It is whatever you the cpl decide it should be.... It is your marriage and spouse being shared. "Black Ownership" is a different thing then a Co-husband or FWB. Talk it out and set the limits and then go find a BBC to fill the slot.
There are some cultures in the world that have a setup similar to this since there may be a lacking of women. It usually works but we have to realize that the women and not the men are in charge.
I agree it is an interesting concept but seems like it would be near impossible to sustain in the long-run. I think traditional marriages between two people fail about 50% of the time. When you factor in a third person, I would think the failure rate would go up to 75% within 5 years....
This is a fantasy that lots of beta guys yearn for, a dom alpha male taking complete charge of their wife and family a truly great fantasy.View attachment 1000275
This is the coolest idea I have read here. For years, I have had the fantasy that my wife has a long-term, or permanent, second "husband", one who has the sexual responsibilities as he is sexually superior to me. Simply put, he is the Alpha Husband, and I am the beta husband. They would share the master bedroom, and I would sleep in an adjacent single room with a single bed. They would interact like husband and wife around home and even in public, going on holidays, shopping, holding hands in public, kissing at parties, etc. I would sometimes be there and sometimes not. At home, I would be the obvious beta, assisting them with housework, cooking, serving them while they make love, getting them breakfast after a long night of love-making.
Of course, I would also have normal non-sexual husbandly duties, emotional support of my wife, the normal social functions, keeping up the house, etc. And, if they have any children, I would be the most important figure in raising them. I would be the house dad and househusband. My wife's lover would be more the sexual partner and also emotional partner for her.
Ideally, she would love me but also be in love with her other husband. They would not only have sex, rough, hard, fantastic sex, but also make love. I would be privileged to be able to hear this from my room, to watch when they allow it, to see them kissing, hugging, holding hands on a daily basis. I would of course treasure the times I was allowed to be involved with their love making-- licking her pussy or asshole, sucking him to hardness, or giving him blowjobs for relief when our wife was away or in some way unavailable for sex. I would so happily suck all of his superior sperm out of her pussy or asshole, or ******* it directly from the source when asked to. I am sure my wife would never want full sex with me, but I would be satisfied with ocassional handjobs and jerking off while watching or listening to them make love. I would gladly go pussy-free for them, and even delight if they belittled me and my weak, loser sperm, teasing me about how it always has and always will end up on the floor or in my own mouth and stomach, or in the toilet, while his ends up in her pussy, mouth and stomach, or impregnates her with his superior seed. Raising their children would be a source of immense pride for a cuckold like me.
Again, I would hopefully continue to have an emotional relationship with my wife, and provide her with anything her other husband can't. I can imagine her being very happy and fulfilled, more than most women.
Well, that'S the fantasy anyway. I would love to her form those who have anything a bit like this in reality.
We have talked many times about a live-in, but not as a co-husband. Our Black Don would be the one in-charge. Is it actually possible, workable...I don't know. The longest we had a black man here was one week and it was pure sexual heaven for both hubby and me.
I wanted this for my ex ....This is the coolest idea I have read here. For years, I have had the fantasy that my wife has a long-term, or permanent, second "husband", one who has the sexual responsibilities as he is sexually superior to me. Simply put, he is the Alpha Husband, and I am the beta husband. They would share the master bedroom, and I would sleep in an adjacent single room with a single bed. They would interact like husband and wife around home and even in public, going on holidays, shopping, holding hands in public, kissing at parties, etc. I would sometimes be there and sometimes not. At home, I would be the obvious beta, assisting them with housework, cooking, serving them while they make love, getting them breakfast after a long night of love-making.
Of course, I would also have normal non-sexual husbandly duties, emotional support of my wife, the normal social functions, keeping up the house, etc. And, if they have any children, I would be the most important figure in raising them. I would be the house dad and househusband. My wife's lover would be more the sexual partner and also emotional partner for her.
Ideally, she would love me but also be in love with her other husband. They would not only have sex, rough, hard, fantastic sex, but also make love. I would be privileged to be able to hear this from my room, to watch when they allow it, to see them kissing, hugging, holding hands on a daily basis. I would of course treasure the times I was allowed to be involved with their love making-- licking her pussy or asshole, sucking him to hardness, or giving him blowjobs for relief when our wife was away or in some way unavailable for sex. I would so happily suck all of his superior sperm out of her pussy or asshole, or ******* it directly from the source when asked to. I am sure my wife would never want full sex with me, but I would be satisfied with ocassional handjobs and jerking off while watching or listening to them make love. I would gladly go pussy-free for them, and even delight if they belittled me and my weak, loser sperm, teasing me about how it always has and always will end up on the floor or in my own mouth and stomach, or in the toilet, while his ends up in her pussy, mouth and stomach, or impregnates her with his superior seed. Raising their children would be a source of immense pride for a cuckold like me.
Again, I would hopefully continue to have an emotional relationship with my wife, and provide her with anything her other husband can't. I can imagine her being very happy and fulfilled, more than most women.
Well, that'S the fantasy anyway. I would love to her form those who have anything a bit like this in reality.
Super hot❤❤My boyfriend is just like a husband,he kisses me like hes my husband,he holds me like hes my husband and he makes love to me like hes my husband and we love each other like husband and wife,I sleep in his arms and wake up sucking his cock like hes my husband while my actual husband sleeps in the guest bedroom lol he calls me his wife and has gotten me pregnant with his baby twice but I miscarried the first one and carried our second to seven months with a big belly and she was stillborn We are still trying as my hubby submits as Darrian breeds me throughout my fertile cycle!
Totally perfect relationship. We have discussed this many times just haven't found the right person yet !!View attachment 965705 Would enjoy reading comments from people, in particular white couples and Black men, that have either been in or would like to be in, or are considering a co-husband, namely a white couple with one or more Black co-husbands. A number of people are in or have been in poly relationships; a co-husband relationship would be one in which the Black man (men) assume a more Dom role over both the wife and husband. This could even include the wife marrying the Black co-husband without divorcing her white husband......
You should have stayed with that Ex lolIt has been a good situation for me in the past, hoping to make it happen again with my current wife. My ex had me as the hub to support her at home and in day to day life, and she also had a bf/co-hub to keep her satisfied in the bedroom and also to take her out to the places that hubs usually aren't supposed to take their wives.