Changes in a woman's sexual needs as she gets older

Angelyn

Angelyn

Female
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.
 
Angelyn said:
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.
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Evolving can be a great thing. Men's sexual needs evolve later in life too.
 
Angelyn said:
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.
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Everyday is never the same. You might be doing the same thing but your body changes little by little everyday. You should embrace your new desires and explore them to understand more about who you are becoming.
 
SSway said:
I’ve always had a high sex drive, it started to increase even more about a year before I turned 30.

Have you watched a lot of porn over the years? I think it could be compared to that.
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When younger, I could never understand other girls who blatantly lust after guys. I was literally the type of bespectacled nerd who didn’t have much interest in men. I didn’t feel that much need for sex, so it was very easy for me to build a lifestyle where men weren’t a big part.

I really don’t know where it started, but yes, I did start watching porn, and I just got hooked over time.

What makes it a bit galling and inexplicable, is that I find myself gravitating towards the most hardcore, most degrading, and generally least ‘female friendly’ porn. I’m very sure most of my porn, if not all, is male centered and mostly male POV. But I can’t help it; I really want men to be strong, powerful, virile, dominant. Gentle kisses and tender hugs doesn’t boil my *******. I have zero interest in mating with sweet, soppy guys. I find that humiliation, indignity, outrageous treatment is more likely to boil my *******. One of my favorite positions in all porn is heads down, ass up. My least favorite positions are generally female superior.

I wonder if this is because I am now living a fairly male life – semi nomadic, unsettled, rootless, alone. I am not in any kind of domestic arrangement with children and childcare and anything that bestirs my ‘mommy’ instincts. Possibly that leads to a different level of testesterone production. I would probably be a different type of woman if I was living in a sorority like situation with a bunch of other girls around me?
 
Sexuality certainly does change with age. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. The moral is to appreciate and enjoy each phase as you pass through. There is no going back. I know of what I speak as I am 70 and have passed through many phases. Keep this thread going. Let's hear of many experiences.
 
amores1 said:
Sexuality certainly does change with age. Sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worse. The moral is to appreciate and enjoy each phase as you pass through. There is no going back. I know of what I speak as I am 70 and have passed through many phases. Keep this thread going. Let's hear of many experiences.
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Although most of the porn I watch has been criticized for objectifying women, I still watch with a 'female eye'. I always look at the woman's face and kind of replicate her expressions on my face. I never look at the man's face. I want her to be brutally fucked, but I still want to be the fuckee.

As for the fucker, I find that it is impossible to say that the porn also does not objectify men. I mean, I watch all that hardcore stuff, and I don't even care about the man's name. To me, all porn guys exist as drones for their queen bees. The woman is the star of the show.

I really could not care less how much pleasure he gets. I just want him to be big and hard. And I don't just mean his genitals; I want his everything to be big and hard - thigh muscles, butt, stomach muscles, shoulders, every piece of meat on his bones. Instinctively I want to grab and pinch all that muscle and it had better be unyielding like a good man should be!

Back when I was a teenage girl seeking companionship and love, I would never have thought that I can watch a porn film and not look higher than a man's neck. Are you kidding me?

But these days are long over. I got companionship from other girls when I was that age, and I wasn't that sociable to begin with, so I never needed men that badly.

Now what I'll like: Hook up with a guy, and spend all my time, if not on his cock, balls and ass, then resting my face on his chest with eyes closed and just appreciating the firmness and smell and breathing. I don't care to look into his eyes and look for love anymore. I'm just here to extract his sperm. In fact, because I don't know how I might handle falling in love, I even want to avoid his eyes. I'm kinda of afraid of commitment at this point. Am I supposed to lose my rationality and move in with him and give up my freedom?

So in many ways I am thinking and behaving like a stereotypical man, right? Women are supposed to be emotional and seek love, but I am the one who wants to be rational and prefer to remain free and unattached. Is that what happens when I approach menopause and estrogen and female hormones get suppressed? (Come on girls, give me a response!)
 
Angelyn said:
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.
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. Most younger women still want love , romance, and perhaps babies. Mature women want hard cock that lasts. Some want lots of sperm too. And lately BBC. Oh , and yes , younger men. Helps that the young man is physically fit with lots of endurance and enjoys having lots of sex with mature women.
 
