Virtually every Black Lover that I had a relationship with (as in saw them regularly versus fucked someone at a club or after hours club) shared me eventually. Acoouple of them actually whored me out (LOVED that!!).
None of the white guys I had affairs with ever shared me, except my Boss/Lover who asked me to "entertain" some potential Clients twice and to be a date for his best friend on New Years Eve.
He got angry after each time, said I "enjoyed it too much" and we had big fights...he was right, I LOVED being the "companty whore" and was hoping it would be a regular thing.
I really enjoyed being shared, didn't always tell hubby about it right away. not that he would likely have minded, it was just fun to have that to myself. J (the wife)