Does fantasy stack up with reality?

MacNfries

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.... My wife confessed, after I had been with a few women, that she did not really care for it, so, it stopped, but we still enjoyed her having fun.
Same here; my wife says she really isn't in to females, although we did have one particular FFM relationship that was super with a college student/bartender. She baby sat for our kids a few times and they loved her to death because she'd play with them, etc ... and intimacy between the 3 of us just happened. Lasted 4 years and she was the only female my wife said she enjoyed having sex with. Really miss her.
 

marriedslut4blax

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ABSOLUTELY NOT ...The fantasy that has been created by my husband and myself has no involvement with him and another woman that is not something I'm into nor is what he claims he's looking for. I do however wish to indulge into our fantasy further as I've only been with one other man a BBC that my husband set up. It was a great time my husband was not there but he and I have enjoyed the pictures and videos from that day hundreds of times. If his ultimate goal was to be able to share are fantasy involving another woman that will be a deal breaker but as I said it is nothing that he's interested in. I live in the real world I totally totally enjoy this site and realize that 95% of this site is total b******* but I will say I love it. Every once in awhile I find someone real As I am myself Mac and fries you happen to be one of those people that I find as real and it is appreciated. I do hope to hook up with another BBC in our area I just feel the best way to do that due to anonymity that would best be served if we took an hour drive away from where we live going to a bar/lounge happy hour cocktail hour something like that and see what sparks there. As we all know face to face you'll find the bullshitters from the true ones or should I say from the real. This has nothing to do with tit for tat should I say it's all about the fantasy between a husband and wife something that each of them are comfortable with he claims he's comfortable with sharing me with other men I say I am NOT comfortable in any way shape or form sharing my husband with another woman.;):qos::blackheart:
@I-allow-it :threesome:
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My husband loves to watch me enjoy a stranger's mouth and cock...he loves the first encounter..when I touch them or kiss them...he loves my facial reaction as they lick my pussy...loves to watch me wrap my hands around their dick and suck it, knowing how much I love to feel it harden in my mouth...he loves to watch me makeout with them and my legs spread as their kisses make me wet with passion...my expression as they enter me.....yes, I think he likes it...
eish..my dick iz hard reading yo post
 
ABSOLUTELY NOT ...The fantasy that has been created by my husband and myself has no involvement with him and another woman that is not something I'm into nor is what he claims he's looking for. I do however wish to indulge into our fantasy further as I've only been with one other man a BBC that my husband set up. It was a great time my husband was not there but he and I have enjoyed the pictures and videos from that day hundreds of times. If his ultimate goal was to be able to share are fantasy involving another woman that will be a deal breaker but as I said it is nothing that he's interested in. I live in the real world I totally totally enjoy this site and realize that 95% of this site is total b******* but I will say I love it. Every once in awhile I find someone real As I am myself Mac and fries you happen to be one of those people that I find as real and it is appreciated. I do hope to hook up with another BBC in our area I just feel the best way to do that due to anonymity that would best be served if we took an hour drive away from where we live going to a bar/lounge happy hour cocktail hour something like that and see what sparks there. As we all know face to face you'll find the bullshitters from the true ones or should I say from the real. This has nothing to do with tit for tat should I say it's all about the fantasy between a husband and wife something that each of them are comfortable with he claims he's comfortable with sharing me with other men I say I am NOT comfortable in any way shape or form sharing my husband with another woman.;):qos::blackheart:
How very hypocritical...Maybe the real reason why your husband likes you having sex with other men is because you fail to give him sexual pleasure. So the next best thing is you giving someone else sexual pleasure and him getting off from that. You just don't want him sharing in your happy satisfaction.

Maybe he can't handle your oppressive and impossible standards which you impose on him so he seeks a way out by having other men meet them. Perhaps he is wallowing in self-pity and being forced to like it. Getting sloppy seconds after your ridiculous standards have been met is the best he can get isn't it? Any sex is better than no sex, which was what he was getting before, wasn't it?

It's obvious why cucks are almost all middle aged men...He was going through their middle age crisis and you (who finds them disgusting) drove him over the edge into a hollow, pathetic shell of a man. How bad was your marriage before this all? I bet sex is and was a chore for you, the few times you grudgingly granted it him. Where is it your 'marriage' heading even now? Into a loveless tolerating co-habitation where you have sex with other men.

It is obvious that your terrible 'marriage' has led to him experiencing traumatic bonding, so that he is unable to remove himself from under your paw. He is essentially mistaking a lack of abuse from his captor (you) for an act of kindness. The kindness being that he no longer has to put up with your passive aggressiveness, put up with the loveless marriage,that he finally has an escape valve. Classic Stockholm syndrome... He is your hostage, and is expressing empathy and sympathy and is having positive feelings toward his captors, even to the point of defending and identifying with his captors. He is powerless to help himself...

He wasn't always sucking cock and sucking up cum was he? He wasn't always a pathetic cuck who's only way of getting off is from other men having sex, was he? You relentlessly wore him down into this sad state.

You say you don't want to see him with another woman. The real reason is clear. What you really can't bear to see is him happy. Truly happy. Without you. You can't bear to see him in a loving mutual relationship where all parties needs are met.

If you truly ever cared for him, you would objectively look at what is best for him, instead of being so wholly self-centered.

Seeing as how you have destroyed his, it is time for you to grow a pair. Leave him. Let him start afresh with another woman. Let him be happy in a loving relationship While you can get your needs met elsewhere. It is the best for all parties.

Of course you won't do this... You'd rather leech off him, both his money and his unhappiness is all you truly want. Otherwise you'd be looking at what is best for him, instead of yourself all the time. You are a truly awful 'woman'. Which is why you are not open about what you are doing to him, you prefer to come to anonymous forums and bask in what you have done with like-minded harpies.
 
Well, it IS a one-sided thing. Here's some news snowflakes: men and women are different. So the way we are socialised is different. The way we court is different, and profoundly non-symmetrical.

And all of that is what makes cuckoldry great! "Reverse cuckoldry", if there was such a thing, would be of no interest to me at all, and to most others on this site I suspect. But if you are into it - go for it.
 
In answer to the OP's question...

Reality is always better than fantasy, because it's real! But it might be a bit different to what you thought - and that is not a bad thing. This site would be a lot more interesting it were informed by reality a little more :)
 
You just have to keep in mind that its not a DVD that you can take out of the player and its all over. Once you cross that line theres no going back or taking it away and its something all of you have to live with forever. Thats why it takes a strong marriage/relationship with a rock solid foundation.
Also btw, our meetings have been actually better than we fantasized it would be so maybe we got lucky lol.
 
Reality always far better than fantasy. You do not have limits to fantasize something, but in reality there things which affect people around you.
Never commit to fanatsy without knowing the consequences and expecting what to get out it.
 
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