my advice to convince your wife/gf to try a BBC

Definitely great tips!
My gf and I seem to be stuck at step 1... we have talked about it "in the bedroom", while she is a little dr_unk and aroused and she seems to want a 3some with bbc... I even went looking for a partner (including on this site), had guys reach out, showed her their pictures, she got super turned on (she was again a little tipsy) and started saying things like "black guys are so hot" and "I want a black cock so bad".... but once out of the bedroom and when the alcohol and the arousal wears off, she has mlno interest in any of this... so what to do?
Women are emotional and not rational (mens are rational), she said yes and she means it, but after the sex, no alcohol, etc... she is less into fantasy or into sex talk. Her mood changed. But it is a good thing, you know that when your girl is arroused by you she can talk freely about sex.
Don't push it, just make her feel special and loved. Don't talk about it too often, if you have sex once a week with her, talk or use a black dildo foreplay every two weeks for example.
 
Here are some conclusions of related to my observations.
Discussing sex with a BBC to a woman who never had any experience with big cocks may makes her stressful.
I think porn is a bad model because it brings us an idealized version of interracial sex with bbc.

1/ Don't talk about sex with a BBC right away
2/ Show her bbc porn
3/ No plan for a distant future
4/ best environment
5/ it should look natural
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