classy married NJ blonde for latin lover or other intriguing stud - must have real girth

I am a 5'6" 125 lbs, fit & toned, blonde haired, blue eyed "snowflake" (as it has been explained to me by those who know!). I have been married and faithfully off the market for many years. Many agree that I look 32. Central/Northern New Jersey location.

My husband is encouraging me to very selectively explore some excitement... possibly flirting & hooking up... or become the devoted longer term occasional lover... with the right Latin, Columbia, Brazilian, Puerto Rican, Spanish stud - or other intriguing man - who would be charming, exotic & be more than a match for my sarcasm & wit over drinks & dinner, seduce me on a dark nightclub dance floor and be assertive and take control of me in the bedroom.

Will consider the right Dom Bull who understands that both I and my husband need to start slowly here...our first experience with this and that its about the passion, not any humiliation...yet, anyway! My husband is well enough hung but is average in girth, so you better be thick if you want to dominate and thrill me with your package. I'd hope you be very attractive, have a nice or amazing body, soft eyes for there to be real passion. I am worth it & want it. thank you.