I think for some reason, cucks just don't like to congregate I have found. Don't know if its through embarrassment, fear of being found out etc. but nearly all I have met are introverts, perhaps that came from not being great with women or never getting laid early in life.
Their wives tended to be extroverts (mine included), loved dressing up, wearing loud outfits/ jewellery and loved playing the cocktease in front of everyone. Whereas a lot of cucks, given the chance, would be just as happy spending their time alone masturbating to porn. If they have 4 hours to themselves, they'll edge for that whole 4 hours I have found. So to get them to meet up isn't that easy. I have spoken to soooo many in my city who wanted to meet up, but most changed their mind in the end.
The few parties i've been to with cuck theme was great, but in that moment, its a captive group. You have 6 cucks chatting, and its like they are long lost brothers, they all have stories to tell, good and bad that are similar to your own. You all swap numbers, and promise to catch up, but doesn't happen... lot like the real world I guess???
Maybe as this becomes more popular we can begin to talk more to each other openly?