Do any white women find the cuckold psyche intriguing or appealing?

I suppose sexuality is as varied as 🧬 or fingerprints. I think what I want should be all over this site.
I want to be in a relationship with a white man my age 55-65. I want a normal life together, this includes naughty, loving and mutually fulfilling intercourse. Then... on occasion, at my prompting, I want us to find a black male with whom I can have sexual encounters. I want to be the one who decides all the extracurricular activities in our bedroom, I mean down to the last detail.
Could it be this male isn’t a cuck but just an open-minded guy?
If the male wants to find a female to have sexual encounters with then you are an open-minded couple.

If you don't want him to have sexual encounters too, and he is ok with that, then he's a cuck.
 
If the male wants to find a female to have sexual encounters with then you are an open-minded couple.

If you don't want him to have sexual encounters too, and he is ok with that, then he's a cuck.
By that definition I definitely am a cuck. And I’m fine with that.
 
I find them interesting. not sexually of coarse, not remotely. but the psychology of men who're into it is something i find intriguing. the secrets they keep from everyone. the lies they tell themselves. the wishfull thinking.

i'm still not sure if cuck men are just homosexual and not ready to accept. but its not my business to pigeon hole. i just find it interesting
Many cuckolds are not bi/homosexual at all. But we aren't the squeaky wheel. Usually the sissy/bi/gay cucks are the most vocal, and most annoying, so people start to associate those traits to all cuckolds. But that's an egregious error.
 
I’m definitely a bisexual cuckold. I was a confirmed cocksucker before we were married. But I have no idea how commonplace it is among cucks.
 
I doubt there are many women out there looking for cuckolds to date or marry. I don't think it's in a woman's nature to be attracted to or seek out that type of mate. For a man with a cuck fetish, it just feels natural, like it's in your DNA. Not the case for women. Women have to experience it first because it's what their husband wants, and then try to grow into it. When I met my wife, she was already a little kinky, talked about girl/girl sex, enjoyed porn, and discussed fantasies about threesomes. I knew there was Cuckoldress potential there. Over the years, she has grown into the role. I think she could take or leave the cuckold fetish itself, but at this point, she's unable to give-up having amazing and guilt-free sex with Black men.
There are certainly women that have a life long hubby who earns the money, and in some cases plenty of it, but who cannot fulfill his duty in the cock dept. For them the abdication of that role to a big cocked bull, black or white, is the natural progression. Thereby the wife has one man to provide the money and lifestyle, cars, homes etc., and one or other men to provide the orgasm and other sexual needs. In some cases the hubby is relegated to a sissy/sub hubby who services both the wife and bull as desired by them, to keep him in the game, so to speak, and in other cases not. I've seen them all over the years, and the range of kinks would surprise the average person, who is unaware of this lifestyle.

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like every thing else in this world I can say yes to this question. Yes some ladies do like to have a cuckold for a husband and do go out of there way to marry them.

back when my wife was still alive we knew a couple where he had anger management issues mostly due to work and not getting the jobs he wanted mostly due to not being willing to do the work. Total ass hole. She on the other side was bubbly much loved early education teacher grades 3 - 6. He really started to take out his frustration on her when she had what we learned was her fourth miscarriage.

the minister and wife even showed up for family counciling.
then one day he and his car met with a power pole at high rate of speed. yes she wore black for six months, joined a gym did hot yoga. Then slowly she returned to her bright conservative clothes. It was at this point my wife was in the final stages of cancer.


Bernice would visit my wife in the hospital almost as much as me. The talked about ever thing. Even the ******* in her class. What a jerk she had married. How she could not have ******* and how lucky my wife was to have me a guy that would marry a divorced mom with twin boys. the stay married after my wife had a one nighter with her ex that resulted in a little girl that was hearing impaired. If you are a step dad on report card day the joy that you have when they show you there sealed envelope school report card. You know a special joy. There is another Joy in hearing the boys had used the phrase “my dad can beat up your dad” in the school yard. Tea time with a deaf six year old when the other invited guests are her teddy bear collection and cabbage patch dolls. Is another sweet memory captured both in pictures and on video.

my wife left me a series of instruction envelopes for what I was to do or wear for every thing. Some were general and some were sealed with ribbons and bows with a wax seal.

