Changes in a woman's sexual needs as she gets older

(continued) The camera rarely showed us what Rebecca was up to when Vanessa was on the ground getting fucked. But I just loved Rebecca. That’s me, that’s me, that’s me, my brain is telling myself!


Earlier on we (or the male viewers) were already treated to the sight of Rebecca spreading her legs. I loved these panty flashes. That was a nice detail. Because if I’m ever going to be with another girl, both of us casually flashing our panties in a public area, that would mean we were getting ready to be picked up for group sex. It helps prep me.


As much as I want women power and better treatment for women and an end to double standards, there are so many cases when a woman complains of unwanted sexual attention, that I feel she brought that attention on herself.


Men are visual creatures. And women are fully aware of how they look. I hardly wear any makeup and I dress down routinely (and often in men’s clothes), but I am still aware of how I look to others. Women always have a sense of how men react to their dress style.


When Rebecca chose to visit a construction site in a backless summer dress, no bra and lacy panties, she was already offering implied consent to sexual attention. Nobody is forsing her to go to the construction site.


In a way, Rebecca was fulfilling a certain inner need for many women. We want to be taken by strong, dominant men. So we create circumstances where strong, dominant men would react to us. Do you think Rebecca and Vanessa would have gotten sexual attention, if they had shown up at the construction site dressed like Hillary Clinton or in policewomen’s uniforms?


But the fact that Rebecca shook off male hands, retreated and backed herself against a pillar was also so real for me. I could see myself at that age, wanting sex but also feeling so intimidated. I would have not resisted the initial touches. But when the men started crowding, I would have fled to a safer place.


I just loved the expressions on Rebecca’s face and how she brushed off Dick Nasty’s advances. Things were moving too fast for Rebecca.


But at some point, Rebecca’s inhibitions snap. Suddenly she can’t take it anymore. Vanessa had been fucked many times by then, and guys had cummed several times on her face and her ass. The fact that Vanessa had survived letting multiple guys ream her until they came, would have told me that it’s really quite ok. I won’t get hurt doing this.


This feels so real for me. I didn’t hear any directions being given, but I would have spontaneously reacted the same way.


Rebecca came forward and licked the sperm off Vanessa’s ass. This is both disgusting, and so sexual. Rebecca was essentially telling the guys that she wants their semen. Her inhibitions had just broken down like a dam bursting.


You guys just gotta accept it; real women use nonverbal cues to signal what they want. Licking semen off another woman's butt is a very explicit and forceful way of saying they want sex. A less explicit way might just be to lick her lips. Most women aren't going to talk like pornstars: "I wanna get fucked, fuck me!" The pornstar way of talking is so bizarre and unnatural to me.


Earlier in the scene, it took quite a bit of foreplay before Vanessa got on her knees, and her clothes were progressively and gently removed. But when Rebecca starts, she drops to her knees and pulls off her dress in a hurry. I can’t tell you how natural that looked. I doubt if the men directing this flick would have known about acting nuances. It was just Rebecca finding that she can’t take it anymore; she wanted sex too!


This is so... me. I identify so much with Rebecca in this scene.
 
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When younger, I could never understand other girls who blatantly lust after guys. I was literally the type of bespectacled nerd who didn’t have much interest in men. I didn’t feel that much need for sex, so it was very easy for me to build a lifestyle where men weren’t a big part.

I really don’t know where it started, but yes, I did start watching porn, and I just got hooked over time.

What makes it a bit galling and inexplicable, is that I find myself gravitating towards the most hardcore, most degrading, and generally least ‘female friendly’ porn. I’m very sure most of my porn, if not all, is male centered and mostly male POV. But I can’t help it; I really want men to be strong, powerful, virile, dominant. Gentle kisses and tender hugs doesn’t boil my *******. I have zero interest in mating with sweet, soppy guys. I find that humiliation, indignity, outrageous treatment is more likely to boil my *******. One of my favorite positions in all porn is heads down, ass up. My least favorite positions are generally female superior.

I wonder if this is because I am now living a fairly male life – semi nomadic, unsettled, rootless, alone. I am not in any kind of domestic arrangement with children and childcare and anything that bestirs my ‘mommy’ instincts. Possibly that leads to a different level of testesterone production. I would probably be a different type of woman if I was living in a sorority like situation with a bunch of other girls around me?
Wow, Angelina, I can really relate to this. I really enjoy all your posts. They are intelligent and thought provoking. ?
 
This is extraordinarily common. Don't 2nd guess, doubt, be anxious in any way. This is universal, in fact.
Are you hornier now, than five minutes ago ? Lol. Women have that infinite capacity to change, in so many ways. It both thrills and drives men crazy.
Some women are so. ... SEXUAL ...from early on, and they make the most out
Of every opportunity
 
I'm 55 in great shape and an insationable slut. I need a steady fix of black dick and get it almost every weekend. Belong to a closed group so we all stay healthy and offer myself as their sex toy. I have just about done it all and also have be one a real exhibitionist and know someone will recognize me sooner or later, but I'm at the point where I almost don't care.

