Changes in a woman's sexual needs as she gets older

[amores1]

I feel the same way,I am 52 and my sexual desires have really gone up.I have always wanted to experience a bbc but know its all I think about.I told hubby that i would like to cuck him with a bbc but he said if i make you cum,why.
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My wife is a little older than you. As she ages her thrist for sex increases. We started this life style with a bull. He became a lover and as she refers to him, "My second husband " After a while she wanted to broaden her experience. He recuites college black men to be our guests. It is easier for him being also black and a college professor. They must be STD tested so the cum can flow, at least 6 foot tall, muscular, large ,long lasting and dominating and of course black, the darker the better. She has warm and cuddly sex with me, loving virile huge cock sex with her second husband and raw totally physical sex with our guests. She says each is dramatically different and wonderful in their own way.

As to your husband, he must feel included and not being replaced. You need to be totally transparent with him so he feels your joy. If he is not there tell him about afterward it in detail while stroking his cock. If he is there smile and look at him occassionally acknowledging that he is there and part of the experience. I often sit to the side of my wife and hold her hand until she get strongly into it and then I withdraw so she can concentrate on the sex. Often when he thinks he is finished she has him lay on his back with legs slightly spread. She sits at his side near his waist. I am sitting near the foot of the bed near her. He starts out limp and spent but as she works on him he starts to inflate. She looks up at me ocassionally and winks. When she has him up and approaching orgasm she locks eye contact with me and we hold it. Sometimes she will encourage him by breaking from her oral ministrations and say, "Come on Ray. Give it up. I want to taste your cum." And then continue on all the while keeping our eye contact. When he starts cuming I see her throat moving as she is swallowing his cum and still with our eye contact. When she is finished she leans forward and motions to me. She and I deep kiss and I can taste him. I feel a part of the experience and not left out or threatened in any way. I celebrate her pleasure and joy.

I hope this helps.

 

[lv702cpl]

I would agree I'm much more open minded & willing to try new things than I used to be.

 

[Isabella"V"QoS]

Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.

I am very rarely on BtoW but it is my lunch hour and I saw your post. I'm not even sure if I have ever responded to a post, but here goes.
I am with a very loving husband who is 28 years older than me. We have been together a very long time and over the years, he has brought out a lot of my sexual thoughts that I believed were to remain private, but not I enjoy telling him what is on my mind when he "sport fucks" me for
30 to 60 minutes.
Like you, I also have had "changes" to my sexual thoughts and desires, including more than one man coming on my face / down my throat,
but they always shower and reload to come back and finish me off with a creampie or another load on my face / down my throat.
My thoughts max out at 3, and one day, I'd love to have that experience ... I think!
I don't consider that degrading as much as a very sexual act for a man (men) to be in charge and tell me what to do by encouraging me to
take it deeper; gag on it more ... whatever turns them on before giving me their cum. Since my husband is a very large 7" & pretty thick,
I never would have ( in my mind ) sex with someone smaller. However, as long as there is at least one cock larger than my husband, then the
other one or two cocks can be 6" or more at least, and just as thick or thicker.
Nothing abusive about a good hard blow job with cum for the reward! Thanks for sharing ... makes me want to share with you!
Isabella

 

[Sunshine girl]

Everything about me has changed, some for the better, some not lol. In my 20s, there was just a whole lot of sex. White hubby/Black bf. I was getting it daily and often multiple times a day. I was super fit and that was a lot of fun.

30s and 40s equaled little to no vanilla sex. Somewhere in my early 40s my hormones changed and my drive came back with a vengeance lol. It took me a while to get the courage up to seek sex outside my marriage. But two years of zero sex got me there.

What I found is that I’m much more open minded. Life is short. I’m more in to being more submissive, I think that’s in part to a busy career with a big job where I manage a huge team and I am constantly making big decisions and working in a field that’s typically a boys club. When I relax, I don’t want to be in charge and that includes in bed. I’m much happier taking cues from a man, they don’t have to be super aggressive, through I do love being dominated, it’s more that I’ll follow their lead and I really enjoy feeling a man react to me so I love spoiling with a lot of oral.

My body has also changed, I’m now relaxed and comfortable enough with my body to feel ok with my squirting, which can be prolific and destroy a bed lol. But the more the man is in to it the more fun it can be for both of us. I don’t believe there is any thing bad or taboo between consenting adults and whom I do have limits, I’m really a lot more open than i was when I was younger. Because it’s supposed to be fun

 

[ShannRev]

Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.