We’ve had more sex as our relationship has grown and as we’ve gotten “older” (mid 30’s), sexual fantasies and desires haven’t been as secretive as it was early in our relationship. I think sexual desire is more about trust and security as it is about age. As a person gets older, the jealousy and other feelings get pushed out of the way as you become more comfortable as a couple, that’s how it’s been for us at least. I sure know that our sex has gone up quite a bit over the last 5 years and it all started when BBC was first discussed. She went from not talking about it much to now it’s the first thing and the topic that gets her in the mood as soon as it’s brought up. Also, she seems to be comfortable in her own skin, something that comes with time for some. Growing out of being shy and reserved to feeling like “hell yeah I’m sexy”... I love her and growing together, she’s more and more of a turn on as she becomes more comfortable with who she is and our commitment to each other.
 
Angelyn said:
Although most of the porn I watch has been criticized for objectifying women, I still watch with a 'female eye'. I always look at the woman's face and kind of replicate her expressions on my face. I never look at the man's face. I want her to be brutally fucked, but I still want to be the fuckee.

As for the fucker, I find that it is impossible to say that the porn also does not objectify men. I mean, I watch all that hardcore stuff, and I don't even care about the man's name. To me, all porn guys exist as drones for their queen bees. The woman is the star of the show.

I really could not care less how much pleasure he gets. I just want him to be big and hard. And I don't just mean his genitals; I want his everything to be big and hard - thigh muscles, butt, stomach muscles, shoulders, every piece of meat on his bones. Instinctively I want to grab and pinch all that muscle and it had better be unyielding like a good man should be!

Back when I was a teenage girl seeking companionship and love, I would never have thought that I can watch a porn film and not look higher than a man's neck. Are you kidding me?

But these days are long over. I got companionship from other girls when I was that age, and I wasn't that sociable to begin with, so I never needed men that badly.

Now what I'll like: Hook up with a guy, and spend all my time, if not on his cock, balls and ass, then resting my face on his chest with eyes closed and just appreciating the firmness and smell and breathing. I don't care to look into his eyes and look for love anymore. I'm just here to extract his sperm. In fact, because I don't know how I might handle falling in love, I even want to avoid his eyes. I'm kinda of afraid of commitment at this point. Am I supposed to lose my rationality and move in with him and give up my freedom?

So in many ways I am thinking and behaving like a stereotypical man, right? Women are supposed to be emotional and seek love, but I am the one who wants to be rational and prefer to remain free and unattached. Is that what happens when I approach menopause and estrogen and female hormones get suppressed? (Come on girls, give me a response!)
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I have been going through many of the same changes that you describe as a mid-forties Cougar. My hormones are rapidly changing as I am in the throes of peri-menopause.

I am such a different woman than I was in my twenties and early thirties. Back then, I was very sexually conservative, a loyal doting wife and a bible thumping Christian goody two shoes. I was a boring prude to be quite honest.

When I escaped (physically abusive Ex) that marriage, an entirely new life opened up to me. I was finally free to enjoy life and all it had to offer. I met a very sweet laid back older white man and our hearts soon connected. Since his sexual prowess was disappointing, I informed him that I would be accepting dates from various black men who had been flirting with me on the dating website. He agreed and my sexuality began to change in a major way. My hormones craved the handsome black men and their passionate love making skills. I was willing to do anything that my first ever black boyfriend wanted, including being shared with his friends. They took my anal virginity and I craved more. They gang banged me and I begged for more. I married my boyfriend 6 years ago but have continued to be an exclusive Queen of Spades Slutwife ever since. I love my sex life now and know that I could never be a loyal wife ever again.

Raging peri-menopausal hormones + BBC = slut.
 
Hotwife4U said:
I have been going through many of the same changes that you describe as a mid-forties Cougar. My hormones are rapidly changing as I am in the throes of peri-menopause.

I am such a different woman than I was in my twenties and early thirties. Back then, I was very sexually conservative, a loyal doting wife and a bible thumping Christian goody two shoes. I was a boring prude to be quite honest.

Queen of Spades Slutwife ever since. I love my sex life now and know that I could never be a loyal wife ever again.

Raging peri-menopausal hormones + BBC = slut.
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Hotwife, I find it hard to admit, but you are really quite right.

I have friends who are cougars. This is not a word easily used. I've kind of banned it from my vocabulary because I'm pretty sure the large majority of my peers are uncomfortable with it. But for the past 10 years, I have been hearing more from friends and peers in my age group that they are picking up younger men for flings. Pickup routines vary, but standard practice is that you take initiative instead of sitting around waiting to be noticed. Moreover, most women are quite explicit in their sexual demands and expectations.