I am a true Queen of Spades and parade up and down the beach letting everyone know. I've screwed a bull on a boat right off the beach and loved the fact people were watching. I have introduced several other women to the lifestyle and I dominate them and prepare them for my bulls.

The amount of cum I absorbed and been covered with can be measure in gallons and crave every last drop. The Bulls have gotten into BDSM and I am their slave and they are my masters. They have set up a dungeon and now I look forward to being restrained and used. My orgasms are like convulsions and continue till I almost pass out. I love the taste and smell of cum and an erect black dick makes me wild. As I aged my sex life has gotten better and looking forward to it till I can't do it anymore or am no longer wanted.View attachment 2892867

What a fantastic Wonder of a Woman.
 
I'm 55 in great shape and an insationable slut. I need a steady fix of black dick and get it almost every weekend. Belong to a closed group so we all stay healthy and offer myself as their sex toy. I have just about done it all and also have be one a real exhibitionist and know someone will recognize me sooner or later, but I'm at the point where I almost don't care.

I am a true Queen of Spades and parade up and down the beach letting everyone know. I've screwed a bull on a boat right off the beach and loved the fact people were watching. I have introduced several other women to the lifestyle and I dominate them and prepare them for my bulls.

The amount of cum I absorbed and been covered with can be measure in gallons and crave every last drop. The Bulls have gotten into BDSM and I am their slave and they are my masters. They have set up a dungeon and now I look forward to being restrained and used. My orgasms are like convulsions and continue till I almost pass out. I love the taste and smell of cum and an erect black dick makes me wild. As I aged my sex life has gotten better and looking forward to it till I can't do it anymore or am no longer wanted.View attachment 2892867

You are a total beauty, do you ever come down to SFLA?
 
What a fantastic Wonder of a Woman.
. Yes. I think the term ( among others ) is " unabashed". They make no games about their desires and need for BBC. In public , they dont seek or " look at " white men anymore. Its all about sex with black men. Susan is the same. Only BBC for her. And its a wonderful life.
 
I'm 55 in great shape and an insationable slut. I need a steady fix of black dick and get it almost every weekend. Belong to a closed group so we all stay healthy and offer myself as their sex toy. I have just about done it all and also have be one a real exhibitionist and know someone will recognize me sooner or later, but I'm at the point where I almost don't care.

I am a true Queen of Spades and parade up and down the beach letting everyone know. I've screwed a bull on a boat right off the beach and loved the fact people were watching. I have introduced several other women to the lifestyle and I dominate them and prepare them for my bulls.

The amount of cum I absorbed and been covered with can be measure in gallons and crave every last drop. The Bulls have gotten into BDSM and I am their slave and they are my masters. They have set up a dungeon and now I look forward to being restrained and used. My orgasms are like convulsions and continue till I almost pass out. I love the taste and smell of cum and an erect black dick makes me wild. As I aged my sex life has gotten better and looking forward to it till I can't do it anymore or am no longer wanted.View attachment 2892867
I think it happens to a lot of us, as we mature our sex drive kicks into a higher gear. Normal and natural for our sexual desires to increase.
 
This is Cindy. I can relate to your comment that some want lots of sperm. That's me !
hi Cindy. Whats your reason for wanting lots of cum ? Susan loves lots of cum too because its such a turn on for her when the young black studs cum inside her. Probably brings back memories from when the black bulls were trying to breed her as a young white woman. Something about the added emphasis of breeding along with the hot , passionate , fufilling, orgasmic , lustfull sex.
 
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.
Looks like your body is starting to run hotter .... and you are questioning the rules you have complied with to date.... Go with your urges, and enjoy this fantastic journey of discovery as your body and sexual urges changes from reproduction to recreation. what we are never taught is that a woman's body evolved to accept multiple partners at the same time or in rapid succession, with their seed competing dep inside her. The proof is that semen is also an excellent lubricant with each lover preparing her body for the next., and her orgasms can be almost unlimted with the right lover, or lovers... Good luck with this wonderful journey you ae about to embark on.
 
Hi folks

I have wanted to write this article for a long time. Finally I psyched myself into writing it.

I am hoping to stimulate some discussion. I have no objection to the moderators moving this article to any thread where they deem more appropriate.


OK I’ll get to the point. It’s a point I hate dwelling on and will understandably often skirt, but it is really important to me and affects me more than I normally confess to.

I’m getting older.

Apart from other changes in my life and body, I also notice that my sexual fantasies are changing. In fact, not just changing, but changing a lot.

I’m not the same girl I was. My sexual identity is changing in ways that I don’t understand. This definitely affects how I react to the porn that I like to watch so much.