I can certainly aid in your desire for a sperm bath

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

When younger, I could never understand other girls who blatantly lust after guys. I was literally the type of bespectacled nerd who didn’t have much interest in men. I didn’t feel that much need for sex, so it was very easy for me to build a lifestyle where men weren’t a big part.

I really don’t know where it started, but yes, I did start watching porn, and I just got hooked over time.

What makes it a bit galling and inexplicable, is that I find myself gravitating towards the most hardcore, most degrading, and generally least ‘female friendly’ porn. I’m very sure most of my porn, if not all, is male centered and mostly male POV. But I can’t help it; I really want men to be strong, powerful, virile, dominant. Gentle kisses and tender hugs doesn’t boil my *******. I have zero interest in mating with sweet, soppy guys. I find that humiliation, indignity, outrageous treatment is more likely to boil my *******. One of my favorite positions in all porn is heads down, ass up. My least favorite positions are generally female superior.

I wonder if this is because I am now living a fairly male life – semi nomadic, unsettled, rootless, alone. I am not in any kind of domestic arrangement with children and childcare and anything that bestirs my ‘mommy’ instincts. Possibly that leads to a different level of testesterone production. I would probably be a different type of woman if I was living in a sorority like situation with a bunch of other girls around me?

This is extraordinarily common. Don't 2nd guess, doubt, be anxious in any way. This is universal, in fact.

 

[BethBB]

I think as we mature our sex drive and desires kick into a higher or different gear. I know my has ..... natural and normal.

 

[Dblinsey]

I agree 100 percent to the premise that the original poster posed.

Speaking for myself, I'm much more active, and open to 'other' ideas than I was in my 20s and 30s. I think a lot of that is due to the 'blush' of a monogamous relationship begins to wear off and the woman realizes that intimate relationships don't necessarily fall into the established social norm.

As we mature, we become aware that there are other things out there that capture our interest, and the thought arises that it would be fun to try this or that activity. This position is underscored by the numerous studies that suggest that couples begin swinging, sharing or other things once they become secure financially and they are comfortable in the established relationships.

To be sure, there are a lot of younger people that engage in this activity, but I would argue that the majority begin in their late 30s and early 40s.

Also, I would argue that people who do this sort of thing tend to be more intelligent and at least middle class. This is a generality, to be sure, but people who are in professions (medical, legal, business) are open to alternatives and not bound by social norms.

But the basic premise still holds true. The older one becomes, the more accepting of alternative activities and, generally speaking, sex itself, becomes a lot more intense and frequent. At least, that's my experience!

 

[BethBB]

I like the "sex becomes a lot more intense and frequent" part!

 

[LOVERHUSBAND]

Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.

Ypu spund fantastic
Great sharing
Young women should be reading you.

 

[PaleSkinLover]

Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.

you are turning into a slut. be proud.

 

[Anthony0542]

I agree 100 percent to the premise that the original poster posed.

Speaking for myself, I'm much more active, and open to 'other' ideas than I was in my 20s and 30s. I think a lot of that is due to the 'blush' of a monogamous relationship begins to wear off and the woman realizes that intimate relationships don't necessarily fall into the established social norm.

As we mature, we become aware that there are other things out there that capture our interest, and the thought arises that it would be fun to try this or that activity. This position is underscored by the numerous studies that suggest that couples begin swinging, sharing or other things once they become secure financially and they are comfortable in the established relationships.

To be sure, there are a lot of younger people that engage in this activity, but I would argue that the majority begin in their late 30s and early 40s.

Also, I would argue that people who do this sort of thing tend to be more intelligent and at least middle class. This is a generality, to be sure, but people who are in professions (medical, legal, business) are open to alternatives and not bound by social norms.

But the basic premise still holds true. The older one becomes, the more accepting of alternative activities and, generally speaking, sex itself, becomes a lot more intense and frequent. At least, that's my experience!

Donna, thoughtful and well written post. You’ve hit on a lot of reasons many try alternative sexual lifestyles. Sexual desire waning in long term relationships and the idea of financial security and knowing the person will be there definitely motivates couples to try new things. - a way to add spice to their current relationship and knowing it won’t ruin their current relationship

 

[Dblinsey]

Donna, thoughtful and well written post. You’ve hit on a lot of reasons many try alternative sexual lifestyles. Sexual desire waning in long term relationships and the idea of financial security and knowing the person will be there definitely motivates couples to try new things. - a way to add spice to their current relationship and knowing it won’t ruin their current relationship

Thank you!

 

[Anthony0542]

sex itself, becomes a lot more intense and frequent. At least, that's my experience!

Donna, would you attribute this (intensity of sex) to the additional sexual novelty couples are experiencing in these alternative sexual unions or just getting older and appreciating it more.