When younger, I never participated in any meat shows. I thought they were all demeaning - whether it is a wet t-shirt contest, a bikini contest, or simply a standard beauty pageant. But nowadays I hear of cougars asking explicitly about a guy's staying power, whether he can do a good standing fuck and maintain his erection while carrying a woman, stuff like that.

Putting myself in a guy's shoes, I would think this is demeaning. But somehow young guys don't see it that way. Most seem quite pleased that older women are interested in their sexual prowess. But I can't do it. I can't command sexual performance from guys. I'm still the socially inept nerd I was at 21.

Try checking out the article "A Woman Walks into a Bar" by Jennifer Boylan in the NY Times. I think her approach is exactly the inept bookish type, possibly worse than me since she is 61. If I were in my thirties and in a bar wanting to get noticed, because I didn't feel comfortable looking at men, I would often look down and do other things - including reading academic theses and proofreading stuff for a part time job. I have hardly any need to add that this didn't result in me getting picked up.
 
Recently I watched a bikini contest and masturbated.

But I don't even know if you can say watched. I mean, I did see the women parade themselves, but it wasn't really important to me. In fact, it was even a turn off, because I really hate women with fake breasts and butts and most of them were fake. (I've posted before more than once that I consider them cheaters.)

What I was really looking out for, was more the lights, the atmosphere, the cheers and wolf whistles. The fact that the camera was zooming in on the women's bodies, made me think that maybe every guy is doing the same. So I was putting myself mentally in these women's shoes, and imagining myself the object of lust by all the men in the room. Whew! If I were there, I'd be burning too. And as anyone who reads my posts knows, I love a burning sensation. It preps me for sex.

You know how you can make bikini contests a turn on for women as well? I think I've got it. Modern technology allows split screens and drone cameras. You could have every contestant viewed from like 20 different angles and projected on the same screen.

How is that a turn on for women like me? Two aspects to consider. Firstly, women are sensitive about their looks. I'm not comfortable being lusted after for just my calves or my neck. We need to feel lusted after ALL OVER, we need reassurance that every aspect of us is fuckable. So one camera angle should be replaced with 20.
Secondly, if I was watching a bikini contest, what I really want is the sense of being the subject of interest for many horny men. Irresistible to not just one weirdo nerd, but dozens of men. So lots of different angles on the contestant's body suggests many different men looking at me.
Some women who are more 'forward' would enjoy looking at the faces of 20 different men onscreen. I'm not so aggressive yet, I don't want to look at twenty pairs of eyes looking back at me on my computer. It's a bit too threatening.
 
Angelyn said:
Recently I watched a bikini contest and masturbated.

But I don't even know if you can say watched. I mean, I did see the women parade themselves, but it wasn't really important to me. In fact, it was even a turn off, because I really hate women with fake breasts and butts and most of them were fake. (I've posted before more than once that I consider them cheaters.)

What I was really looking out for, was more the lights, the atmosphere, the cheers and wolf whistles. The fact that the camera was zooming in on the women's bodies, made me think that maybe every guy is doing the same. So I was putting myself mentally in these women's shoes, and imagining myself the object of lust by all the men in the room. Whew! If I were there, I'd be burning too. And as anyone who reads my posts knows, I love a burning sensation. It preps me for sex.

You know how you can make bikini contests a turn on for women as well? I think I've got it. Modern technology allows split screens and drone cameras. You could have every contestant viewed from like 20 different angles and projected on the same screen.

How is that a turn on for women like me? Two aspects to consider. Firstly, women are sensitive about their looks. I'm not comfortable being lusted after for just my calves or my neck. We need to feel lusted after ALL OVER, we need reassurance that every aspect of us is fuckable. So one camera angle should be replaced with 20.
Secondly, if I was watching a bikini contest, what I really want is the sense of being the subject of interest for many horny men. Irresistible to not just one weirdo nerd, but dozens of men. So lots of different angles on the contestant's body suggests many different men looking at me.
Some women who are more 'forward' would enjoy looking at the faces of 20 different men onscreen. I'm not so aggressive yet, I don't want to look at twenty pairs of eyes looking back at me on my computer. It's a bit too threatening.
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a good helathy sexual attitude. More mature women enjoying sex and being sexy now. As nature intends. Lure and seduce the males. Procreate. But not just one man. Several. Other races as well. Black is popular today. Variety of men. Just as before and now as well , men sought and seek sex with different women. Sow that DNA in different women. Now women get the DNA from different men. Happened in history too when husbands left or passed or were killed and other men took their place. Some women had two, three, four husbands. Now women have two, three, four young lovers or bulls. How the world turns.
 
