Do you prefer a woman with a husband who is a cuckold or one with an open marriage?

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  1. DCDC

    DCDC Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Why?
     
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  2. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Open marriage, because i'm not into the whole "cuckolding" thing, the way is is defined and expressed on this site.
     
  3. DCDC

    DCDC Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I am so glad to hear that. My husband isn't into cockold but we have an open marriage and I wasn't sure if there were any left who still felt that way.
     
  4. DCDC

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    Thank you for liking this post.
     
  5. bm_from_southjersey

    bm_from_southjersey Administrator Staff Member Real Person Gold Member

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    You're welcome. I guess I'm different from some of the guys on this site in that for me, sex is just sex, nothing more. I don't need to humiliate somebody as a way of expressing my manhood, nor do I need to "own" somebody and proclaim myself a dom, and I certainly don't think any less of white men. Some people complicate sex to the point that it appears more like a sociology dissertation or the plot from a bad porn film than simple human attraction or the pursuit of carnal pleasures.

    Hope that sheds additional light on things.
     
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  6. DCDC

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    Yes it does and I agree with you whole heartedly. You sound like a nice man. Thank you for answering me.
     
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  7. bm_from_southjersey

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    Thank you, and once again you're welcome.
     
  8. DCDC

    DCDC Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    We seem to be saying thank you and welcome a lot.
     
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  9. bm_from_southjersey

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    Sure, I ddrift around these parts a bit. Message me anytime you wish, I may not get back to you right away but I will get back to you.
     
  10. Gordon

    Gordon Member Real Person

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    An open marriage is exciting indeed. It test the many encompassing layers of complex truth and puts it to the test and without question "Love". I admire this because it envokes the act of Love, to say I trust that you are mine and I am yours and what we do together or apart strengthens us together again. We both condon that, that we do in and for Love.
    A cuckold it appears to me engages and participates to fullfill his need to be dominated by a man, specifically Black, or perhaps to please his dominate wife or GF. Thous allowing him to be free of the obligation to perform what may be to him boring sex. Not beceuse he can't, he may simply be pleased in this way to be submissive to his wife. If in fact he can, it is then a spark of the
     
    #10 Gordon, Dec 27, 2014
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  11. Gordon

    Gordon Member Real Person

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    "Extreme Erotica".
     
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  12. Easy-Going Cali 8

    Easy-Going Cali 8 Active Member Real Person

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    You guys aren't the only ones. I'm involved with a couple right now that is an open marriage rather than cuckolding. I'd say that I probably prefer that, though I haven't been involved with a cuckolding couple. My dad always says don't knock stuff until you try it though, so I'd be open to it at least once.
     
  13. Easy-Going Cali 8

    Easy-Going Cali 8 Active Member Real Person

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    But just to clarify, I'm referring to the humiliation aspect of some cuckold relationships. I got no problems with an audience :D
     
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  14. Max Black

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    Am okay with either. Like everything in life, there's a spectrum, a range. Cuckolds can be interesting. If you're involved with a couple and the guy is a cuckold then you've kinda got to respect their life choices. I think that the trick is to not judge people. I've had a good time with all sorts of couples and I just dance to whatever tune is playing on the day.
     
  15. DCDC

    DCDC Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Yes, Erotic
     
  16. Gordon

    Gordon Member Real Person

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    I see.........
     
  17. DCDC

    DCDC Active Member Real Person Gold Member

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    Do you now??????
     
  18. Gordon

    Gordon Member Real Person

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    Yes. yes I do. I like it.
     
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  19. ohiobbcslut

    ohiobbcslut Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    open marriage hubby isn't into the whole cuckold thing either
     
  20. Gordon

    Gordon Member Real Person

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    Oh yes.....there is the third group of hubbies. The ones that simply don't know. That group of unsuspecting, oblivious, I'm in control of and my wife can and will do one wrong group. Women have supressed needs and desire these guys will never understand. So women exposed to BBC and/or the art of TABOO, that exotic feeling associated with deception and munipulation that brings sexual gratification from the secret desires of Taboo are remarkable in the act and deed itself. When hubbies unaware shes free of boundries. If he dose become aware the previously written options may come into play.
     
    #20 Gordon, Dec 28, 2014
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