Bulls forsing whiteboys to suck their big black cock in front the wife

It does appear that your boyfriend wants to do it, but couldn't unless he has a way to absolve himself of the responsibility of choosing to become a cocksucker. This is a major emotional trauma for any man. Just trying to cope with the awareness that he has this desire is difficult enough for him, let alone the knowledge that you know he wants to do it as well.

Does he want to be ****** to do it? Probably, however, it would be wrong of you to truly ******* him even though you both know he wants to do it. If you just do it as the other girl did, you stand a chance of him not being able to forgive you (really himself) for doing it.

You need to talk with him and tell him that this is something you would really like to see him to do for you and that you will love him no matter what he decides, even if he won't do it for you.
Then ask him if there is some way that you could help him get over his fear of doing it and help him relax enough to enjoy trying it. If he says he doesn't know, that's OK.
Ask him if he would hate you and never forgive you if you tied him up so that he couldn't refuse to do it. If he says he doesn't know, reassure him that you will never do that unless he wants you to and then leave it alone.

The discussion I just described does three things. It gives him permission to do it and it let's him know that you are OK with the idea of him sucking cock, that you won't reject him because he is now a cocksucker.
Secondly, it gives him another reason to do it: to make you happy. Now he isn't doing it just to satisfy his own "perverted" desire, but to please the woman he loves.
Third, it instills in his mind a way that he could possibly face his fear of doing it by relinquishing control and PERMITTING you to "*******" him into it. He doesn't need to agree to suck a cock, he just needs to agree to be "******" to do it. Sounds stupid, but it makes a difference in the mind of the person struggling to do what they really want to do.

After the discussion don't press the issue, but occasionally allude to it when an appropriate opportunity arises.
If you are watching porn together and a you see a tasty looking cock, you might ask him if he likes it as well and say how hot it would be to watch him sucking it for you.
You could use a black dildo to masturbate with in front of him and say something like you can't wait until he lets you tie him up so you watch him suck a cock like this one and ask him to lick your clit and hold the dildo so you can hump it. This will get him close to it and the thought of licking it as well.
You might try getting him to suck the dildo for you. Try putting between your legs sticking out as if it were a real cock and ask him to show you how he would suck a dick for you. Important that you reiterate that he is doing it for you.
If you are having a threesome, have him under you in a 69 licking your clit while your lover fucks you from behind so that he can sneak an occasional lick of your lovers cock while he sucks your clit. Just make sure your lover is OK with your boyfriend having contact with his cock before you do anything as not all bulls are OK with male contact.
Doing these things, along with his own desire should eventually break down his resistance and bring him around to letting go and take the plunge. If not, then it's not meant to be and you should just leave it alone and be happy that you have someone that you can cuckold and freely enjoy fucking others.

Has he been performing "clean up" duty after your lovers fuck you? If not, you should begin by getting him used to eating his own cum from you. The easiest way is to "snowball" with him, assuming you do give him blowjobs. Just keep some of his cum in your mouth and kiss him making sure he gets some of his cum. Once he becomes accustom to doing this, move up to having him clean up his cum by licking it from your cunt after fucking you.
Having him do this after your lover fucks you won't be that big a leap, although you may need to "snowball" him with your lovers cum first to break that barrier.

Another issue may be that he didn't want to do it in front of the other couple and black guy, so when he does agree to do it or to be "******" by being restrained, make sure that it is only the three of you and no audience present when he becomes a cocksucker for the first time as it will be a very heavy emotional moment for him.

Be sure ahead of time that your lover is OK with having your boyfriend suck his dick.

Lastly, when he does it, be very supportive and loving. Tell him how hot he looks doing it and what a good slut he is. Afterward let him know how happy you are that he did it for you.

Then your problem will be trying to get him to let go of your lovers cock long enough so you can have him fuck you with it.;)
Are you Dr Phil
 
While I agree that it is definitely a pretty big thing for a cuckold to experience, it isn't necessarily a "must" for all. Some achieve that level of obedience and caring without becoming a cocksucker for his lady.

Part of the reason that your boyfriend became more obedient and caring after servicing one of your lovers orally is that, by taking charge of your relationship and enabling him to explore and express his deeply rooted sexual submissiveness, you created a stronger bond with him. Having demonstrated that you accept him, his "dark needs" and that you still love him in spite of all the things he feared would cause you to stop caring about him, he can't help but love you all the more and want to please you.

Trust is one of the most important corner stones in the foundation of any relationship.
Dr Phil again
 
You missed the humor of irony that was intended.

Some friends of yours tell you that you have to come down to this ABS to get a blowjob at the glory hole there because whoever it is gives the best blowjobs in the world. Your curiosity gets the better of you along with your friends insistence and you go and stick your dick through the hole and get the best blowjob you ever had.
The next day you wake up and your kid brother hasn't come home all night and you see on the news that this ABS was closed down and everyone arrested for allowing a minor aged boy give oral sex at a glory hole there. Yep.

So do you truly believe that you have suddenly changed from being a hetrosexual who only desires sex with women to being a homosexual who only desires sex with other men?
Do you truly believe that you have become someone that desires sex with minors?
Do you truly believe that you have become someone who desires homosexual, ******* sex with his brother?

Does the fact that you may be guilty of committing all those "acts", albeit unknowingly and unintentionally, actually change who you are, what your desires are, what your sexuality is?
Dr Phil again
 
I am a black man and i love what this site promotes but another guy sucking another guys dick is straight up gay!!! If you like a guy sucking your dick then you are straight up gay!!! Faggot!! Homosexual!!! Stop tryna say it is about dominance, I want to dominate the white woman and hope her husband enjoys me pleasuring his wife. At no point in time is there any contact required with the man. If it happens, it is straight up gay!!
You are so right
 
Incorrect. Hetrosexual couples have been prosecuted under the same sodomy laws as homosexuals.




In some cases, especially where the wife is the dominant partner in the marriage, this is absolutely true.




I have many friends in the Gay Leather community and, as usual, they would disagree with their vanilla LGBT brothers and sisters. So what?
In any case, it's ALL psycho-babble including: "you can ot confine It within the walls of a fetish and call It something else " It Is what Is.The ultimate submissionIs to admit it.

Psycho-babble is what the human specie runs on. The truth about "it is what it is" lies in understanding what the "it" is when you seek to know what it is.

In your example, confining it (a homosexual act) within the walls of a fetish (cuckolding) does not change the fact that it (a homosexual act) is still a homosexual act. This is true. It is what it is.

In my example, confining it (a homosexual act) within the walls of a fetish (cuckolding) does not change the fact that it (a homosexual act) is still a homosexual act even though it (a homosexual act) was performed by a hetrosexual male. This is true. It is what it is.
We are in agreement that a homosexual act is just that regardless of the context in which it is performed.

However, where we disagree is in the belief that simply performing a homosexual act suddenly changes someones sexuality. Neither of our examples shows a change in the sexuality of those performing the acts.

A hetrosexual male with no desire to have sex with another man, sucks another man's cock as an act of submission in a D/s cuckolding relationship.
Afterward, he still has no desire to have sex with other men. Has committing the act changed his sexuality? No. Although he is now a cocksucker, he is still hetrosexual.
In my eyes it has it is not for the man to get pleasure if that's the situation he can go into a gay site as you can see nearly all the comments here are from males my black lover is not a poofter nor is my cucky
 
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