As far as my wife and I go, our reality is as good or better than our fantasies!! And since we have started this it has brought us much closer. We love it!!
Does fantasy stack up with reality?
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Same here; my wife says she really isn't in to females, although we did have one particular FFM relationship that was super with a college student/bartender. She baby sat for our ******* a few times and they loved her to death because she'd play with them, etc ... and intimacy between the 3 of us just happened. Lasted 4 years and she was the only female my wife said she enjoyed having sex with. Really miss her.
@I-allow-itABSOLUTELY NOT ...The fantasy that has been created by my husband and myself has no involvement with him and another woman that is not something I'm into nor is what he claims he's looking for. I do however wish to indulge into our fantasy further as I've only been with one other man a BBC that my husband set up. It was a great time my husband was not there but he and I have enjoyed the pictures and videos from that day hundreds of times. If his ultimate goal was to be able to share are fantasy involving another woman that will be a deal breaker but as I said it is nothing that he's interested in. I live in the real world I totally totally enjoy this site and realize that 95% of this site is total b******* but I will say I love it. Every once in awhile I find someone real As I am myself Mac and fries you happen to be one of those people that I find as real and it is appreciated. I do hope to hook up with another BBC in our area I just feel the best way to do that due to anonymity that would best be served if we took an hour drive away from where we live going to a bar/lounge happy hour cocktail hour something like that and see what sparks there. As we all know face to face you'll find the bullshitters from the true ones or should I say from the real. This has nothing to do with tit for tat should I say it's all about the fantasy between a husband and wife something that each of them are comfortable with he claims he's comfortable with sharing me with other men I say I am NOT comfortable in any way shape or form sharing my husband with another woman.
We can drive 12 hrs. Just say lets go
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ABSOLUTELY NOT ...The fantasy that has been created by my husband and myself has no involvement with him and another woman that is not something I'm into nor is what he claims he's looking for. I do however wish to indulge into our fantasy further as I've only been with one other man a BBC that my husband set up. It was a great time my husband was not there but he and I have enjoyed the pictures and videos from that day hundreds of times. If his ultimate goal was to be able to share are fantasy involving another woman that will be a deal breaker but as I said it is nothing that he's interested in. I live in the real world I totally totally enjoy this site and realize that 95% of this site is total b******* but I will say I love it. Every once in awhile I find someone real As I am myself Mac and fries you happen to be one of those people that I find as real and it is appreciated. I do hope to hook up with another BBC in our area I just feel the best way to do that due to anonymity that would best be served if we took an hour drive away from where we live going to a bar/lounge happy hour cocktail hour something like that and see what sparks there. As we all know face to face you'll find the bullshitters from the true ones or should I say from the real. This has nothing to do with tit for tat should I say it's all about the fantasy between a husband and wife something that each of them are comfortable with he claims he's comfortable with sharing me with other men I say I am NOT comfortable in any way shape or form sharing my husband with another woman.
How very hypocritical...Maybe the real reason why your husband likes you having sex with other men is because you fail to give him sexual pleasure. So the next best thing is you giving someone else sexual pleasure and him getting off from that. You just don't want him sharing in your happy satisfaction.
Maybe he can't handle your oppressive and impossible standards which you impose on him so he seeks a way out by having other men meet them. Perhaps he is wallowing in self-pity and being ****** to like it. Getting sloppy seconds after your ridiculous standards have been met is the best he can get isn't it? Any sex is better than no sex, which was what he was getting before, wasn't it?
It's obvious why cucks are almost all middle aged men...He was going through their middle age crisis and you (who finds them disgusting) drove him over the edge into a hollow, pathetic shell of a man. How bad was your marriage before this all? I bet sex is and was a chore for you, the few times you grudgingly granted it him. Where is it your 'marriage' heading even now? Into a loveless tolerating co-habitation where you have sex with other men.
