confused a bit

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by likeit, Dec 10, 2012.

  1. likeit

    likeit Banned

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    although we are new to this we have notice that some times the woman has a bull by her self is this good practice or should husband be there for every meeting or should the wife break out and be her own woman
     
  2. becontree2001uk

    becontree2001uk Member

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    Welcome. I suggest as you new to take it easy. First meet teh bull in public and with hubby. At first meet with your hubby, and when you feel confident and that you like him then you can meet alone. Safety first girl OK
     
  3. nestle

    nestle Active Member

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    Absolutely! Though we are all looking for pleasure you have to remember that not everybody has YOUR best interests in mind. Always safety first.
     
  4. likeit

    likeit Banned

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    thanks for that some times its like a little kid in a lollie shop again thanks
     
  5. bbcdatsme

    bbcdatsme Member

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    always meet first if that goes well and hubby is happy let him watch u being fucked
    safety first
     
  6. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    likeit, cuckold activities can only last "harmoniously" in a marriage if EVERYONE is getting something from it. Your marriage & spouse should come first, always, unless your marriage is already falling apart and you don't care to preserve it. And, if your marriage IS in trouble already, you shouldn't be dragging another person into the fray of your marital problem. If your husband has problems with you going out on extended dates with Bulls, you should respect and address his concern(s). You and your husband decides what conditions are acceptable to you being other men.

    The Bull is there to provide a service your husband can't or won't provide you ... that's ALL! You show him gratitude for his service by thanking him, occasionally buying him appreciation gifts on special occasions (birthdays, Christmas, etc). But, he doesn't call the shots or make the decisions as to the arrangements, other than for conditions that are "safety" concerns for himself, like using condoms if he wishes.

    Remember, these cuckolding arrangements are to enhance YOUR pleasure. Ultimately, the successful continuation of this arrangement, within your marriage, depends upon your wise decision making. So, play considerately with everyone's happiness in mind. Mac