I know that.
Just meant age-wise, how do you tell one from the other?
You can't tell one from the other as age is relevant only to the particular woman and man.
If a 30 year old woman gets together with an 18 year old guy, she is a cougar. If the same 30 year old woman gets together with a guy her own age, she is not.
If a 65 year old woman is with a 30 year old guy, she is a cougar, but if she is with an eighty year old man, HE is a dirty old man who is robbing the cradle.
If either or both of those women happen to be mothers, she could be a MILF as long as someone would love to fuck her. If she is not a
mother she can not be a
MILF.
A MILF can be any age, but
must be a mom.
A cougar can be any age, but
must be significantly older than the man she is fucking. There is no specific age difference, but most people would feel that seven years or more difference in age between the woman and the man would qualify her as a cougar.
A woman can be both as long as she is a mom and is significantly older than the man she is fucking.
Hope this helps,
will