It seems like any long term sexual union will decrease in excitement but alternative sexual lifestyles will increase the intensity of sexual contact, if you continue to change it up or of you have time inbetween events.

Humans tend to experience a waning of excitement for any pleasurable event that is frequently done - we just get used to it.

 

[Dblinsey]

I would say that's a pretty good assessment, yes.

 

[Angelyn]

It’s been a month since the last post, and I’m back. This has been a nice discussion, and I really like the responses. So I’ll talk some more.

Along the way I kept getting one liner messages from horny men on this forum. Lots of guys said ‘how are you’ and ‘hi there’.

Let me repeat, for the sake of all the horny guys out there: women don’t mind talking and writing about sex. I could certainly read or write 50000 words about sex. But it doesn’t mean that they will have sex with you. If you come across a woman who’s the type to read or write a lot about sex, the only way to seduce them (if you don’t meet them in real life) is also to write a lot of words. If you are the strong silent type, then you can only get sex by meeting women in real life and sending them the right, strong silent type vibes.

 

[tomtomjim]

some women are horny into old age as far as things like golden showers or hard fuck or anal this is a personal desire and even some men like what seems like abuse such as humiliation. Hard to understand what drives people when you consider that spanking clubs were popular among the powerful in England and lady boys are popular as well, thank god or whoever for horny women of any age

 

[angelina1264]

I'm 55 in great shape and an insationable slut. I need a steady fix of black dick and get it almost every weekend. Belong to a closed group so we all stay healthy and offer myself as their sex toy. I have just about done it all and also have be one a real exhibitionist and know someone will recognize me sooner or later, but I'm at the point where I almost don't care.

I am a true Queen of Spades and parade up and down the beach letting everyone know. I've screwed a bull on a boat right off the beach and loved the fact people were watching. I have introduced several other women to the lifestyle and I dominate them and prepare them for my bulls.

The amount of cum I absorbed and been covered with can be measure in gallons and crave every last drop. The Bulls have gotten into BDSM and I am their slave and they are my masters. They have set up a dungeon and now I look forward to being restrained and used. My orgasms are like convulsions and continue till I almost pass out. I love the taste and smell of cum and an erect black dick makes me wild. As I aged my sex life has gotten better and looking forward to it till I can't do it anymore or am no longer wanted.

 

[Angelyn]

I just rewatched Vanessa Chase and Rebecca Lord’s Gangbang Girl 14 for what must be the 100th time.


I fast forward or skip a lot, by the way, so don’t imagine that I have actually spent 100 hours watching this flick. As I have written before, I don’t actually have a whole lot of interest in watching pussies being penetrated, so I always skip past these segments.


Let me talk about my thoughts; they’re much in line with this topic that I’ve started.


Age is just unfair to women. We’re most attractive and most sexually ready when we’re least horny.


Gangbang Girl 14 shows very young women, (Rebecca was 21 and Vanessa was only 19), being fucked silly by lots of construction workers.


But as much as that old flick turns me on so much now, I can hardly imagine any girl of that age actually wanting what Rebecca and Vanessa went through. Nobody in my social circle would have exhibited the delight and willingness that Vanessa exhibited in GBG14, at the tender age of 19. Even if we were offered a considerable amount of money to do anal, I find it hard to imagine any of us taking cock after cock in the ass when we were 19. It takes a girl with very little self respect, who is used to surrendering her body for men’s pleasure, to build up that kind of anal experience that allows you to get assfucked by a stream of hung guys.


At 19, nearly all females just want to find love. We didn’t want to be fucked silly by aggressive construction worker brutes. We wanted intimacy and gentle guys with soft skin and long hair and melodious voices.


Men watch that flick to enjoy fucking Vanessa Chase. But for women, I sense none or very few of us are Vanessa Chase. I think most women would be like me, identifying with Rebecca Lord instead.


Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy watching Vanessa Chase being fucked silly. I’m sure most women on this site would want to be in Vanessa Chase’s shoes. I have my fuckbunny fantasies too, of being cute and sexy and the lustful subject of so many men’s attention.


But it is only in our forties that we can fantasize about being Vanessa Chase, young and sexy again. When we were 19, I’m pretty sure all of us, including the girls who had already done anal, would be totally freaked out at the idea of being anally plowed nonstop in a situation where you were under very strong pressure to submit no matter how painful it got. Hardly any girl at 19 would be ready for that kind of treatment Vanessa got.