One of the sealed letters was interesting all it said was open with Bernice with Bernice if she stops by with a favour to ask.

About two years after my wifes passing Bernice stopped by when she knew my ******* was with friends. She had an open envelope with instructions on the out side that had been sealed with ribbon and wax.

in side was instructions to me. Bernice needs to be fucked. Make it happen. No not you. Maybe Fred or Andrew. One was her one weekend a month friend with special benefits friend local. The other was her four times a year week long vacation black massuse love.

the relationship with Fred was not for a beginner Ask he is a very intense exibitionist lover. So it was Andrew. It was my first vacation in five years. Andrew was still there though he had a new job. However for old times sake he was available for the week.

we were met at the airport by Andrew, his wife and their oldest ******* who was 18 at the time. We talked about old times how my wife them all shoes That were hard to get locally For a variety of reasons mostly money. We also sent soccer shirts for not only the andrews sons but daughters. My wife had a collection of card board cut out patterns of their feet. So Andrew and the ******* all had soccer shoes. Thank goodness for my wife getting a school discount on the uniforms.

what really shocked Bernice was how she was treated. There were welcome Huggs for not just me but her to. Andrews wife was the one to show resent test for not only her husband but her ******* too. Every night of her week long stay Andrew gave her a very intimate massage about 4 hours long. Every morning jonn showed up for her morning shower, massage and the rest of the day beach boy tour guide.

well this is getting long.

on the trip home Bernice asked if I knew another guy like me to date.

as luck would have I did.
introductions were made and Bernice began dating a local farmer.

two years later they got married. The honey moon was in the fall were they visited Andrew for a week. For the record Jon was in school locally studying hotel management.

the next summer I was invited to a BBQ. I was talking to a gentleman named Peter who was tending the grill when Dave Bernices husband walked over knelt down un zipper Peter pulled out his cock and began sucking him hard then helped Peter out of his golf shorts sent him up to see the removation it the master bed room.

now is Dave in any way a wimp or sissy. Not in your life. Does Dave wear a cage no he proudly likes to show off his thick eight inch long
wife pleaser.
 
When my wife and I first discussed the issue of her having a black BF, she was intrigued by the fact I had known about them for over a year, puzzled that I wasn't angry, and it was a turn on for her that it was a turn on for me. Since that time, she has taken trips to Las Vegas with him with my knowledge and permission. We have an agreememt and that is discretion. They don't caper where friends of ours will recognize them. Also, she has never told him that I am aware of their relationship. This whole thing has made our sex life much better. She gets turned on telling me what they do together, how he fucks her, how she fucks him....sometimes she calls me when thhey are in Vegas together, before they go to bed, and then leaves her cellphone line open and on speaker so I can hear everything. He is also into video and photography and I've seen a lot of what they've done together, including the fucking.
 
When my wife and I first discussed the issue of her having a black BF, she was intrigued by the fact I had known about them for over a year, puzzled that I wasn't angry, and it was a turn on for her that it was a turn on for me. Since that time, she has taken trips to Las Vegas with him with my knowledge and permission. We have an agreememt and that is discretion. They don't caper where friends of ours will recognize them. Also, she has never told him that I am aware of their relationship. This whole thing has made our sex life much better. She gets turned on telling me what they do together, how he fucks her, how she fucks him....sometimes she calls me when thhey are in Vegas together, before they go to bed, and then leaves her cellphone line open and on speaker so I can hear everything. He is also into video and photography and I've seen a lot of what they've done together, including the fucking.
It is a lovely thing, indeed, when it works for you both. True honesty about your desires, no matter how unconventional, is the key to a successful marriage. Best wishes to you both.
 
