I really don't like derogatory terms used. I get no personal satisfaction belittling someone and I sure as Hell don't want anyone calling me names. I thoroughly enjoy curling my partners toes repeatedly if she is amenable. I like it if everyone involved is limp and happy at the conclusion of the encounter. I know some people enjoy the degradation but it won't happen in my bed, or on my living room floor, the kitchen counter top or any other place I might choose to fuck my brains out.