I first watched GBG14 in my late 20s. Just five or six years ago, I would have been utterly turned off. Even during my first few viewings, I wasn’t that interested. I only briefly skipped through my first viewing. I kept this flick in my porn collection, but I think I didn’t watch it for one or two more years after my first viewing. I occasionally watched it in my thirties. It was only in the last few years that I have watched it more frequently, and with less skips.


Only many years after the flick first came out, I finally watched this from start to end, and realized some things about myself.


For one, even age hasn’t changed certain sexual preferences of mine. I’m really not a fan of watching repetitive penetrations.


For another, I actually want something nonporn out of this infamous porn flick. I want to see more of Rebecca Lord. And I don’t mean more Rebecca Lord in action. I’m actually quite satisfied with her action in this flick. I want to see more of her facial expressions when Vanessa Chase was being fucked.


Eventually I asked a friend of mine who had also watched this movie. This led to a very frank conversation with another two other women; all of us were over 40 and educated.


All of us actually identified with Rebecca. And we all really wished we could see more Rebecca. Not having more sex, but we just wanted the camera to zoom out so that we could see Rebecca in the scene and observe how she reacted to things and her interactions with the men.


I guess age and lowered estrogen don’t change our feminine essentials.


Actual sexual performance isn’t as important as the social context and the environment for women. (to be continued)

 

[firedogg81]

I just rewatched Vanessa Chase and Rebecca Lord’s Gangbang Girl 14 for what must be the 100th time.


I fast forward or skip a lot, by the way, so don’t imagine that I have actually spent 100 hours watching this flick. As I have written before, I don’t actually have a whole lot of interest in watching pussies being penetrated, so I always skip past these segments.


Let me talk about my thoughts; they’re much in line with this topic that I’ve started.


Age is just unfair to women. We’re most attractive and most sexually ready when we’re least horny.


Gangbang Girl 14 shows very young women, (Rebecca was 21 and Vanessa was only 19), being fucked silly by lots of construction workers.


But as much as that old flick turns me on so much now, I can hardly imagine any girl of that age actually wanting what Rebecca and Vanessa went through. Nobody in my social circle would have exhibited the delight and willingness that Vanessa exhibited in GBG14, at the tender age of 19. Even if we were offered a considerable amount of money to do anal, I find it hard to imagine any of us taking cock after cock in the ass when we were 19. It takes a girl with very little self respect, who is used to surrendering her body for men’s pleasure, to build up that kind of anal experience that allows you to get assfucked by a stream of hung guys.


At 19, nearly all females just want to find love. We didn’t want to be fucked silly by aggressive construction worker brutes. We wanted intimacy and gentle guys with soft skin and long hair and melodious voices.


Men watch that flick to enjoy fucking Vanessa Chase. But for women, I sense none or very few of us are Vanessa Chase. I think most women would be like me, identifying with Rebecca Lord instead.


Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy watching Vanessa Chase being fucked silly. I’m sure most women on this site would want to be in Vanessa Chase’s shoes. I have my fuckbunny fantasies too, of being cute and sexy and the lustful subject of so many men’s attention.


But it is only in our forties that we can fantasize about being Vanessa Chase, young and sexy again. When we were 19, I’m pretty sure all of us, including the girls who had already done anal, would be totally freaked out at the idea of being anally plowed nonstop in a situation where you were under very strong pressure to submit no matter how painful it got. Hardly any girl at 19 would be ready for that kind of treatment Vanessa got.


I first watched GBG14 in my late 20s. Just five or six years ago, I would have been utterly turned off. Even during my first few viewings, I wasn’t that interested. I only briefly skipped through my first viewing. I kept this flick in my porn collection, but I think I didn’t watch it for one or two more years after my first viewing. I occasionally watched it in my thirties. It was only in the last few years that I have watched it more frequently, and with less skips.


Only many years after the flick first came out, I finally watched this from start to end, and realized some things about myself.


For one, even age hasn’t changed certain sexual preferences of mine. I’m really not a fan of watching repetitive penetrations.


For another, I actually want something nonporn out of this infamous porn flick. I want to see more of Rebecca Lord. And I don’t mean more Rebecca Lord in action. I’m actually quite satisfied with her action in this flick. I want to see more of her facial expressions when Vanessa Chase was being fucked.


Eventually I asked a friend of mine who had also watched this movie. This led to a very frank conversation with another two other women; all of us were over 40 and educated.


All of us actually identified with Rebecca. And we all really wished we could see more Rebecca. Not having more sex, but we just wanted the camera to zoom out so that we could see Rebecca in the scene and observe how she reacted to things and her interactions with the men.


I guess age and lowered estrogen don’t change our feminine essentials.


Actual sexual performance isn’t as important as the social context and the environment for women. (to be continued)

You are a spectacular woman