Maybe I am nearing menopause and my hormones are changing. But I am very far from being hot tempered or emotionally volatile yet. I don’t think my hormone levels have gone out of control. It’s just a vague sense that I seem to be turning more masculine in my sexual urges.

One of the things that I’ve become mildly obsessed with, is inspecting my face for facial hair because I’m convinced that as my sexual desires become more ‘male’ due to increased levels of testesterone, I should get more facial hair. Actually none of that has happened yet.

So what’s going on?

I find myself increasingly being turned on by things that I would have been turned off by when younger. Usually it is the kind of thing that teenage males like. (At least, that's what I believe teenage males like - I might have subscribed to some inaccurate stereotypes but I am pretty convinced that men are very juvenile.)

As a teen and then woman in her twenties, I cannot imagine myself ever enjoying bukkake.

When I was young, I did glance over the odd Japanese bukkake video out of curiosity, but I didn’t enjoy a second of it. One actress I remembered had a really pained, nauseated and humiliated expression throughout, and I firmly identified with that. I know in theory it doesn’t hurt to get my face cummed on by many men, but I would have been so humiliated by having so many men treat me as a cumdump. And I mean humiliated in a non-enjoyable way.

But in my thirties, I started getting just that little bit turned on by such degrading treatment. I put it down to me becoming more in tune with my feminine identity. I’m a woman, so I deserve lots of sperm, so give me all you’ve got. That’s how I thought.

Now in my forties, I find myself craving this kind of sex. I want men to be absolutely powerful, totally virile, with big sexual organs, crazy-long staying power, and an infinitely huge sperm production capability. And I want guys to cum and cum and cum. I want your sperm all over my face, all over my food, everywhere! I find myself having the fantasies that young men almost certainly have. When I was a teen I would have screamed and fled from a big penis. At my age, I would be quite happy to grab it, kneel, slap my face with the penis, lick it all over. It’s a total change.

One video I glanced over in the past, featured a young woman being soaked in a bathtub of semen. She didn’t look that happy, and I felt it was extremely humiliating and ‘abusive’.

But at my age, I’m wondering. What’s so humiliating? What’s so abusive? It doesn’t hurt to be soaked in a sperm bath. It’s fun!

I await others’ responses before adding more to this post.


Women tend to Want more sexual energies as they get older. I remember coming into contact with a sexy black grandmother who had strong sexual aura. She was still pretty, still sexy and still in shape and she had a posture that stopped us on our tracks.
 
I just rewatched Vanessa Chase and Rebecca Lord’s Gangbang Girl 14 for what must be the 100th time.


I fast forward or skip a lot, by the way, so don’t imagine that I have actually spent 100 hours watching this flick. As I have written before, I don’t actually have a whole lot of interest in watching pussies being penetrated, so I always skip past these segments.


Let me talk about my thoughts; they’re much in line with this topic that I’ve started.


Age is just unfair to women. We’re most attractive and most sexually ready when we’re least horny.


Gangbang Girl 14 shows very young women, (Rebecca was 21 and Vanessa was only 19), being fucked silly by lots of construction workers.


But as much as that old flick turns me on so much now, I can hardly imagine any girl of that age actually wanting what Rebecca and Vanessa went through. Nobody in my social circle would have exhibited the delight and willingness that Vanessa exhibited in GBG14, at the tender age of 19. Even if we were offered a considerable amount of money to do anal, I find it hard to imagine any of us taking cock after cock in the ass when we were 19. It takes a girl with very little self respect, who is used to surrendering her body for men’s pleasure, to build up that kind of anal experience that allows you to get assfucked by a stream of hung guys.


At 19, nearly all females just want to find love. We didn’t want to be fucked silly by aggressive construction worker brutes. We wanted intimacy and gentle guys with soft skin and long hair and melodious voices.


Men watch that flick to enjoy fucking Vanessa Chase. But for women, I sense none or very few of us are Vanessa Chase. I think most women would be like me, identifying with Rebecca Lord instead.


Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy watching Vanessa Chase being fucked silly. I’m sure most women on this site would want to be in Vanessa Chase’s shoes. I have my fuckbunny fantasies too, of being cute and sexy and the lustful subject of so many men’s attention.


But it is only in our forties that we can fantasize about being Vanessa Chase, young and sexy again. When we were 19, I’m pretty sure all of us, including the girls who had already done anal, would be totally freaked out at the idea of being anally plowed nonstop in a situation where you were under very strong pressure to submit no matter how painful it got. Hardly any girl at 19 would be ready for that kind of treatment Vanessa got.


I first watched GBG14 in my late 20s. Just five or six years ago, I would have been utterly turned off. Even during my first few viewings, I wasn’t that interested. I only briefly skipped through my first viewing. I kept this flick in my porn collection, but I think I didn’t watch it for one or two more years after my first viewing. I occasionally watched it in my thirties. It was only in the last few years that I have watched it more frequently, and with less skips.


