have also seen where this leads to divorce aa well..but you cant blame cuckold lifestyle for divorce...it is like any other reason tbat leads to divorce when tbere is no understanding between couple
 
I think it can play in to a couples divorce! My ex wife and I were swingers when we stated for about a year then we did mostly mfm threesomes for another year! It started getting complicated when she was seeing other guys without telling me! There were many other factors such as her being in college and me working 3 jobs in the last year of our marriage! Our relationship was a total of 8-9 years and we started swinging about 3 months before we got married! My ex wife knew I was in a swinging relationship with a past gf! She said she would never do that but I think meeting my ex wife at the age of 19 she was thinking that maybe she should try it before we got married! Also I would bring up how hot she was and would be fucking another guy while using a dildo on her! She noticed how hard and how much better our sex was when we role played with the dildo! So we did a MFM threesome with an amazing white guy before getting married! She absolutely loved it! She said the attention from 2 guys was amazing and hours of being fucked that night and next morning were amazing! We hooked up with home 4 more times but he was home on military leave ( she choose him because of that, in case she didn't like it she would never have to see the guy or worry about being stalked lol) so we were disappointed when he had to leave to go back to Okl. Then we hooked up with 2 couples about 2 months after the wedding and it was a lot of fun but I don't think my ex liked me fucking other women since I do have a nice size cock and the one girl loved it and left a lot scratches on my back! Plus it was harder to find the right chemistry between 4 people! So after about 6 months to a year we decided to just do MFM threesomes! She was enjoying every minute of it! But then that one asshole comes along and ruins it! That's when she started seeing him without telling me! So since she was doing that I decided to hook up with other couples and that didn't go well! Our trust, communication and relationship just crumbled and she said she fell out of love with me and we tried couple counseling but after the 2nd session she wanted nothing to do with it and we ended up splitting up about a month later! It was really strange though! At home she would be all over me, cuddling, wanting sex and doing things for each other but out in public she was a complete bitch to me and didn't want to be seen with me! Her reasons for breaking it off was that I wasn't doing anything to improve myself (I.e going back to college) and to make a better life for us! I know that's complete B.S now since I make 75K-95k a year as a medic! But she was with her new bf a week later, moved in with him 2 months after the separation, pregnant by him about a year later and married shortly after that and I know he makes less money then I do and I've heard he's pretty unhappy in the marriage so maybe I got lucky that we split up! I have a great gf now who cares about me and loves me! She won't ever be in the lifestyle and she has no interest in black men but I still use a darker toned dildo on her when I tie her up and blind fold her! She is submissive and great in bed! So I got that going for me lol! So that's my experience with my ex wife! I've been in 2 swinging relationships and from my personal experience they aren't very healthy ones! If you do venture in to the lifestyle stay strong as a couple, set boundaries and rules and stick to them because that's the part of the trust part ( some rules might get broken but be open about it and see what happen I.e kissing)! At any point that it's interfering with your relationship stop doing it and focus on each other you can always jump back in there will always guys out there that to fuck your gf or wife lol! Remember it's always about the 2 of you and what you both want out of the lifestyle! Have fun and be safe!
 
It is true can't blame the lifestyle but some couples lose themselves in it. That was my case. I always say I was watching him take her away from me but hard as a rock thru the entire thing.

If you want to know more hit me up on yahoo messenger username jb1038
 
My first marriage was IR, her Japanese and me white. It was full cuckolding from our first date, and she had daily sex with her boss and many others besides me.

As hot as the sex was, other issues split us up. IR and daily cuckolding had nothing to it with it.

nrbill
 
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I know a few couples personally who can trace their divorce directly to being in the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle, and two of them were only into white men, so it was more an issue of not being able to handle that type of lifestyle rather than anything related to IR sex specifically. Hubby and I separated for a while shortly after starting the lifestyle, but that was more related to where my head was at then and not fully accepting that I could have a great hubby and still have sex with other men. I left hub for my bf at the time, but quickly realized my mistake. I thought the lifestyle was unfair to my hub, but he really loved it from day 1. It took a little while to get over that, but afterwards our marriage was stronger than ever.
 
Shenty2016 said:
Since we are all visitors at BlackToWhite, it means we all love it, or admire it, or fantasize about it. The question is to the experienced couples or those who studied the trend: does IR sex make marriage stronger or weaker? How many of you divorced - with IR sex being a factor in ending marriage or relationship?
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Interracial has definitely enhanced our marriage. Our sex-life has become much more intense.
We touch each other much more, we kiss each other much more.
Our relationship has never been better than now.
Interracial sex has given us a new family member. We're grateful for that.

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re: Does IR sex lead to divorce?

... as does pre-mature male ejaculations, little dicks, obesity of a spouse, alcoholism, ******* use, lousy hygiene, verbal abuse, in-laws, porn, neglect of family, money, eating crackers & farting in bed ... etc etc etc
 
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