It certainly is fun mostly. Not sure hubby agrees though. There are times he has issues and doesn't like being put in his place. Especially if it's having to go over someone's knee. Lol.We've talked about it, would be fun?
It certainly is fun mostly. Not sure hubby agrees though. There are times he has issues and doesn't like being put in his place. Especially if it's having to go over someone's knee. Lol.We've talked about it, would be fun?
That's not how it would be for us, my husband is not about letting another man come into our home that is gonna be telling him what to do. We would definitely make sure everyone involved is treated respectfulIt certainly is fun mostly. Not sure hubby agrees though. There are times he has issues and doesn't like being put in his place. Especially if it's having to go over someone's knee. Lol.
Different strokes for different folks!Live-in permanently? Nope, never going to happen. We look for BM, not BBs. Men can support themselves; boys can't. Men can take a woman out and show her a grand time...you get the idea. NOW, would we invite oue BM friend over to spend a weekend or even a long weekend? Absolutely! We already do so and it works out great. Lots of sex between him and me, hubby takes his pics and films and joins in if he so desires. The whole dynamic changes, in our opinion, if one person moves in permanently and the probability of a clash (verbal, physical, etc.) is heightened and, from our perspective, increased by the extension of the invitation. Even if the BM were inclined to "pay his own way," there would be issues.
We, my husband and I, have a private life; allowing someone who is a Fuck Buddy...when you get down to the core of it, to intrude into that sets in motion unnecessary drama. Want to do it for a couple of weeks to indulge a desire for Fantasy Fulfilllment? Sure, if you feel you must. Ben Franklin had a saying "fish and guests both start to smell after three days;" I/we enjoy entertaining BMs over a short term. Allowing him to have a "voice" in our private life? Nope. Sorry, I'm married to one man and he is the love of my life. The BM in my life is a diversion, an enhancement of our relationship, not a substitute or fill-in for something lacking or missing. In our over 30 years playing the IR field, one thing has remained constant. I can walk away from BMs in an instant; I can't live without, and don't want to, my husband. YMMV
I'm not your *******, pal.You missed the point *******, in other words not our cup of tea.
did you rent to him for easier access and sex or did you seduce him after he moved in?We actually had a very successful live in situation when we lived near Atl. We had a 4 bedroom house and rented a room out and it turned into a great situation!!!
Just for the sexual part. We own the homedid you rent to him for easier access and sex or did you seduce him after he moved in?
That's what I'm talking about ?We actually had a very successful live in situation when we lived near Atl. We had a 4 bedroom house and rented a room out and it turned into a great situation!!!
Good point. Maybe with very little interaction. You'd only see in passing during the evenings and when you're horny ?This doesn’t interest me personally. I’m attracted to the “strange” feeling though, so that’s probably why. Having a live in would make things seem too normal.
Now that sounds like an executable plan! Wish I was still at Exeter... lolIn a previous life my husband best friend lived with us. I would often find myself taking his cock in his bed behind my hubby's back. Now I have a man who's down for that and we cant find a third.
My tummy showing a little nowMy hubby (now ex) and I had my bull move in with us. It worked well for the first six months. But my hubby's job required him to go out on extended assignments pulling bank vaults and ATM. When he returned my bull became more possessive of me. I kinda of like that. And had my hubby sleep in the guest room. He would hear us fucking in martial bed. Just before the holidays my hubby moved out and filed for divorce. My bull and I are still together and I am 3 months pregnant.
WowMy tummy showing a little now