Only many years after the flick first came out, I finally watched this from start to end, and realized some things about myself.


For one, even age hasn’t changed certain sexual preferences of mine. I’m really not a fan of watching repetitive penetrations.


For another, I actually want something nonporn out of this infamous porn flick. I want to see more of Rebecca Lord. And I don’t mean more Rebecca Lord in action. I’m actually quite satisfied with her action in this flick. I want to see more of her facial expressions when Vanessa Chase was being fucked.


Eventually I asked a friend of mine who had also watched this movie. This led to a very frank conversation with another two other women; all of us were over 40 and educated.


All of us actually identified with Rebecca. And we all really wished we could see more Rebecca. Not having more sex, but we just wanted the camera to zoom out so that we could see Rebecca in the scene and observe how she reacted to things and her interactions with the men.


I guess age and lowered estrogen don’t change our feminine essentials.


Actual sexual performance isn’t as important as the social context and the environment for women. (to be continued)


THank you for this insightful commentary
 
(continued) The camera rarely showed us what Rebecca was up to when Vanessa was on the ground getting fucked. But I just loved Rebecca. That’s me, that’s me, that’s me, my brain is telling myself!


Earlier on we (or the male viewers) were already treated to the sight of Rebecca spreading her legs. I loved these panty flashes. That was a nice detail. Because if I’m ever going to be with another girl, both of us casually flashing our panties in a public area, that would mean we were getting ready to be picked up for group sex. It helps prep me.


As much as I want women power and better treatment for women and an end to double standards, there are so many cases when a woman complains of unwanted sexual attention, that I feel she brought that attention on herself.


Men are visual creatures. And women are fully aware of how they look. I hardly wear any makeup and I dress down routinely (and often in men’s clothes), but I am still aware of how I look to others. Women always have a sense of how men react to their dress style.


When Rebecca chose to visit a construction site in a backless summer dress, no bra and lacy panties, she was already offering implied consent to sexual attention. Nobody is forsing her to go to the construction site.


In a way, Rebecca was fulfilling a certain inner need for many women. We want to be taken by strong, dominant men. So we create circumstances where strong, dominant men would react to us. Do you think Rebecca and Vanessa would have gotten sexual attention, if they had shown up at the construction site dressed like Hillary Clinton or in policewomen’s uniforms?


But the fact that Rebecca shook off male hands, retreated and backed herself against a pillar was also so real for me. I could see myself at that age, wanting sex but also feeling so intimidated. I would have not resisted the initial touches. But when the men started crowding, I would have fled to a safer place.


I just loved the expressions on Rebecca’s face and how she brushed off Dick Nasty’s advances. Things were moving too fast for Rebecca.


But at some point, Rebecca’s inhibitions snap. Suddenly she can’t take it anymore. Vanessa had been fucked many times by then, and guys had cummed several times on her face and her ass. The fact that Vanessa had survived letting multiple guys ream her until they came, would have told me that it’s really quite ok. I won’t get hurt doing this.


This feels so real for me. I didn’t hear any directions being given, but I would have spontaneously reacted the same way.


Rebecca came forward and licked the sperm off Vanessa’s ass. This is both disgusting, and so sexual. Rebecca was essentially telling the guys that she wants their semen. Her inhibitions had just broken down like a dam bursting.


You guys just gotta accept it; real women use nonverbal cues to signal what they want. Licking semen off another woman's butt is a very explicit and forceful way of saying they want sex. A less explicit way might just be to lick her lips. Most women aren't going to talk like pornstars: "I wanna get fucked, fuck me!" The pornstar way of talking is so bizarre and unnatural to me.


Earlier in the scene, it took quite a bit of foreplay before Vanessa got on her knees, and her clothes were progressively and gently removed. But when Rebecca starts, she drops to her knees and pulls off her dress in a hurry. I can’t tell you how natural that looked. I doubt if the men directing this flick would have known about acting nuances. It was just Rebecca finding that she can’t take it anymore; she wanted sex too!


This is so... me. I identify so much with Rebecca in this scene.
Ahhh more insight into a woman’s psychology
 
I am a thirty something soccer mom. My husband is 8 years older than me. He insisted on having a V-Job after our 2nd ******* was born. I know it's probably a psychological issue, but I have a need to feel a man shoot warm thick semen with live sperm into me. Just the thought of being full of live sperm that will live in my warm wetness for up to 4 days makes me so hot!
. Susan wants the same. She loves the BBC too but she really likes it when they cum inside her. Probably a nature thing ie procreation. Susan likes the lust and passion and endurance of the young blacks studs but she enjoys the mature black men too. But I can tell she enjoys having the black bull semen inside her. She still gets a thrill walking around other people. And if they only knew what she was doing.
 
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