Women are emotional and not rational (mens are rational), she said yes and she means it, but after the sex, no alcohol, etc... she is less into fantasy or into sex talk. Her mood changed. But it is a good thing, you know that when your girl is arroused by you she can talk freely about sex.Definitely great tips!
My gf and I seem to be stuck at step 1... we have talked about it "in the bedroom", while she is a little dr_unk and aroused and she seems to want a 3some with bbc... I even went looking for a partner (including on this site), had guys reach out, showed her their pictures, she got super turned on (she was again a little tipsy) and started saying things like "black guys are so hot" and "I want a black cock so bad".... but once out of the bedroom and when the alcohol and the arousal wears off, she has mlno interest in any of this... so what to do?
Don't push it, just make her feel special and loved. Don't talk about it too often, if you have sex once a week with her, talk or use a black dildo foreplay every two weeks for example.