It is obvious that your terrible 'marriage' has led to him experiencing traumatic bonding, so that he is unable to remove himself from under your paw. He is essentially mistaking a lack of abuse from his captor (you) for an act of kindness. The kindness being that he no longer has to put up with your passive aggressiveness, put up with the loveless marriage,that he finally has an escape valve. Classic Stockholm syndrome... He is your hostage, and is expressing empathy and sympathy and is having positive feelings toward his captors, even to the point of defending and identifying with his captors. He is powerless to help himself...
He wasn't always sucking cock and sucking up cum was he? He wasn't always a pathetic cuck who's only way of getting off is from other men having sex, was he? You relentlessly wore him down into this sad state.
You say you don't want to see him with another woman. The real reason is clear. What you really can't bear to see is him happy. Truly happy. Without you. You can't bear to see him in a loving mutual relationship where all parties needs are met.
If you truly ever cared for him, you would objectively look at what is best for him, instead of being so wholly self-centered.
Seeing as how you have destroyed his, it is time for you to grow a pair. Leave him. Let him start afresh with another woman. Let him be happy in a loving relationship While you can get your needs met elsewhere. It is the best for all parties.
Of course you won't do this... You'd rather leech off him, both his money and his unhappiness is all you truly want. Otherwise you'd be looking at what is best for him, instead of yourself all the time. You are a truly awful 'woman'. Which is why you are not open about what you are doing to him, you prefer to come to anonymous forums and bask in what you have done with like-minded harpies.
Yeah it a pretty 1 sided thing.. It goes in mentioned or ignored when I bring it up. It will only take a short time to get tired of trying.
Well, it IS a one-sided thing. Here's some news snowflakes: men and women are different. So the way we are socialised is different. The way we court is different, and profoundly non-symmetrical.
And all of that is what makes cuckoldry great! "Reverse cuckoldry", if there was such a thing, would be of no interest to me at all, and to most others on this site I suspect. But if you are into it - go for it.
And all of that is what makes cuckoldry great! "Reverse cuckoldry", if there was such a thing, would be of no interest to me at all, and to most others on this site I suspect. But if you are into it - go for it.
In answer to the OP's question...
Reality is always better than fantasy, because it's real! But it might be a bit different to what you thought - and that is not a bad thing. This site would be a lot more interesting it were informed by reality a little more
Reality is always better than fantasy, because it's real! But it might be a bit different to what you thought - and that is not a bad thing. This site would be a lot more interesting it were informed by reality a little more
You just have to keep in mind that its not a DVD that you can take out of the player and its all over. Once you cross that line theres no going back or taking it away and its something all of you have to live with forever. Thats why it takes a strong marriage/relationship with a rock solid foundation.
Also btw, our meetings have been actually better than we fantasized it would be so maybe we got lucky lol.
Also btw, our meetings have been actually better than we fantasized it would be so maybe we got lucky lol.
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we found the reality surpasses the fantasy by a long way
Disclaimer: What i'm about to say and share is for educational and entertainment purposes only and it's to no shade to anyone and is from my own experiences and opinions and for those who are reading my response can agree or disagree their own leisure.
It's important to discern from fantasy and reality when it comes to living certain lifestyles related to relationships and sexuality. We all have desires and fantasies that we think about on a regular basis but i believe it's important to really sit down with ourselves and with our partners about any desires and fantasies that we want to make a reality. Like thanos said in infinity wars, "reality is often disappointing" and he's right to a certain degree if we get turned down by someone who doesn't want to connect with us and experiencing that stings our ego. But at the same time it's important to realize that we're not everyone's preference and we can potentially be someone's preference if our boundaries, desires and needs are aligned from a healthy space of authenticity, communication, curiosity and sincerity.
I've been in this community and lifestyle for quite some time and meet some lovely women from other spaces like fetlife and i have meet a lovely couple in 2021 from this space and i had a really fun time with her. Since it's 2023 and i'm about to be middle age pretty soon, i still have some desires and fantasies to connect with certain couples and single women who are practicing intimacy and sex from a healthy space of curiosity and growth. it may sound woke to some who are reading this and frankly i'm ok if someone doesn't like it and i have no shade or salt against them.