Someone asked, so I might as well answer here.

No, I do not want to participate in a bikini contest in real life. Even though I look a lot better than most women my age, and even if the contest was limited to only women my age with no surgical cheating done, and even if someone could magically guarantee that my participation wasn't leaked to parties that would frown upon my participation.

The reason is already discussed in another of my posts. https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/is-modern-interracial-porn-after-around-2010-too-bright.161056/

It's one thing to fantasize about being lusted after. It is entirely another thing to have lots of lights shining on my face. It's not comfortable at all, and a total turn off.
 
Angelyn said:
Someone asked, so I might as well answer here.

No, I do not want to participate in a bikini contest in real life. Even though I look a lot better than most women my age, and even if the contest was limited to only women my age with no surgical cheating done, and even if someone could magically guarantee that my participation wasn't leaked to parties that would frown upon my participation.

The reason is already discussed in another of my posts. https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/is-modern-interracial-porn-after-around-2010-too-bright.161056/

It's one thing to fantasize about being lusted after. It is entirely another thing to have lots of lights shining on my face. It's not comfortable at all, and a total turn off.
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. Has to be some motivation for these people. Usually money. Some ego too. Bright lights or not , always wondered what motivates women porn stars. If they had secrets before , secrets are gone now. Very very public now. Like bikini contests , its all out there for people to see.
 
Angelyn said:
I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum.
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Then you're in the right place! I can personally attest to the fact that Blacks are the most virile of men. I have been fucked, cummed in and gagged by many Black cocks, although I'm not actually gay.
 
subwife4urBBC said:
We’ve had more sex as our relationship has grown and as we’ve gotten “older” (mid 30’s), sexual fantasies and desires haven’t been as secretive as it was early in our relationship. I think sexual desire is more about trust and security as it is about age. As a person gets older, the jealousy and other feelings get pushed out of the way as you become more comfortable as a couple, that’s how it’s been for us at least. I sure know that our sex has gone up quite a bit over the last 5 years and it all started when BBC was first discussed. She went from not talking about it much to now it’s the first thing and the topic that gets her in the mood as soon as it’s brought up. Also, she seems to be comfortable in her own skin, something that comes with time for some. Growing out of being shy and reserved to feeling like “hell yeah I’m sexy”... I love her and growing together, she’s more and more of a turn on as she becomes more comfortable with who she is and our commitment to each other.
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For once I decided to write myself and not delegate writing to my husband. Because it's my body and my needs. I am 55 now and from this position understand what changes I went through. I had great sex throughout my life, but from young age to shortly after 40 this was emotional sex. But after 40-45 I realised sex was becoming less emotional and more physical. My body was craving for intense sexual experience, while my husband was feeling the opposite. For the first time I got the meaning of the word "insatiable". And of course, I was no longer in fear of unwanted pregnancy - and this is a liberating feeling. What;s more, sex helps me staying fit. I have friends who have long stopped looking after themselves, and their sex life dwindled to nothing. They are old, and I am dashing, promiscuous and young. I am so happy that my husband supports me all the way!
 
Hotwife4U said:
I have been going through many of the same changes that you describe as a mid-forties Cougar. My hormones are rapidly changing as I am in the throes of peri-menopause.

I am such a different woman than I was in my twenties and early thirties. Back then, I was very sexually conservative, a loyal doting wife and a bible thumping Christian goody two shoes. I was a boring prude to be quite honest.

When I escaped (physically abusive Ex) that marriage, an entirely new life opened up to me. I was finally free to enjoy life and all it had to offer. I met a very sweet laid back older white man and our hearts soon connected. Since his sexual prowess was disappointing, I informed him that I would be accepting dates from various black men who had been flirting with me on the dating website. He agreed and my sexuality began to change in a major way. My hormones craved the handsome black men and their passionate love making skills. I was willing to do anything that my first ever black boyfriend wanted, including being shared with his friends. They took my anal virginity and I craved more. They gang banged me and I begged for more. I married my boyfriend 6 years ago but have continued to be an exclusive Queen of Spades Slutwife ever since. I love my sex life now and know that I could never be a loyal wife ever again.

Raging peri-menopausal hormones + BBC = slut.
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:qos:she is SO right...:qos:she a slave for it now:qos:
 
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