I suppose sexuality is as varied as 🧬 or fingerprints. I think what I want should be all over this site.
I want to be in a relationship with a white man my age 55-65. I want a normal life together, this includes naughty, loving and mutually fulfilling intercourse. Then... on occasion, at my prompting, I want us to find a black male with whom I can have sexual encounters. I want to be the one who decides all the extracurricular activities in our bedroom, I mean down to the last detail.
Could it be this male isn’t a cuck but just an open-minded guy?
Definitely would be open-minded certainly would be the perfect marriage
 
Yes I look for attractive professional women younger than me who want to have a family or give me a baby or two but at the point where we are really solid in all areas and trust each other I like to bring up the topic of her past history of cheating and why she did it. Most of the women i date have a history of cheating on men they end up in relationships with because they choose men like myself..fun interesting and loving and stable who they feel secure with making a future with in the long term and the sex is just good enough.. not great but good enough with my average sized cock, depending on how turned on I am... so that plays out over time and they start to feel stale and bored with our sex and start to think about having sex with a more alpha male who is taller (im short) more in shape and with a full head of hair, probably younger and just wants to have sex with her and not the type of alpha male thats good in a relationship but is good and attractive enough as a woman she knows this is the other different cock that she is missing....
To stop the cheating rather a reality or in my head, I bring all those thoughts out to the light both she and I have and discuss if she feels this way and since we are secure enough in our relationship depending on our goals, maybe its time to admit those thoughts desires and insecurities are real and may one day surface in a negative way and now turn them into positive outcomes and control it by working together and bringing in those lovers and types of men to satisfy her and eliminate all things being good between us the possibility of her secretlly feeling the need to cheat on me. By then making the rule to experience this black men only we have now solved any issues as much as we can control in our choices of allowing any white opportunists out and putting this mentally and physically in the realm of fetish and desire only in her mind.. though thats not to say she wouldn't fall in love and leave me for a black bull but framing it this way in the beginning keeps her blinders focused on keeping all our other areas of the relationship heathy so she doesn't want to leave she is really happy but we now have the excitement of builinding a new sexual relationship with each other and with the alpha bulls she selects to pleasure her in my place.


So i look for women that offer the possiblity of this lifestyle in a solid marriage or relationship because i need this to be fully satisfied and happy in my life and want to find someone who is willing to accomodate that or that realizes through me introducing them or they already figured out this is the answer for them keeping their relationship happy and work with me to keep our love and bond alive and growing in all areas but this one special area is critical to us staying together once I become the beta, she will have to have that need filled in some way by someoone and ill need to accept that, so might as well work on solution that we both feel secure with and benefit from sexually in our own way.

I love white women with mixed babies when i meet them. I havent been able to nail one down yet but that would make this so much easier. If there was a connection her already having a mixed baby, introducing her to my fetish would be a natural fit for her since she already cared for a black man enough to have his baby and is probably still fucking him occasionally if he is in the childs life at all.
Which would be fine with me so long as she admitted it and was willing to bring him into this in a safe and open way.
 
It's amazing how the dynamic of interracial sex between big black men and white women has impacted on my sexuality and psyche. The role of being a cuck and supportive partner to a white female who likes big black men just seems so natural to me.
The care and respect for the lady is as strong as ever, but how it is expressed is quite different to the norm.
 
I know cuckolds aren't the type of men to get women going crazy with lust, but are there any white women out there who find the psyche of the white cuck to be appealing, or at least intriguing?
haha. Are you kidding? I placed an ad on Craigslist some years ago....found the most delicious cuck. Couldn't be happier. Classic cake and eat it too hubs.
 
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I was not understanding it at all from the man I love and married but I get it
Kinda depends on the flavor there are alphas who enjoy sharing the wife as a form of domination then there are betas who view it as being submissive. I think both like to see the woman enjoy herself. I have also had regular FFM triads of the two I tend to like sharing with another man. Much less drama.
 
Personally I don’t see the use and nor do I want one around. I will never seek one out and all the messages I get from them telling me how I need one or asking if they can be it is just driving me and probably many more self sufficient women away. Couples in my mind are different. It’s what each person likes and I respect that but for me I don’t want and am not looking for one
 
It didnt turn me on from the day i heard about it from my bf. What did turn me on where Black men. And then when i got more into it, i realized, this White guy, my bf/ cuck was going to let me have every thing i want, it did turn me on. Whats more dedicated then a man willing to give up his own "intercourse life" for me and allows me to enjoy what a really want. He is my beste friend, my love, but not the guy that fucks me right.

But boy it turns me on watching him jerk of while i get fucked. Hearing him talk to friends about seks, knowing the closest he gets is watching me fucking bbc. That turns me on just as much:love:
 
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