Yea, I’ve been accused of being oblivious to it. My wife says it’s because none of the negative interactions happen when I’m around. I know women can be spiteful , passive aggressive, and petty, and will be subtle about pushing buttons, trynta revoke a reaction.
Ex. my wife accused my mom of spitting on her during a recent visit. Let my wife tell it, my mom hocked a lugie on her. But my mom may not have bn wearn her dentures and could have just been juicy moufted. I gave my mom the benefit of the doubt.
For the most part, we surround ourselves with supportive people amd don’t really fuck w those who make an issue of either of our skin tones and genealogy.
In the end, if some1 is mad because of my mixed marriage, I chalk it up to hatn and jealousy.